m8s letting me down

[Richie]

I hate it, I was meant to be going out tonight nd he just text me saying "I can't I feel like crap and I'm not up for it" my other mate said he might go but the chances are he'll let me down.

What do I do?

Loadsa ppl from my schools is gonna be out in the club but like there m8s but not like close m8s if u get me. Should I go out on my own (sad lol) and just hope it all goes well?


but the thing is I never let them down yet they almost always let me down..

[chantellehugs]

My friends used to do this to me a lot, I advise you to go to the party, you may make some new friends who won't let you down, or get to know your other friends who you aren't close to a bit more.
You shouldn't not go because of your friends, show them you are independent, :D

[Richie]

My friends used to do this to me a lot, I advise you to go to the party, you may make some new friends who won't let you down, or get to know your other friends who you aren't close to a bit more.
You shouldn't not go because of your friends, show them you are independent, :D

yh but thing is then I gota make me way home alone at like 4am.. lol known my look il get raped or mugged

[Smits]

yh but thing is then I gota make me way home alone at like 4am.. lol known my look il get raped or mugged

taxi from venue or find sum1 to share one with at the party.

You should deffinately go though, you know people there so it should be good.

[Pix]

that sucks. Whatever you do, don't go by yourself because it won't go right.

[Richie]

taxi from venue or find sum1 to share one with at the party.

You should deffinately go though, you know people there so it should be good.

hmm no taxis at the venue u have to walk for about 15mins to get one


that sucks. Whatever you do, don't go by yourself because it won't go right.

i dno my main concern is how can my friends be more reliable ;l its annoying

[chantellehugs]

I dunno how boys like act around their friends with stuff like this, but with me, I used to just cancel on my friends when they wanted to go somewhere, so instead of me phoning them, they all phone me now

[Richie]

I dunno how boys like act around their friends with stuff like this, but with me, I used to just cancel on my friends when they wanted to go somewhere, so instead of me phoning them, they all phone me now


na mine just text me

[Lindsey]

I advise you to go,. whats the worse that will happen?..

Anyways i would go, and have fun, Make new friends ect ect ect.

:D but oh my gosh !! :) You better go, and i can call u drunkiee again :)
;);););););)

[buttons]

i had this problem too
can't you just like drop into convo to your other friends going? just be like "oh i was gonna be going aswell but so-and-so can't be bothered" - who cares if you **** off your friends they're the ones being crap. i did it before and ended up going with other people who were much more fun :eusa_danc. stop asking your friends to go out and next time they ask you just say "no because you never come out when i want to", i'd honestly just make more friends. keep the ones you have but don't rely on them when you wanna go out

[Black_Apalachi]

... "I can't I feel like crap and I'm not up for it" ...

I'm going to be that person tonight lmao. I feel like ****. Made it out for someone's birthday last week because I wasn't feeling as bad but the girl whose birthday it is tonight won't be going anywhere decent anyway so I cba

[Richie]

I'm going to be that person tonight lmao. I feel like ****. Made it out for someone's birthday last week because I wasn't feeling as bad but the girl whose birthday it is tonight won't be going anywhere decent anyway so I cba


dnt be a douche go m8, srs even if u go nd u dnt have the best of times it will still be gd cos shell think u wanted to go. if u dnt go shell jut feel rejected lol u wont know until your in that persons position!

[Black_Apalachi]

She wouldn't care really lol (not in a bad way, she's just not one of my closer friends). Other people want me to go though... but if I go when I'm feeling like crap I'll only be boring anyway and that just ruins everyone else's night. So by not going I'm actually doing the selfless thing (h)

[Richie]

Surprise, my other m8 who said he mite go said no

[Black_Apalachi]

Don't worry I know how it feels, I've got a mate who ALWAYS lets us down.

[Richie]

Don't worry I know how it feels, I've got a mate who ALWAYS lets us down.

Yeah, it pisses me off tho cos I rlly wana go out, i dnt wana sit on hx forum on a sat nite no offence to those who are but like *REMOVED* I wish they would just come out

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[Black_Apalachi]

I'm alright lol I won't be on HxF all night, I'd rather watch MOTD and catch Jonathan Ross cos I missed it last night :P

[Dinosaurawrr]

there not true friends if they let you down richie
go have fun try make some new friends :] x

[Narnat,]

I would totaly go out. ;)