This is embarrasing but...

[Jay.]

It's easier to speak to people you don't know, people that you wont come into contact with in later life, people who aren't face-to-face. The pressure is relieved. I hope everyone here will respect that this is, infact, a serious problem, and I hope it is allowed.

I have read the forum specific rules and...

Sexual Content which is NOT ALLOWED

Describing or discussing sexual acts
Any images (including in situations listed in the "allowed" section.)
Graphic descriptions of sexual organs
Any sexual content that may offend and/or disturb other users.
Discussing non-health issues regarding sexual organs.
Telling of 'Sex stories'.

The NOT ALLOWED section states that you're not allowed to post about "Graphic descriptions of sexual organs" this is in fact about my penis, but I contacted a moderator, and he has no problem with me posting this. So, here goes... (I added it into a spoiler after much thought... If you are over the age of 16 or 18, idk, just, open the spoiler at your own free will.

I need someone who has had experience either ************ or someone who has had sexual intercourse. My pituitary gland has been damaged, somehow, and I am currently assigned to Growth Hormone, as well as having a shot of testosterone to, hopefully start my puberty. I have been diagnosed with delayed puberty, however the delayed puberty is, REALLY delayed. I was 5ft 1 at the age of 16, which is really bad. I am now 17, and I am 5ft 9 (or 10) and am REALLY happy. They wanted me to grow first, before starting to go through puberty, as you can't grow as much after puberty, or something like that. This has nothing to do with my problem (I don't think) but just incase, I think this could be the problem.

The shot of testosterone, I think, worked. Pubic hair growth has started, and I now ********** some days, meaning I am capable of ejaculating. However, I don't think the penis is at it's biggest, but I don't know. Anyway, as you know, there is the foreskin of the penis and the well, inside? When I am erect, there is a sort of "circle" or something, where I can see the inside of my penis. I cannot however, pull my foreskin right back (I think that happens during sexual intercourse, idk.) But, when I touch the inside of the penis, or anything else does, it hurts. This has lead me to think... This is bad. This is really bad. I've been putting sexual contact off with my girlfriend lately, because even if my bed sheet touches the inside, it REALLY hurts. I don't know why. I haven't been circumcised either.

My girlfriend has been discussing sexual intercourse. I've researched about sex, and I'm ready. I love her, and she loves me, she respects that I have to think about it, I don't want to go through with it like this though. What do I do? I'm hoping that seeing a GP is the LAST thing on my agenda. I think I read that it can be a little sensitive, but I have no idea. Someone said start touching it and it'll get used to it, but I'm afraid to go anywhere near it. This is really affecting my life, and I'm stressing out over this. Please, just please, no nasty comments either. If I do start to get teased or mocked by this, I think I'm just going to leave the forum, because, this is "no laughing matter". I also want to know, when the foreskin is pulled back during sex, does it hurt? Well, I know it does but, how much does it hurt? A lot?

Please, answer APPROPRIATELY!

Just realised, the filter caught me on a scientific word?!?!?
I don't want to avoid the filter, but lets just say "playing with myself" will go nicely. Begins with M, 10 letters, sometimes it can be said as 4 letters beginning with W.

[untrustus]

I also want to know, when the foreskin is pulled back during sex, does it hurt? Well, I know it does but, how much does it hurt? A lot?

it doesn't hurt.

[Jay.]

A friend told me that it hurts both the man and woman when you first loose your virginity.

[FlyingJesus]

You're taller now than either of us who've replied so far :P

Anyways, the size you can't really help, that's not something that'll change with the drugs generally as far as I'm aware (all those internet "grow 3 inches!!!" wonder pills are fakes and the only real way is through surgery) but the pain could be a real problem.
Not being able to pull back all the way is more common than you might think - I had that same problem a few years back (and still now doesn't go back on its own like many peoples' do), and a friend of mine only just recently got himself sorted, but that may actually be the cause of the pain. I was lucky enough with mine that it was never a massive problem, but it's entirely possible that due to the hygiene problems you can develop thrush which would probably make it rather less than fun.

