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Lindsey
19-01-2010, 10:08 PM
What do you think is an easier way on communicating your crush.

Talking in person/Phoning the person

OR

Texting / Instant messaging.

jackass
19-01-2010, 10:13 PM
EASIEST is texting/msn. But I much prefer talking/phone. :)

Inspiration
19-01-2010, 10:15 PM
I love texting, But sometimes having a phone call is much quicker and more enjoyable.

Immenseman
19-01-2010, 10:17 PM
I end up saying stupid things on IM or through text. I much prefer talking to person in person. I hate talking on the phone for lengthy periods because I can't detect sarcasm and jokes lol and sometimes I'm like, eeeeeek. In person, it's much better.

Special
19-01-2010, 10:19 PM
I never stop talking, has to be that

Stryderman
19-01-2010, 10:27 PM
Textin by far, in person i always come out with stupid comments like "so what did you eat today" or "what you think to this weather"

luce
19-01-2010, 10:28 PM
talking in person because you say stuff you mean and if you mess something up they can see it's a joke but if you said something on msn like you didn't mean or something they would be like WHAT THE ****

Wig44.
19-01-2010, 10:38 PM
I prefer in person for a variety of reasons, one of the foremost being that the phone makes my voice sound like a bass rumble that can scare people into thinking it's not me on the phone :P

Charlottay!
19-01-2010, 10:54 PM
A healthy mix of the two. calling and texting i find best :)

Lindsey
19-01-2010, 11:21 PM
i prefer Calling, just because you know how they are stating things. sometimes people say things to not offend you, and personally. i take it offensively

gangstaagent1
19-01-2010, 11:55 PM
I take texting, because if you ever need to talk about stuff that u don`t feel comferatable talking with that person about in real then you can talk to them over this without having the fear of their reaction in real..

Black_Apalachi
20-01-2010, 12:08 AM
I end up saying stupid things on IM or through text. I much prefer talking to person in person. I hate talking on the phone for lengthy periods because I can't detect sarcasm and jokes lol and sometimes I'm like, eeeeeek. In person, it's much better.

Pretty much this, except it's MY OWN sarcasm etc that is more likely to be misunderstood in texts/IM.

Immenseman
20-01-2010, 12:26 AM
In texts though and IM it's so easy for sarcasm because you can do :P and ;) or something on the phone it's not as easy for me. Irl, it's fine because you can do it via body language.

Black_Apalachi
20-01-2010, 12:41 AM
I suppose, but even in real life people sometimes think I'm being serious when I'm not so it's probably worse in text.

Metric1
20-01-2010, 02:40 AM
I never talk on the phone. Jenn and I text all day the only person I talk to is mom and occasionally dad if he calls..

Immenseman
20-01-2010, 09:19 AM
I suppose, but even in real life people sometimes think I'm being serious when I'm not so it's probably worse in text.
Yeah but it's much worse if you're not there to explain it :P imo anyways :D

MrGazet
20-01-2010, 11:24 AM
I like talking to the person inrl cause you are actually there.On the phone is okay also but I dnt prefer IM or text cause I hate typing lol and you can't really see their reactions

Black_Apalachi
20-01-2010, 06:13 PM
Yeah but it's much worse if you're not there to explain it :P imo anyways :D

Which is why face to face is best!!!! :P

Pyroka
20-01-2010, 06:58 PM
Talking/phoning no doubt, despite the fact I usually start talking to them via IM/text :@

Blinger1
20-01-2010, 07:09 PM
Talking/phoning no doubt, despite the fact I usually start talking to them via IM/text :@
you and your awkward laugh *giggles* ;)

I do prefer talking to my 'crush' in person. Maybe its because we hang around a lot? But we also text waayy too much. Its almost everyday and I seem to fall asleep half way through :$

Pyroka
20-01-2010, 07:16 PM
you and your awkward laugh *giggles* ;)

I do prefer talking to my 'crush' in person. Maybe its because we hang around a lot? But we also text waayy too much. Its almost everyday and I seem to fall asleep half way through :$

IS NOT AN AWKWARD LAUGH :@

Most of the time my crush is an e-crush, I havent had a RL crush in... ages... actually. ;/ god thats depressing, but then silly me has really high standards :rolleyes: and hardly hangs out with any girls my age, bloody university lmao. AH depressing.

Blinger1
20-01-2010, 07:21 PM
IS NOT AN AWKWARD LAUGH :@

It is. Believe me :)

Most of the time my crush is an e-crush, I havent had a RL crush in... ages... actually. ;/ god thats depressing, but then silly me has really high standards :rolleyes: and hardly hangs out with any girls my age, bloody university lmao. AH depressing.
Nothing is wrong with underage girls.. Just look at Eminem's lyrics on Guilty Conscience. It starts after (http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Guilty-Conscience-lyrics-Eminem/3E82AD1DFC123E63482568880010BDE1)



Meet Stan, twenty-one years old. ("Give me a kiss!")
After meeting a young girl at a rave party,
things start getting hot and heavy in an upstairs bedroom.
Once again, his conscience comes into play... ("****!")

chantellehugs
20-01-2010, 08:27 PM
I feel like I can be myself and more laidback if I text, I don't really like IMing, cause with texting you can like reply whenever you want, and it's weird if you take ages on msn.
I don't like phone conversations, I just end up walking around the room and if i'm fiddling about with my phone I end up sliding it down and cutting off the call by mistake :'(
But I LOVE talking face to face with the person :D

Blinger1
20-01-2010, 08:31 PM
I don't like phone conversations, I just end up walking around the room and if i'm fiddling about with my phone I end up sliding it down and cutting off the call by mistake :'(
Fully agreed!! I always seem to walk around when i'm on the phone :S

cocaine
20-01-2010, 08:37 PM
talkingg irl

leah
20-01-2010, 09:21 PM
msn usually cause im shy lol

,Lexiilu
20-01-2010, 09:43 PM
I flirt more in texts and I'm shyer irl and on the phone. so it really depends, but I'd say its easier in texts and IMs.

Glitter
23-01-2010, 03:08 PM
talking irl cause then i can flirt betterrrrrrr

Snarfull
24-01-2010, 03:06 PM
Texting is alot easier, but like you said you can't tell if people are being sarcastic so you may get the wrong impression :S

Melsia
24-01-2010, 03:11 PM
Texting or msn is easier but it's so much more exciting talking properly!

Richie
24-01-2010, 03:21 PM
Talking because its just going to be awkward when you see that person.. texting is just the pussys way out.

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