Can't tell if he likes me. +Rep

[Sharon]

Bit of a situation, I really like this guy as I really get on with him. Recently we had a bit conversation about who me and him fancy and I was tempted to say I like him and I swear he was too. Then it came onto the question do I like him - He literally begged me for 30 minutes on MSN to tell him.

So I asked him if he likes me and he actually said no so I said no. So I was put off the idea that he fancies me. Then today @ lunch I say to my mate ''If he asks me out what am I meant to say'' talking about someone completely different but he says yeah and I was like ..who are we talking about and my friend says the guy I fancy.

I said to him ''He doesn't even like me'' and my friend said ''Yeah he does everyone can see the way he looks at you and talks to you and when I asked him who he fancies he said it begins with S'' - I'm the only one with an S which got me really paranoid.

What am I meant to do now? I couldn't do my French test because I was thinking about it.

PLUS - I asked him on MSN if he likes me he said no though.

Ah. Shazzy x +Rep

[kuzkasate]

It sounds kind of weird. He either doesnt or hes shy about it.

I think you should tell him and tell him that if he doesnt like you - you an still be friends. Maybe then, he will tell you the honest answer. Maybe hes waiting for you to make the first move?

If you have a chance - go for it before you miss it.

Good luck! Hope all goes well x

[Nicola]

Hmm well he could've just said no because he thought you didn't like him in that way and you'd turn him down or something.

I don't know if you already do but try and see him more outside of school with like a group of friends or something. It might bring you closer and it'll be easier to tell how he feels.

[Smits]

Tell him the truth, it's all you can do. He probably does like you, thats why he wanted you to say it first, he was feeling the same as you hence he said no. Fearing you might be saying no and not wanting to look the fool.

[Inseriousity.]

Ask him. :)
It's likely that he said no because you took so long to tell him so he thought it was someone else who you were too embarrassed to say!

[dbgtz]

Tie him to a torture machine of some sort, maybe the one that stretches you until he tells you the exact person :P

Jokes just ask I guess it's quite a strong message imo. You could like try be more flirty and see how he reacts, obviously if he doesn't like it he doesn't like you in that way.

[Blinger1]

Did ryan change his name to begin with S?

I think he does like you. He is saying no because he is shy.. just tell him how you feel, even if it is hard.. :)

[Pyroka]

Did ryan change his name to begin with S?

I think he does like you. He is saying no because he is shy.. just tell him how you feel, even if it is hard.. :)

yeah my name is sexy beast now lol. double barreled name innit. either way you should just bloody ask him.

[-K8T!E-]

Tell him how you feel! If you don't soon he's going to move onto another girl, I know from personal experience, I've gotta listen to him talk about his amazing gf 24/7 now. I had just plucked up the courage to tell him, and right before I was going to, he started talking about this girl... So yeah I waited way too long, just tell him before its too late or you'll regret not saying anything.

[Sharon]

@Ryan you're not the one soz lyl still x

Probably gonna get someone to tell him todayy

[Sharon]

Asked him on msn today. After five minutes he replies to a question before the bit I asked him which was about my mate and goes offline

in otherwords he didn't answer what am I meant to do tomorrow act normal :S I doubt I can do that.

[Sharon]

He said maybe.

[Blinger1]

He said maybe.
he means yes.

[Pyroka]

he means yes.

in which case he means no.

[Blinger1]

in which case he means no.

He does mean yes ;)

[Sharon]

he said no.































and then at like 4 said he might change his mind.

















player.

[Nicola]

Sounds like he's messing you about a bit there Shazzy.

[Sharon]

Am I just meant to say no Nikki >3 x

[Blinger1]

Just keep talking to him and flirt a bit if you like the guy.. Hang in there, he might have been under pressure of being put on the spot. Maybe this advise from my cousin helps:

ugh its a tough one.... i dont think id just come out and ask it...you know, the pressure etc and being put on the spot is never easy. If i was in your shoes id be very subtle about it... make up some crap like "everyone i know keeps asking me why we're not together...why are we not together" that way ur not putting a load of pressure on him.


(i pretty much copied it straight from a facebook message, so where it says HER change it to him ;))

[Catzsy]

Am I just meant to say no Nikki >3 x

My advice would be to just ignore his texts/him for awhile and see if he comes running. He is in control of the situation at the moment. You would know one way or the other then. =]

[Sharon]

Ah gonna rep you all.

it dm now hes made it into a joke.

[Catzsy]

Ah gonna rep you all.

it dm now hes made it into a joke.

Well good luck with it but remember it pays to be(H) :D

[Sharon]

Well good luck with it but remember it pays to be(H) :D

To sum it up he told everyone and gloated about my rejection.

[Blinger1]

To sum it up he told everyone and gloated about my rejection.
say you were joking about it, or you were dared to... ;)

[Catzsy]

To sum it up he told everyone and gloated about my rejection.

Well at least everyone else knows you are not a pushover and I am sure behind that 'gloating' he is quite shocked.

[,Lexiilu]

I'm sure he really does like you shazzy
boys are just ******ed sometimes :( x
most of them refuse to spill their real feelings x

[Sharon]

say you were joking about it, or you were dared to... ;)

ACTUALLY I SAID THAT SOMEONE DARED ME AHEHEHE.

x

Edit:

@Catszy you are actually amazing ;]

@Lexeh HI NOT SPOKE FOR AGES X I'm not even sure if I agree on that it's still half half but it dm now, if he came onto MSN at this moment and asked me out i'd tell him to get out and a lot of rude things.

[CJW93]

Seems like he is shy about it, if you tell him that you like him in person, chances are he will say the same back to you

[Firehorse]

yes he likes you, some guys are shy like that and often wish that the girl asks first or atleast lets them know that they like them back because they are too afraid that they might be declined. Teenage guys fall harder than girls when it comes to real relationships.

[Shox]

ACTUALLY I SAID THAT SOMEONE DARED ME AHEHEHE.

x

Edit:

@Catszy you are actually amazing ;]

@Lexeh HI NOT SPOKE FOR AGES X I'm not even sure if I agree on that it's still half half but it dm now, if he came onto MSN at this moment and asked me out i'd tell him to get out and a lot of rude things.


Wow! The way the guy made it into a joke, that's just seriously immature.

I'm going to guess he likes you, he's just a bit too immature to admit it. Probably doesn't know how to show his true feelings like a lot of guys.