What would you do when..

[Meree.]

Not sure if this should be in here or relationships? But anyways.
So, I really like this guy, and he says he likes me too, he is always telling me he loves me, but then the next day, he seems like he doesn't and just says **** it, etc. But then a day later, says he loves me again. All of that stopped, but we still talked and then it seemed whenever he was in 'the mood' he always to know then. As if he just wanted me when he was 'horny' he says he doesnt, but how do I know that? He also flirts with another girl alot, and acts like he likes her, but says he doesnt and that he liked me. I really do like him. But things just keep screwing up. What should I do? Is it best to forget a person I havnt fallen for like this since a long time, or to just try to get through to him?

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[cocaine]

forget him, move onto someone else. carry on longer, you'll like him more and you'll just get hurt more eventually

[Meree.]

But the thing is he says he loves me, but he may not be lieing? I'm already more attatched to him, being I really like him. :(

[Bevvie]

Is this real life or online? :S

I think you should move on...

[cocaine]

But the thing is he says he loves me, but he may not be lieing? I'm already more attatched to him, being I really like him. :(

boys will tell you anything you want to hear

[Meree.]

boys will tell you anything you want to hear

Pretty true. But not ALL guys are like that. From what i've heard about him from people, he really does seem lovely. I think I should just see how much he really does like me. And ohi Bev :] Irl.

[cocaine]

sounds like you made a thread asking for advice but you won't actually take the advice lmao. from my point of view, and indeed someone elses' in this thread, i think you should move on

[Meree.]

sounds like you made a thread asking for advice but you won't actually take the advice lmao. from my point of view, and indeed someone elses' in this thread, i think you should move on

I do want to take the advice, I just want to see what people think from different points of prespective. Thanks anyway, +rep. I'll have a think before I decide on anything though. ;)

[Doug.]

It really sounds like he is using you. Find someone who will love you for who you are, and not for sex.

[Bevvie]

Pretty true. But not ALL guys are like that. From what i've heard about him from people, he really does seem lovely. I think I should just see how much he really does like me. And ohi Bev :] Irl.
HIYA.
Good thats it is not online this time. I hope this guy aint playing you.

[Meree.]

It really sounds like he is using you. Find someone who will love you for who you are, and not for sex.

I was thinking it sounded pretty much the same. Im talking to him now, and he is worried about me cos I keep drinking and stuff. He does seem to care at points, but at other points not. hmm, +rep.

[Meree.]

Hah, yeah. I usually tend to fall for guys online as they seem to understand you more, but then you come to realise, it just aint gonna happen. And yeah, same :(


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[Grig]

It's a big world out there with many guys is all I will say, think about it wisely.

[Bevvie]

Hah, yeah. I usually tend to fall for guys online as they seem to understand you more, but then you come to realise, it just aint gonna happen. And yeah, same :(
Yeah i suppose.
But you can't really fall in love with them until you meet them in real life. They might be a different person and have a bad side. Aww bless you. :(

You do get some guys who just say i love you and all that crap, but they dont really mean it. I think hes playing on you. Hmm maybe get to know him better and see if he is really worth it? But to me he sounds like an idiot and you should move on.

[Meree.]

Yeah i suppose.
But you can't really fall in love with them until you meet them in real life. They might be a different person and have a bad side. Aww bless you. :(

You do get some guys who just say i love you and all that crap, but they dont really mean it. I think hes playing on you. Hmm maybe get to know him better and see if he is really worth it? But to me he sounds like an idiot and you should move on.

I think i'd be making a bad decision saying I wanted to move on from him. He means alot to me, and he just doesn't realise it. Or so it seems? And as for Grigs post, what do you mean?

[Grig]

Oh probably a real idiot indeed Bev. I quite think so, it is a tricky one, particularly on online relationships such as this. Though I agree, you need to know this guy more before jumping into anything.

Well you could have many other guys in real life, that's what I meant :)

[Meree.]

Oh probably a real idiot indeed Bev. I quite think so, it is a tricky one, particularly on online relationships such as this. Though I agree, you need to know this guy more before jumping into anything.

Well you could have many other guys in real life, that's what I meant :)

What if I didnt want anyone else.

[Bevvie]

What if I didnt want anyone else.
You will find someone better. Trust me!
You have ages lol.

[Doug.]

I have never had an online relationship, so I guess I dont understand it entirely. But if he is treating you like this, it seems like you should just ditch him and move on. I know it sounds hard, but your young. You kids rebound fast. Best of luck.

[Meree.]

You will find someone better. Trust me!
You have ages lol.

But I mean now.... I dont want anyone else.

[Grig]

Sometimes things don't come instantly. I think patience is a very important game that anyone can play.

[Meree.]

Sometimes things don't come instantly. I think patience is a very important game that anyone can play.

I know that, which is why I dont want to say to him that I want to actually BE with him..

