Have you ever been in love?

[Immenseman]

Well yeah, have you? If so, how did you know it was the big l-o-v-e?

[Meree.]

I'd say yes. But only once. To be in love doesn't happen alot in my life. I was in a 3 year relationship, and yeah I guess you could say we were in love.

[cocaine]

naw, im scared of being in love bigting.

[buttons]

I'd say yes. But only once. To be in love doesn't happen alot in my life. I was in a 3 year relationship, and yeah I guess you could say we were in love.
ONLY twice?
no. my only serious serious relationship i thought it was possible i was but looking back i don't think so. so many people think they are or say they are but i doubt it really

[Meree.]

naw, im scared of being in love bigting.

Same really, never seems to end well. :/ & No Jen, only once, LOL.

[iAdam]

When I was there, I thought I was, now I look back, I was being a mappet.

[Lindsey]

I thought i was, but then he became to be a right down *** hole.., never wanna see him again . :eusa_wall

[Martin]

There have been people who I have "fancied" a lot/had a crush on, but I'm far too shy to ever act upon those feelings! :P Never been in a relationship.

[Meree.]

There have been people who I have "fancied" a lot/had a crush on, but I'm far too shy to ever act upon those feelings! :P Never been in a relationship.

That's just the cutest thing to be honest. :)

[Hecktix]

mhmm yeah :)

[Immenseman]

how do you know oli?! define love for me... i defo haven't ever been in love, not even close. obviously i love my family but you get me. a lot of my buddiez have been like "im in love" and then they realise they're not lol

[Abbie.]

yes with my boyfriend :) i know its love because he means everything to me!

[Immenseman]

would you die for him :O

[Abbie.]

not that id ever have too.. but yea i suppose?

[Immenseman]

i know, just testing ;l adorable. I WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE :( lol

[Hecktix]

how do you know oli?! define love for me... i defo haven't ever been in love, not even close. obviously i love my family but you get me. a lot of my buddiez have been like "im in love" and then they realise they're not lol

I always see love as feelings towards people you like in any manner, you can love someone but in different ways, obviously.

But here we are talking about being in love, the girl I was completely in love with I fell for a longggg time before we got together, we never really realised what it was, we just had a mutual care for eachother to start with which became quite developed when we both helped eachother through very hard situations. I had quite a dramatic break up in July 2008 and this girl was there for me then, I was an absolute mess but she'd text me every day asking me how I was etc, just being a good friend, then we fell for eachother in the "lust" sort of way, she was always an attractive girl but Id been with my girlfriend for over a year :P but after she helped me through that we became very attracted to eachother and one thing led to another, we were only together 5 months when in the end we both made silly mistakes.

One of my strongest beliefs about love is that you never truly fall out of it, this particular girl ended up turning her back on me for a few months and it absolutely killed me. It did us good though because we had started arguing a lot and stuff and forgotten about our feelings really. Some of the stuff she did was pretty harsh and all my friends hate the fact I talk to her again, but I'd still do pretty much anything for that girl & she'd still do pretty much anything for me, if we can get through what happened (which I won't divulge) and still care for eachother after it as much as we cared going into it (just without all the other feelings a relationship requires), I think that one could say we were in love at our peak.

[FlyingJesus]

When you're in a relationship it's easy to think you are, and if you're lucky that feeling stays and all goes well etc etc but I think the real test is if you do break up how you look back at it (not right away of course, after time). I'd say I'm lucky enough to have experienced what I'd call true love and I still believe that's what it was 3 years after.. damn I'm old lol.. but it really was just the once. Been others who I thought I loved and maybe did but wasn't really in love with, which is a massive difference even if it is only one you can see with hindsight

[Sammeth.]

I think I've been in love. Only once, but then again I've only ever had one serious relationship, and one boyfriend. He meant the world to me and I literally couldn't envision what life would be without him in the future. I felt utterly devoted to him, and I think I probably would have done anything for him. But still, I think when we broke up was the true testament to what I think is love. Six months down the line I'm still not over him, and I do really miss him pretty much everyday. But it just wasn't meant to be. One day I'lll get over it innit.

