my first relationship advice thread haa

[leah]

Welllllll

A month or so ago I went to a party, and I saw this guy there that i'd never seen before. We ended up getting together and afterwards I felt quite attached to him. (I don't usually feel attached to guys after getting with them, which I found a little weird). It turns out he goes to my college, and when we went back I saw him loads. He's friends with my friends and whenever I see him around college we always look at eachother, catch ourselves looking at eachother and look away.

I don't overly obsessively like him, but I just would like to get to know him more? I'm really shy around guys and I haven't spoke to him since either but I see him all the time and it's weird the way we look at eachother at the same time and stuff lol

Thing is, I got with one of his mates a few weeks ago and he found out, and apparantly he was like "oh..." and went all quiet when he found out lol... I don't wanna start a conversation with him or anything, just want advice on how I could get him to talk to me :)

Knock urselves out

[Blinger1]

Just talk to him? Surely it can't be that hard to walk up and say whassup? Or whatever your greetings is...

[Meanies]

1. stop ******* other guys
2. grow some balls. oh you have some, ignore this bit

[FlyingJesus]

Just be like oi Muslim cousin I'm preggo with your kid and everyone at HxF knows so best start paying child support

Don't blame him looking away when he realises he's looking at you tbh but what are you on about not wanting a conversation but wanting him to talk to you that makes so little sense and if he's not gonna talk (which looks to be the case) then you not starting a conversation isn't exactly going to work wonders

Just try like getting his number and sending dirty pictures of your forehead or something, or if that doesn't work just hang around the people he talks to and you've got to get included at some point surely

[Glitter]

the longer you leave it, the less likely anythings gonna happen again, just like start talking to him, like tom said with the whole group thing, and eventually you'll know eachother well enough just to be like HI. etc!

[Kyle]

Just be like oi Muslim cousin I'm preggo with your kid and everyone at HxF knows so best start paying child support

Don't blame him looking away when he realises he's looking at you tbh but what are you on about not wanting a conversation but wanting him to talk to you that makes so little sense and if he's not gonna talk (which looks to be the case) then you not starting a conversation isn't exactly going to work wonders

Just try like getting his number and sending dirty pictures of your forehead or something, or if that doesn't work just hang around the people he talks to and you've got to get included at some point surely

i agree with this. dirty pics of girls foreheads always make me want to talk to them.

[Spy,]

Welllllll

A month or so ago I went to a party, and I saw this guy there that i'd never seen before. We ended up getting together and afterwards I felt quite attached to him. (I don't usually feel attached to guys after getting with them, which I found a little weird). It turns out he goes to my college, and when we went back I saw him loads. He's friends with my friends and whenever I see him around college we always look at eachother, catch ourselves looking at eachother and look away.

I don't overly obsessively like him, but I just would like to get to know him more? I'm really shy around guys and I haven't spoke to him since either but I see him all the time and it's weird the way we look at eachother at the same time and stuff lol

Thing is, I got with one of his mates a few weeks ago and he found out, and apparantly he was like "oh..." and went all quiet when he found out lol... I don't wanna start a conversation with him or anything, just want advice on how I could get him to talk to me :)

Knock urselves out


well the one thing ive noticed when a girl wants me to talk to them when im talking to someone else or just to start a convo is they do the little poking ya stomach thing it bugs so then u end up turnign around and go what ? they go nothing and u carry on then they do it again and then sooner or later a convo starts lol

but really just start a convo maybe its him thats shy of talking to u as well so if u dont start a convo theres a chance he wont either just give it a shot what u got to lose ?

[iAdam]

Like people have said, just get talking to him. Failing that, he isn't interested in a relationship.

Try facebook/txting or whatever.