Seeing a doctor really is the best thing you can do, especially if you've had other growth and health problems. Note that the foreskin thing isn't a big problem other than perhaps for hygiene and it doesn't HAVE to go back for sex, it's just that a lot of people's do it natural when erect. Also yeah the "inside" bit under the skin called the glans can be very sensitive but shouldn't really be painful just for a normal touch, and losing your virginity as a man isn't generally painful unless you're big and she's very tight

[MrRem]

A friend told me that it hurts both the man and woman when you first loose your virginity.

Your friend lied.
Sex doesn't hurt males unless the female isn't properly aroused.



It's easier to speak to people you don't know, people that you wont come into contact with in later life, people who aren't face-to-face. The pressure is relieved. I hope everyone here will respect that this is, infact, a serious problem, and I hope it is allowed.

I have read the forum specific rules and...


The NOT ALLOWED section states that you're not allowed to post about "Graphic descriptions of sexual organs" this is in fact about my penis, but I contacted a moderator, and he has no problem with me posting this. So, here goes... (I added it into a spoiler after much thought... If you are over the age of 16 or 18, idk, just, open the spoiler at your own free will.

I need someone who has had experience either ************ or someone who has had sexual intercourse. My pituitary gland has been damaged, somehow, and I am currently assigned to Growth Hormone, as well as having a shot of testosterone to, hopefully start my puberty. I have been diagnosed with delayed puberty, however the delayed puberty is, REALLY delayed. I was 5ft 1 at the age of 16, which is really bad. I am now 17, and I am 5ft 9 (or 10) and am REALLY happy. They wanted me to grow first, before starting to go through puberty, as you can't grow as much after puberty, or something like that. This has nothing to do with my problem (I don't think) but just incase, I think this could be the problem.

The shot of testosterone, I think, worked. Pubic hair growth has started, and I now ********** some days, meaning I am capable of ejaculating. However, I don't think the penis is at it's biggest, but I don't know. Anyway, as you know, there is the foreskin of the penis and the well, inside? When I am erect, there is a sort of "circle" or something, where I can see the inside of my penis. I cannot however, pull my foreskin right back (I think that happens during sexual intercourse, idk.) But, when I touch the inside of the penis, or anything else does, it hurts. This has lead me to think... This is bad. This is really bad. I've been putting sexual contact off with my girlfriend lately, because even if my bed sheet touches the inside, it REALLY hurts. I don't know why. I haven't been circumcised either.

My girlfriend has been discussing sexual intercourse. I've researched about sex, and I'm ready. I love her, and she loves me, she respects that I have to think about it, I don't want to go through with it like this though. What do I do? I'm hoping that seeing a GP is the LAST thing on my agenda. I think I read that it can be a little sensitive, but I have no idea. Someone said start touching it and it'll get used to it, but I'm afraid to go anywhere near it. This is really affecting my life, and I'm stressing out over this. Please, just please, no nasty comments either. If I do start to get teased or mocked by this, I think I'm just going to leave the forum, because, this is "no laughing matter". I also want to know, when the foreskin is pulled back during sex, does it hurt? Well, I know it does but, how much does it hurt? A lot?

Please, answer APPROPRIATELY!

Just realised, the filter caught me on a scientific word?!?!?
I don't want to avoid the filter, but lets just say "playing with myself" will go nicely. Begins with M, 10 letters, sometimes it can be said as 4 letters beginning with W.

As for your pain, it sounds like hyper sensitivity.
I don't recommend asking for medical advice here, especially given the young audience that will simply use Google rather than experience to answer your problem.

Arrange a consultation with your local GP and they will be able to direct you to the correct path to over come this.

Good luck :)

[Jay.]

Thanks a lot. This has really reassured me :P I'm actually quite happy at the moment LOL. I go back the specialist around November, I'll speak to them there. :D

[MrRem]

No worries Jay.

[Grippz]

There is nothing wrong with you down below. You're perfectly normal. It should not hurt when you retract the foreskin for someone that has started puberty as normal. But as you have said your a 'late bloomer' (if you like) and you're penis isn't ready for any sort of sexual activity as of yet. Just give it a while and see how it goes. Nothing wrong with you down below your body just isn't ready! Why not try some mutual mastúrbation if you're really wanting to have some sort of sexual activity with your girlfriend but seriously Your just not ready. Nothing to worry about! Give yourself some more time, Sounds like those injections are working.

