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AlexOC
11-02-2010, 08:47 PM
I was wondering... how comfortable are you with your sexuality...
I mean i know i'm straight confidently, but i find nothing wrong with joking around about being gay, such as my msn name saying 'alex: im not gay, i just really really really like men'. I've had a few people say to me that i can't put that in my name, but to me its a joke and i know where i stand when it comes to sexuality..
What about you? Are you comfortable? Can you joke around about sexuality without feeling uncomfortable?
Much love, Alex.
I dont really understand what your asking are we comfortable with making ourselves seem gay but we aren't?
I mean im straight if i acted gay i wouldnt really care what people think although i don't and probably wont start so i dunno
AlexOC
11-02-2010, 08:51 PM
I dont really understand what your asking are we comfortable with making ourselves seem gay but we aren't?
I mean im straight if i acted gay i wouldnt really care what people think although i don't and probably wont start so i dunno
If you are comfortable with your sexuality and talking about it. I know straight people who wouldn't dare mess around saying 'i love you' to a boy or something...
I call ma gay pal a big gay fanny sometimes, he sees the funny side of it. usually replies with, **** off you straight ****.
Spose if i said it to a gay person who i didnt know they would take it differently.
Ohhhhhhhhhhh kk i get it well yeah no thats not a big deal at all and im pretty sure everyone loves there friends?
today
11-02-2010, 08:53 PM
yeah, im fine with it.
Special
11-02-2010, 08:53 PM
I'm gay and personally i think you're born gay, so with that in mind, it's something i can't help, so i think 'why should it bother me'
brandon
11-02-2010, 08:59 PM
I'm comfortable with my sexuality perhaps too comfortable because sometimes I think that makes people who don't know me very well think I'm gay :@
TickTockTickTock
11-02-2010, 09:02 PM
I'm comfortable, some picture somewhere unfortunately proves how comfortable. Luckily it didn't get uploaded to FB or out. :eusa_danc
Heard another member of this forum is that comfortable they create threads acting like they're gay then deny it months later... or is that just denial? :S
buttons
11-02-2010, 09:02 PM
i like boobs but i'm not gay :l
i'm comfortable with my sexuality, i'm straight but can appreciate a nice body on a girl when i see one (A)
i will easily make 'gay' comments without feeling stupid because i know i'm not a lesbian, it's probably because the majority of my friends are male so they understand i'm joking and will join in. however the few female friends i do have just sigh and say "here we go again" but they know i'm joking!! i know manly guys who mess around acting gay but for some people it's incredibly cringeworthy to watch especially when the people they're doing it around hate it
funny, the campest guy i know is actually really homophobic..
AlexOC
11-02-2010, 09:03 PM
I'm comfortable with my sexuality perhaps too comfortable because sometimes I think that makes people who don't know me very well think I'm gay :@
Well.... you are very convincing...
If two (me and you) straight males have a relationship thats ok isn't it because they are not gay?
Wait, i think i've got it wrong.
Mickword
11-02-2010, 09:13 PM
Yeah I am very uncomfortable talking about my sexuality with anyone.
I'm comfortable with my sexuality perhaps too comfortable because sometimes I think that makes people who don't know me very well think I'm gay :@
you mean you're not gay? lol
today
11-02-2010, 09:20 PM
Brandon your gayer then gaygod himself.
AlexOC
11-02-2010, 09:21 PM
BRANDON IS GAYGOD
marine
11-02-2010, 09:21 PM
I straight but most people think I'm gay because of the way i act i think..
but tbh I don't care what they think, I have gay friend's and there really cool, I don't judge anyone by there sexuality I think it's stupid if you do.
Like me & my girlfriend joke about things, she asks if it still count's as cheating if she slept with another girl. (she's bi)
I think people should be proud of what there sexuality is.
AlexOC
11-02-2010, 09:22 PM
I straight but most people think I'm gay because of the way i act i think..
but tbh I don't care what they think, I have gay friend's and there really cool, I don't judge anyone by there sexuality I think it's stupid if you do.
Like me & my girlfriend joke about things, she asks if it still count's as cheating if she slept with another girl. (she's bi)
I think people should be proud of what there sexuality is.
OMG! A Bi Girlfriend...
Have you ever thought of a threesome...
today
11-02-2010, 09:23 PM
BRANDON IS GAYGOD
Would suprise me.
marine
11-02-2010, 09:27 PM
OMG! A Bi Girlfriend...
Have you ever thought of a threesome...
Not really :P
AlexOC
11-02-2010, 09:30 PM
Not really :P
Haha ok....
But what you said was interesting.. If she slept with a woman...
Would you be angry?, Its like not the same as sleeping with another man.
marine
11-02-2010, 09:32 PM
Haha ok....
But what you said was interesting.. If she slept with a woman...
Would you be angry?, Its like not the same as sleeping with another man.
