Would you forgive your partner if he/she cheated on you?

[United-Clowgon]

Say if they cheated on you for a few weeks or perhaps, a few months - would you forgive them?

Or - they did it only the one time and they were really sorry..?

[Suspective]

If they did it for a vast amount of time, I would certainly not forgive them. If they did it only once though, I would have to think about it and hear them out. :P

[Sharon]

Ah depends who with - I'm just that sort of person really.

[,Lexiilu]

depends on how much I care about them, how long it went on, their personality, etc.

if it was a long time, no.
if they weren't worth it, no.
if I doubted them, no.
if they had a lot of things that I didnt like about them, no.
idk stuff like that lol.

[brandon]

Depends how much I loved this 'hypothetical' partner.

Probably.

[Nixt]

However I much I loved them, no. With the two people I've ever been in love with, I couldn't even deal with them talking about their previous exploits or w/e. I wouldn't be able to cope knowing they had done that.

[Hecktix]

However I much I loved them, no. With the two people I've ever been in love with, I couldn't even deal with them talking about their previous exploits or w/e. I wouldn't be able to cope knowing they had done that.

I'm the same as this really.

I couldn't look at my partner in the same way knowing they'd been with someone else whilst I was with them.

[Zaak]

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[Arch]

Depends how long and with who and what exactly they did :P

But most likely i wouldnt forgive

[FlyingJesus]

If they were really hot I'd probably stay with them, I'm kinda numb these days anyway so dunno if I'd bother making myself care

[Eoin]

depends on how much money she got for it.

[Blinger1]

I'm the same as this really.

I couldn't look at my partner in the same way knowing they'd been with someone else whilst I was with them.
I wouldn't look at nicola the same either ;) oh, p.s, we got together :#!

Hmm, if the person i liked cheated on me (hooked up) with someone at a club, i dunno how i'd feel. I'd be angry i guess but she would get a few things out of it (drinks for the night etc) so i'd be glad about that, yeh?

[MrGazet]

Depends on many factors tbh.But overall,I say NO.I don't tolerate infidelities.Once you done it,**** my life
But really,things will change and I dnt think I will be able to think about my partner like the way I used to thinking she cheated on me.

[Metric1]

depends on if it was over when I found out.

[VaCcAr0]

NO

I've never been in a relationship nor do I ever plan to, so I don't have to worry about that happening to me.

[Pyroka]

If they were really hot I'd probably stay with them, I'm kinda numb these days anyway so dunno if I'd bother making myself care

have to sorta agree with above quote, though you really have to ask the question of why are you in a relationship in the first place lol (A)

[FlyingJesus]

though you really have to ask the question of why are you in a relationship in the first place lol (A)


If they were really hot

Duh...

[dirrty]

smack the ***** up and kick her to the curb

[Richie]

na I don't think I would, they should of thought before they done it. I also would have no respect for the person who she got with, If I knew some chick had a bf I wouldn't still try have a shot. cos im not a ***** ;) and i'd put myself in their shoes.

[Nicola]

No, I wouldn't forgive them.

If they wanted to be in the relationship then they wouldn't even consider it.

There would be so many trust issues that would get in the way of everything and it'd just make the relationship unbearable.

[Seatherny]

No, I wouldn't forgive them.

If they wanted to be in the relationship then they wouldn't even consider it.

There would be so many trust issues that would get in the way of everything and it'd just make the relationship unbearable.

What she said ^.

Tbh even if you tried to forget it, it will always come back and will be raised in an argument.

[Tash.]

I'd like to say flat out no, but thinking about it i'm not sure if i'd be strong enough to not forgive them, though it would drive me nuts.

[Gibs960]

If it was a drunken fling, then yes, but if it was for a long time, I'd tell 'em to swing their hook :D

[iAdam]

Not at all, Can't stay faithful then theres no point.

[wixard]

i probably would of cheated first

i dunno i have to find somebody that will forgive me and i'll forgive them because i know every relationship i'll ever have, i'll end up cheating

[dbgtz]

If they admitted it and it wasn't for too long then yes. Any other circumstance then no.

[cocaine]

nope. i dont trust any girl anyway, usually they're all the same round here, just skets.

[danzooo]

Well if it was intentional and went on for any length of time then a definite no.
If it only happened once as a mistake and they were sorry, then I probably would. My girlfriend got with another guy while really drunk at a party, however she didn't mean to do it and phoned me right away to tell me, and then I forgave her. Not right away, of course.

However she had done anything "else" with him then absolutely not. I still makes me feel slightly sick if I imagine her doing that that night.

[Pyroka]

Duh...

Problem with that is they have a chance to start talking then it all goes downhill.

[-K8T!E-]

I'd like to say no but if I really liked them chances are I'd forgive them if it was a once off kinda thing, if they weren't worth it though I wouldn't forgive them.

[GoldenMerc]

To be fair i've done it once before then it was just completely awkward so no never again

[mrbean]

if they was hot and they only done it once, ye i would then i'd just use her.

if she done it for along time, then we will just do it one more then, then i will humilate her big time

[Pixet]

If it was only like one time then I'd probably forgive them but anything else would be a no no.

[buttons]

NO

I've never been in a relationship nor do I ever plan to, so I don't have to worry about that happening to me.
that's what people who can't get a boyfriend/girlfriend say
i'd probably forgive them but staying with them is a totally different thing. if i had plenty of options id finish with them there and then, if i didn't i'd stay with them till i did ..:S i honestly wouldn't care at this point in my life.

[Bun]

nah it would crush the trust, she'd be long gone.

[Jamiie]

Depends on situation

If they had been doing it a while : No
If they had been doing it a while : But my partner couldn't take it anymore and told me , i would think about it
If it was a One of : Most Likely depends who with
If it was a One of but they done it before : No

[Seatherny]

I'd like to say flat out no, but thinking about it i'm not sure if i'd be strong enough to not forgive them, though it would drive me nuts.

I can see it coming up in every argument.

[myke]

No matter how much I love them I don't know if I could get over the fact there was another person with their hands on my partner... it'd make me feel weird... and knowing that the stuff they say to you doesn't really mean anything because they've said it to someone else.

[Havoline]

i dont think i would even if they only did it once