I'm sickened with lonliness right now, and currently I love someone, or really I love my vision of who someone is, which is a complete different scenario to true love. This is like highschool crush love, and just being doteful (if thats even a word) on my own imagination, rather than someones actual demeanour (IDC ABOUT SPELLING) :'(

On top of that, love is gay.

[Pyroka]

I don't think I've ever been truly in love with someone, probably just infatuation, I mean idk. As ppl say they look back and see it's not love, is it us decieving ourselves into thinking we are?

Goes all inteldcgual *+*+* haha ghat failed

[TheEclipse]

I am now. I feel happy and safe around him. I love being with him, he's attractive, and I can see myself being with him for the future. He's not perfect but I still like him.

I've been in love before but it was unhealthy, I had all the above but I was also very unhappy about the situation and also rather obsessive. Obsession, constantly thinking about a person, does not mean you are in love.

[luce]

yeah I have but we were never together and he was so much older then me but i loved him in a non sexual way but he has just moved to scotland with his wife but we talked for hours and hours everyday and we e-mail all the time. so i don't know if this is the type of love you are talking about LOL but it was because i miss him more then i have ever missed any of my boyfriends or any friend that i have had to leave.

erm and on the boyfriend front yeah i said i was but now i look back i don't think it was it could have been but i don't know we're on and off to muc to fall in love i reckon :)

[Jay.]

I am in love.

[LuketheDuke]

have been for 4 years no joke, why else would a teen romance last so long if it wasnt the real thing?

ive wrecked it and gotta live with it now, painful.

[leah]

how do you know oli?! define love for me... i defo haven't ever been in love, not even close. obviously i love my family but you get me. a lot of my buddiez have been like "im in love" and then they realise they're not lol
i hope tobias isn't

I always see love as feelings towards people you like in any manner, you can love someone but in different ways, obviously.

But here we are talking about being in love, the girl I was completely in love with I fell for a longggg time before we got together, we never really realised what it was, we just had a mutual care for eachother to start with which became quite developed when we both helped eachother through very hard situations. I had quite a dramatic break up in July 2008 and this girl was there for me then, I was an absolute mess but she'd text me every day asking me how I was etc, just being a good friend, then we fell for eachother in the "lust" sort of way, she was always an attractive girl but Id been with my girlfriend for over a year :P but after she helped me through that we became very attracted to eachother and one thing led to another, we were only together 5 months when in the end we both made silly mistakes.

One of my strongest beliefs about love is that you never truly fall out of it, this particular girl ended up turning her back on me for a few months and it absolutely killed me. It did us good though because we had started arguing a lot and stuff and forgotten about our feelings really. Some of the stuff she did was pretty harsh and all my friends hate the fact I talk to her again, but I'd still do pretty much anything for that girl & she'd still do pretty much anything for me, if we can get through what happened (which I won't divulge) and still care for eachother after it as much as we cared going into it (just without all the other feelings a relationship requires), I think that one could say we were in love at our peak.
aw was that kate? I was a well big help 2k10 :D

When you're in a relationship it's easy to think you are, and if you're lucky that feeling stays and all goes well etc etc but I think the real test is if you do break up how you look back at it (not right away of course, after time). I'd say I'm lucky enough to have experienced what I'd call true love and I still believe that's what it was 3 years after.. damn I'm old lol.. but it really was just the once. Been others who I thought I loved and maybe did but wasn't really in love with, which is a massive difference even if it is only one you can see with hindsight
e m a ?

yeah I have but we were never together and he was so much older then me but i loved him in a non sexual way but he has just moved to scotland with his wife but we talked for hours and hours everyday and we e-mail all the time. so i don't know if this is the type of love you are talking about LOL but it was because i miss him more then i have ever missed any of my boyfriends or any friend that i have had to leave.

erm and on the boyfriend front yeah i said i was but now i look back i don't think it was it could have been but i don't know we're on and off to muc to fall in love i reckon :)
mr hughes? LOL

I am in love.
kali :D

hmm this is a hard one, because it's hard to know what "love" actually is, going by what others in this thread have said I believe so, but I think it's hard to completely tell at this age being less experienced.