Idk really, It's kinda' weird, I'd probably be a bit annoyed..
buttons
11-02-2010, 09:34 PM
Haha ok....
But what you said was interesting.. If she slept with a woman...
Would you be angry?, Its like not the same as sleeping with another man.
yeah it is... cheating is cheating. plus she's bisexual so she likes femals aswell so why would it make a difference on their gender?
AlexOC
11-02-2010, 09:38 PM
yeah it is... cheating is cheating. plus she's bisexual so she likes femals aswell so why would it make a difference on their gender?
Yeh i know its still technically cheating and should be treated the same, but if i had a Bi girlfriend and she slept with a girl i cant think i'd go too beserk.
Mickword
11-02-2010, 09:48 PM
BRANDON IS GAYGOD
theres a gaygod? Maybe I should rethink this religion thing, I like a good laugh!
ItsDave
11-02-2010, 10:45 PM
Like ya said, y'know. You know you're 100% straight but that fun of joking around being gay and just having a laugh thats alright, when it gets touchy feely, thats when I start to get eery.
AlexOC
11-02-2010, 10:47 PM
Like ya said, y'know. You know you're 100% straight but that fun of joking around being gay and just having a laugh thats alright, when it gets touchy feely, thats when I start to get eery.
Like you chatting with me about me pleasuring myself in t'other thread :)
LMAO!
-Xiangu-
11-02-2010, 11:01 PM
Like ya said, y'know. You know you're 100% straight but that fun of joking around being gay and just having a laugh thats alright, when it gets touchy feely, thats when I start to get eery.
Aw Dave, Thought you loved me touching you XD (we going out tomorrow I think you coming?)
I'm fine with my sexuality. Sometimes i'm a bit too gay around some people that don't know me for being gay so it freaks them a bit but thats it. I don't care who knows and love being myself tbh.
HotelUser
12-02-2010, 12:39 PM
If I'm honest I'm probably not as comfortable with my sexuality as I should be, and I'm not entirely comfortable admitting that. So if I know you in real life my name is James Brown and I'm from Australia:)
MrGazet
12-02-2010, 02:37 PM
I'm straight but there are times that I would act totally gay and laugh about it with my mates.Sometimes,I think i go OTT and the girls are like are you really straight? lol
I like good looking men and thse with 6 packs but just because I admire them and that doesn't mean tht I want to sleep with them.
But really,I don;t mind joking bout me being gay and stuffs.
Yes I am comfortable with being straight.
Hushie
12-02-2010, 04:15 PM
I'm comfortable with being gay and like I will joke about it and don't mind when people jokingly call me like a big fagface, if they're saying it nastily then ye I'd be pissed off but yeah I'm comfortable with my sexuality
PS: I worded that a bit ****
AndyDude312
13-02-2010, 07:20 PM
I'm straight and I'm totally comfortable with that, but I like to keep people guessing for teh lulz :P
I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. I am open about the fact I am gay but not in your face, for the record. People in college are often to curious about the fact I'm gay and I talk to them about it all the time, they often ask questions about it like.
Technologic
13-02-2010, 09:11 PM
I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. I am open about the fact I am gay but not in your face, for the record. People in college are often to curious about the fact I'm gay and I talk to them about it all the time, they often ask questions about it like.
That's exactly my situation! Also, now I have a boyfriend who I actually love i'm really happy and comfortable. However, he's away skiing this week so i'm a bit down :(
Anamations
19-02-2010, 01:30 AM
Tbh i dont think it should effect u too much. Btw has anyone ever met a straight person who isnt comftable with there sexuality that would be wierd :eusa_danc
Pyroka
19-02-2010, 03:05 AM
people think im gay but fact is im so straight i feel comfortable with the fact i can act gay but still be straight its relaly fcool :D
Grippz
20-02-2010, 12:03 AM
I love my sexuality. When I was younger I wasn't so comfortable with it but now thinking back I was so stupid. It's part of who I am and I wouldn't change it for the world!
brodeo
24-02-2010, 07:40 PM
Gay and completely comfortable.
Because i make it just a part of who i am rather than who i am full stop, people who don't know me so well don't realise it. It actually grinds on me when people make being gay a big part of who they are, you should have other things to rely on to define you rather than your sexuality.
Homosexual
26-02-2010, 04:49 PM
I was wondering... how comfortable are you with your sexuality...
I mean i know i'm straight confidently, but i find nothing wrong with joking around about being gay, such as my msn name saying 'alex: im not gay, i just really really really like men'. I've had a few people say to me that i can't put that in my name, but to me its a joke and i know where i stand when it comes to sexuality..
What about you? Are you comfortable? Can you joke around about sexuality without feeling uncomfortable?
Much love, Alex.
I think your MSN name is homophobic, but if that's how you want it, have it like that.
I can't really muck around about sexuality because it'd be awkward, cause not a lot of people at my school know I'm gay, and those who do don't really muck about when it comes to sexuality.
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