[despect]

not being rude.. this may seem to be taken the wrong way but sometimes life don't have happy endings i say if you like him and he says he loves you.. then tell him about it?

[Meree.]

not being rude.. this may seem to be taken the wrong way but sometimes life don't have happy endings i say if you like him and he says he loves you.. then tell him about it?

He knows I like him, i've told him several times. But I don't know if he likes me? He's told me a few times sure, but sometimes I don't know whether he's changed his mind on it what? And yeah, I get what you mean James.

[Grig]

If you're not sure talk to him or I would say maybe move on if you just don't know. As I said earlier, plenty of guys out there :).

[despect]

He knows I like him, i've told him several times. But I don't know if he likes me? He's told me a few times sure, but sometimes I don't know whether he's changed his mind on it what? And yeah, I get what you mean James.

Hmm if i was you i'd maybe let it go?.. i mean if he liked you back you would of like got together before then, probably not the answer you wanted but i guess you cant be pleased all the time?

[Meree.]

I'd talk to him, but after what I just heard; it seems like he doesn't want me to like him.

[Grig]

Well don't judge based on assumptions, that's never the way to go. If you are quite certain that this person may not be as fond of you as you are of him- then move on, I'm sure you can meet better guys. He is probably some idiot who can't express himself or making you live on assumtion. Yet again, who knows without you speaking to him.

[Meree.]

Well don't judge based on assumptions, that's never the way to go. If you are quite certain that this person may not be as fond of you as you are of him- then move on, I'm sure you can meet better guys. He is probably some idiot who can't express himself or making you live on assumtion. Yet again, who knows without you speaking to him.

Assumption just proved me right im afraid

[wixard]

this is about grig yeah isn't it meree????


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[Grig]

LOL if it is, it is quite sad indeed.

[Gemma]

Not sure if this should be in here or relationships? But anyways.
So, I really like this guy, and he says he likes me too, he is always telling me he loves me, but then the next day, he seems like he doesn't and just says **** it, etc. But then a day later, says he loves me again. All of that stopped, but we still talked and then it seemed whenever he was in 'the mood' he always to know then. As if he just wanted me when he was 'horny' he says he doesnt, but how do I know that? He also flirts with another girl alot, and acts like he likes her, but says he doesnt and that he liked me. I really do like him. But things just keep screwing up. What should I do? Is it best to forget a person I havnt fallen for like this since a long time, or to just try to get through to him?

Opinions? Please no trolling :( +rep for good answers. Thanks XX

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LOL @ WHO IT IS AND WHO THAT GIRL IS *hints*
Tbh, Meree you know the situation and what happened the day when "acts like he likes her, but says he doesnt and that he liked me" there were some exceptions to the circumstances of that day after he was told fake info *cough* ;l. Anyway, discuss it with him and see what he really thinks ;).

[Gemma]

Also on the internet be careful of the phrase "I love you" or anything like that, it's ususally used as/in friendship, not meaning anything more. Also used to not seem rude, not like anyone would say I hate you. It doesnt usually mean that they really love you. My point hardly makes sense, but I hope you somehow got my drift ;) e-flirting is generally just joking around.

[Grig]

Oh absolutly, this is a virtual world, you don't know who the person on the other side is. You don't know how he really is from a 5 minute MSN conversation etc. to some words can be powerful, to others they can be used as a tool. This tool may give pain the people.

[wiktoria]

This made me laugh Irl.

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[Bevvie]

I know wiki. xx

lolol oh dear at who it is.. I thought you said it was real life. :rolleyes:

[cocaine]

oh wait, is it an online thing?

[wixard]

oh wait, is it an online thing?

yeah she is in love with grig

[cocaine]

oh god. internet relationships are the worst things ever i can't stand them. they always end up failing and people are suprised when they get hurt. op, save yourself now and just find someone in real life, please..?

[Meree.]

Already done ;)

[cocaine]

you managed to find someone since 7pm yesterday? someones been chirpsing ;) *hi5*

[Calvin]

what.. do you know jordos50 irl?

[wixard]

what.. do you know jordos50 irl?



hahahahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

meree you are such a player :) from now on i'll ask you for relationship advice

[Meree.]

me and jordos50 are friends? i ment already done as moved on. not moved on and with someone else, LOL

[hah]

yes jake loves you

[Immenseman]

lol gerrout!!

meree u pull so many guys srsly u actually always have someone else on the go

i think u shud try and stay with someone

edit; oh aww it's grig?? i wonder why you both went quiet when i came on skype wid u other day, unlike u ;l makes sense now

[Lindsey]

Hunni, i have been in the same place. , been there done that...

Think about it, right now hes flirting with you and another girl.. ,

What would happen if you were with him, do you think he would be loyal ? Just think about it. Honestly i would move on,



xoxo
Hazy