[Nixt]

Yeah, just once. Realised I was in love because he was actually ugly and a **** and yet I stayed with him and fought to be with him constantly. But yeah seriously you kinda just know you have this immense feeling and you just can't appreciate living with out them.

[Glitter]

I don't think i have tbf.. infatuation yes.. but love, probably not.

[Blinger1]

I was. I could imagine baby blingers with her.

[Bun]

yeah i'm in love, it's really hard to describe though.

[leah]

Yeah, just once. Realised I was in love because he was actually ugly and a **** and yet I stayed with him and fought to be with him constantly. But yeah seriously you kinda just know you have this immense feeling and you just can't appreciate living with out them.

and when I told you he was a mong you had a go at me and now you can actually admit it, i'm proud of you :)!

Yeah love is hard to describe ^

[Hiro]

No. Infatuation, yes. Love, No.

[Swearwolf]

yesssssssssssss

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[Metric1]

Time will tell when we go to school together next year. Right now, I'm in love but I don't know what defines "in love", so all I can say is I LOVE JENNIFER.

[leah]

No. Infatuation, yes. Love, No.

were you not in love with jade? your cat? immi? :O :D
ash i swear you've been with jenn for ages so you probably could love her :}

[Metric1]

were you not in love with jade? your cat? immi? :O :D
ash i swear you've been with jenn for ages so you probably could love her :}

I do love her, we just need to fight more to show our love for each other.

[Hiro]

were you not in love with jade? your cat? immi? :O :D
ash i swear you've been with jenn for ages so you probably could love her :}

lololol. no, that was stupid, teenage infatuation >_>

[Kronics]

I was in love once, it hurts.

[MrGazet]

NO.

-shrugs-

[Immenseman]

NO.

-shrugs-
im with you man :8 hi5

[CrazyColaist]

yeah, am now coming up to our 1 year anversery :)

[MrGazet]

im with you man :8 hi5


hi5 all the way :D

[jackass]

Nope, I have not. :)

[chantellehugs]

I don't really understand 'love' tbh. I mean, if I count the number of times I've fancied someone I'm never gonna meet or even talk to, it would go on forever.
But nope, in the sense that I'd say 'I love you.' I'd have to say no, I'm not very trusting :S I guess...?

[Pix]

Ive tried to but it doesnt work, id go with lust

[Isolde]

no ive never been in love id rather lust ... but i have a feeling this will change later in life im just too keen on focusing on my studies atm.

[Janet Snakehole]

yeah i have but they ruined it, meh!

[Browney]

Well, I dunno really. How can I tell love from what I'm feeling now with my girlfriend?

[colourpot]

nopee, never been in true love or proper love for that matter.

[Louisee.]

yepp. :] i'm in love atm. <3 best feeling in the world. :D

[Pyroka]

yepp. :] i'm in love atm. <3 best feeling in the world. :D

WAIT UNTIL ITS ALL SNATCHED FROM YOU BWAHAHA

[Louisee.]

WAIT UNTIL ITS ALL SNATCHED FROM YOU BWAHAHA

hahaa. well, i'm hoping that doesn't happen any time soon. :] i go out with the most amazing guy ever. ;D

[Immenseman]

i think i know the person that i will one day love if you get me or maybe i'm being naive

[Pyroka]

i think i know the person that i will one day love if you get me or maybe i'm being naive

very naive, love bites you when you least expect it. well... i guess it should anyway.

[Immenseman]

or maybe i'll just die alone as an old man o.O

[Pyroka]

or maybe i'll just die alone as an old man o.O

dont be silly, if that happens and im in the same sitch we will die together as lovers.

but by the time that happens everyone will probs be bisexual init.