Good luck!

[Jay.]

There is nothing wrong with you down below. You're perfectly normal. It should not hurt when you retract the foreskin for someone that has started puberty as normal. But as you have said your a 'late bloomer' (if you like) and you're penis isn't ready for any sort of sexual activity as of yet. Just give it a while and see how it goes. Nothing wrong with you down below your body just isn't ready! Why not try some mutual mastúrbation if you're really wanting to have some sort of sexual activity with your girlfriend but seriously Your just not ready. Nothing to worry about! Give yourself some more time, Sounds like those injections are working.

Good luck!

Thanks a lot :D +rep

[Xoim]

Ima put my answer in a spoiler xD

Im 15... And can pull it all the way back...
You could consider getting circumsised.
But I mean... it isn't that hard to do, it does hurt for the first few times. but if you get through the pain you will be flying.
I must stress this.
If you use a condom (which you should Mister!) they latex should ease off the forskin.

The forskin is higly adaptable.
And tbh I was worried about this about not being able to pull back.
But I was researching on some websites.
And if you use a type of lube or while your in the shower attepmt to pull it back as far as you can bur not so much as it hurts.

As you may feel pain.
But just keep trying I htough I couldn't And I can :)

Also The average size off a penis is 6" so if your worried about penis size and your 5-6 you shouldn't.

This is the most appropriate answer I can give in this situation.

Edit: I've never had sex but A few off my friends have so... yeah xD
Also... If a mod feels I am avoiding rules. I am not I am merely helping someone out just saying Loool!

Hope this helped :)

[JACKTARD]

maybe you could go on google images and get a detailed drawing of one - not pornography - like scientific one.

It shouldnt hurt to pull it back.

I'm 15 and 5'9" ish

average penis length is 6 inches

err, hope my short answer helped ;)

[Technologic]

The glans is just sensitive an all, it would be weird if it didnt hurt when you poked at it.

[Jay.]

I don't poke around with it *****! Just one little touch and it hurts.

[untrustus]

You're taller now than either of us who've replied so far :P

FYI tom: i am a beanpole.

[FlyingJesus]

Hush you were 5'7" last I knew and no-one ever grows if I don't it's illegal

Also for those on about other sizes, 5 is the "real" average - that's as measured by the testers, the 6" theory comes from a test where people just told the researchers how big they were (and how truthful are people gonna be lol). In fact considering that those with really small ones aren't likely to go get themselves measured for fun, the true average is probably even less than 5"

[Bun]

cba writing a long answer cos i gotta go to college but seriously your fine, you did the right thing by getting it checked out. also if the foreskin is a problem consider a circumsization. it's cleaner blah blah blah.

[MrRem]

I would still go to the Doctors' Jay as the sensitivity you are feeling isn't normal.

[DJ-Ains.T]

just don't have sex or tug... simple

[MrRem]

just don't have sex or tug... simple

Thats like being asked to not breathe for some people!

[DJ-Ains.T]

i know, but, if it hurts that much, there are some things you've got to let go of.

[MrRem]

LAWL.

But yeah.
The solution isn't to ignore it but to get the right diagnosis from a qualified GP :)

[DJ-Ains.T]

ignore it or get touched up by an asian

the choice is yours

[Jay.]

What if my doctor is asian? LOL

Did some research. Found out A LOT.

I heard that I need to ********** more and keep my glans unexposed for a while. I also need to practise holding ejaculation in, and not to ejaculate prematurely. And that's what I intend to do! :D

My goal is to ********** at least once a day, and for at least 20 mins before ejaculating.

[untrustus]

Hush you were 5'7" last I knew and no-one ever grows if I don't it's illegal

Also for those on about other sizes, 5 is the "real" average - that's as measured by the testers, the 6" theory comes from a test where people just told the researchers how big they were (and how truthful are people gonna be lol). In fact considering that those with really small ones aren't likely to go get themselves measured for fun, the true average is probably even less than 5"
literally don't even know how you know how tall i am.
*removed*

Edited by Jamesy (Forum Moderator): Please do not avoid the forum filter.

[AlexOC]

The average is 3".

They said on Embarrasing Bodies.

[Jay.]