[leah]

Just talk to him? Surely it can't be that hard to walk up and say whassup? Or whatever your greetings is...
IM SCARED

1. stop ******* other guys
2. grow some balls. oh you have some, ignore this bit
lmao shut upppppppp

Just be like oi Muslim cousin I'm preggo with your kid and everyone at HxF knows so best start paying child support

Don't blame him looking away when he realises he's looking at you tbh but what are you on about not wanting a conversation but wanting him to talk to you that makes so little sense and if he's not gonna talk (which looks to be the case) then you not starting a conversation isn't exactly going to work wonders

Just try like getting his number and sending dirty pictures of your forehead or something, or if that doesn't work just hang around the people he talks to and you've got to get included at some point surely
LOL that made me laugh so much Tom ;)

the longer you leave it, the less likely anythings gonna happen again, just like start talking to him, like tom said with the whole group thing, and eventually you'll know eachother well enough just to be like HI. etc!
I know but im scaredd, my mates friends with him so im trying to do the group thing lol

i agree with this. dirty pics of girls foreheads always make me want to talk to them.
thought so

well the one thing ive noticed when a girl wants me to talk to them when im talking to someone else or just to start a convo is they do the little poking ya stomach thing it bugs so then u end up turnign around and go what ? they go nothing and u carry on then they do it again and then sooner or later a convo starts lol

but really just start a convo maybe its him thats shy of talking to u as well so if u dont start a convo theres a chance he wont either just give it a shot what u got to lose ?
he'd just think I was weird lol

Like people have said, just get talking to him. Failing that, he isn't interested in a relationship.

Try facebook/txting or whatever.
I have him on facebook! He was commenting on the same status as me the other day, I was well happy about it LOL

[Pyroka]

HERES AN IDEA, GO UP TO HIM, MAKE CONVERSATION.

Or even better, find out what he does outside of school like a hobby or something, maybe join in? I find it easier getting together with girls when we actually have something in common, not jsut meeting on the street. :P

[leah]

HERES AN IDEA, GO UP TO HIM, MAKE CONVERSATION.

Or even better, find out what he does outside of school like a hobby or something, maybe join in? I find it easier getting together with girls when we actually have something in common, not jsut meeting on the street. :P
ino hes into footy, and so am i ;) blates fate!
anddd he's going to a party that im going to this week so we'll see what happens (yn)

[adaym]

HERES AN IDEA, GO UP TO HIM, MAKE CONVERSATION.

Or even better, find out what he does outside of school like a hobby or something, maybe join in? I find it easier getting together with girls when we actually have something in common, not jsut meeting on the street. :P
so you and amy must have long conversations into the night about habbo then.

[Jack.Lfc]

Girls round here dont give one, i'm surrounded by them 24/7.

[Soy]

ino hes into footy, and so am i ;) blates fate!
anddd he's going to a party that im going to this week so we'll see what happens (yn)

hope you score :8

[leah]

I didn't see him all night :( and his mate started talking to me on facebook the other day hmmm

[CHA!NGANG]

Go upto him and say:

How U' Doin.

It works. Trust me.

Oh but don't forget the head nod or yaknow... you just look stupid.

[Ebbwie]

Basically, Try talking to him.
Try it on MSN, facebook, anywhere. I recently told a girl about my feeling towards her, and It took me 3 years to pluck up the courage. And I done it the Scardey way, By email. Without talking to him, your relatioship wont go anywhere, apart from down the drain. The harder you try, and the more you think about him, the more deturmined you will be to speak to him.

I know many people have already given this advice, but its the only thing and best thing to do.

[Pyroka]

so you and amy must have long conversations into the night about habbo then.

you have no idea lmaooooo

[JustDAVE]

I AM THE GUY YOU ARE POSTING ABOUT, AND I DONT LOOK AT YOU, I LOOK AT YOUR BREASTS IM SORRY!!!

Edited by iSarcastix: Please do not make posts which do not contribute to the topic, thank you.

[leah]

Go upto him and say:

How U' Doin.

It works. Trust me.

Oh but don't forget the head nod or yaknow... you just look stupid.
lmao someones been watching friends ;)

[Blinger1]

so have u chatted this guy up more yet?

[Metric1]

Did you have sex with him?