I'm about 5. Somewhere around there. :$

[untrustus]

The average is 3".

They said on Embarrasing Bodies.
erect?

[Kronics]

It all takes time at the end of the day mate, im sure your not the only one. Probably by the time your 20 or younger hopefully it will be fine. It's absolutely nothing to worry about, a few of my mates had it. Now it's just normal, I hope this helps somehow? :)

[AlexOC]

erect?

nope..

[MrRem]

The average is 3".

They said on Embarrasing Bodies.

At first I laughed at this concept.
And then I got onto trusty old NetDoctor.


A non-erect penis usually measures between 8.5cm and 10.5cm (3-4 inches) from tip to base.

This means the great majority of penises measure between 15cm and 18cm (6-7 inches) when erect, with the average figure being about 16.5cm (6.5 inches).

Source: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/penissize.htm


Well there you go, you learn something every day!

[FlyingJesus]

That's a load of bull lol, erect size has nothing to do with soft size - sometimes you can get them where the actual size isn't much increased by an erection at all and some that rocket from a baby's toe to a baby's arm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etKVfmUXdw8

Educational

[Jay.]

The averages are normally done when erect because, like FlyingJesus said, when the penis is flaccid, (soft) it can either grow loads, a little, or not at all when erect.

I've been researching. ;)

[Meree.]

All I know is, one of my friends had a similar problem, and so did my brother. They had to have to Foreskin removed due to it. But yours might be a different case. As i'm a girl, I wouldn't know what else to say. But I hope you get this sorted soon, and best of luck to you and your girlfriend.

[Wyked]

Keep on tuggin' my brotha

gently does it :), bit at a time mate

[LuketheDuke]

Lionel Messi had the same problem as you mate and hes gone on to become the greatest football players in the world. Who knows you might go on to be one of the greatest lovers in the world!

The more you worry about that department the more there seems wrong with it, take your time, relax and see what happens.

[Metric1]

You should be able to retract your foreskin over your glans not only for pleasure, but for cleanliness. You should run yourself a hot bath and soak in it for a while, this will make your foreskin softer and easier to retract. You can also use soap or some sort of lubricant to help as well, just make sure it won't irritate your glans, you don't want it stuck behind there and unable to get out! I think if you continue to pleasure yourself your foreskin will loosen up and retract all the way over your glans, just make sure you wash underneath your foreskin because you don't want ****** (**** cheese) to form underneath there!!!

As for the sex, you should wait until you can fully retract your foreskin not only for your pleasure but for the prevention of pregnancy. To use a condom correctly you retract your foreskin and then roll the condom over the exposed tip of your penis. Without the foreskin retracted you risk the condom coming off during intercourse and semen possibly spilling into her vagina causing an unwanted pregnancy. Also, the sex will feel better with the foreskin retracted because your glans are very sensitive and having them exposed will make the sex much more intense and better.

Also, sex (at least for me) did not hurt the first time for me, or any other time for that matter. If sex is hurting for the male he either isn't doing it correctly, or his partner is into bondage. If it hurts for her use lubricant and use your fingers, or mouth, to help loosen up her vagina. If it continues to hurt, do it over a few nights until you're finally able to get your penis inside her and break her hymen. For now stick to oral sex and diddling, your time will come!!

[Soy]

not uncommon in teens to have foreskin problems, you can either stretch it over time or surgery is always an option, in most cases your foreskin will not be fully removed, they are alternatives

[iAdam]

From what you've described it's perfectly normal, it will begin to dissapear over time. If you are genuinley very worried, then contact the specialist I'm sure they won't mind reassuring you about all of this.

Adam.

[Kyle!]

From what you've described it's perfectly normal, it will begin to dissapear over time. If you are genuinley very worried, then contact the specialist I'm sure they won't mind reassuring you about all of this.

Adam.

This. I had it when I was 11 or 12 and it gradually just went away.

[iAdam]

As sad as I am, just looked through some of my old notes on this sort of stuff.

Sensitivity is usually very high during puberty, especially where you have described. It is common in a variety of people and is nothing to worry about, it mostly dissapears after around the 6 month mark but has been known in some cases to last just slightly longer. SI is fine while it is in that state, although it may hurt quite alot.