A joke gone bad :'(

[MrGazet]

Right,yesterday I joked something to my mate.She was very mad at me and was shaking with anger :(

I didn't know she could get that mad as it was only a joke.I know perfectly that it's my fault but she's acting like an immature kid?

I don't want to go into the details of the joke but it's nothing kinkeh or racism or that sort.

I've apologized and sent her a text but she wont talk to me.What should I do :(


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[Pyroka]

Did you tell her you had AIDS cuz some ppl get uptight abotu that lol

or cancer

or canadians?????

either way just give it time shell get over it lol.

[MrGazet]

Oh god you're funny :P but no.

I don't know why she's all upset -.-'

[HotelUser]

you could keep apologizing, what else is there to do?

[Pyroka]

Oh god you're funny :P but no.

I don't know why she's all upset -.-'

please tell me LOL.

[Smits]

Share the joke so we can have a better insight and give better advice.

[dbgtz]

Yes to above.

[MrGazet]

Ugh, I joked about my age and she was mad cause she thought that I lied to her all this while. -.-'

We're not school mates or anything so she couldn't really know for sure my age by the way.

[HotelUser]

hmmm, could the problem be that there's a significant difference between you in age?


Ugh, I joked about my age and she was mad cause she thought that I lied to her all this while. -.-'

We're not school mates or anything so she couldn't really know for sure my age by the way.

[MrGazet]

No, it's not a problem but she got mad because she thought I was lying to her.Well,that's what she said.

I'm really clueless tbh

[HotelUser]

No, it's not a problem but she got mad because she thought I was lying to her.Well,that's what she said.

I'm really clueless tbh

Oh she thinks you're not the age you say you are?

Can't you just add her on facebook or something?

[MrGazet]

The situation is like this

Yesterday she asked me,How old r u? Is it A or B?

I have no idea why cause I told her my age before

So,I jokingly tell her that my age is C and was serious bout it.I was just messing.

Then,she got really upset saying that I lied to her and stuffs.

Later,I told her that I was joking and she said she's fed up of lies etc -.-'

Btw I'm using A,B,C cause I'm not comfortable divulging my age here

[HotelUser]

You could explain to her that you're not comfortable giving out that sort of information, she should be able to respect your privacy, otherwise it's you who's entitled to being angry.

As for you lieing all the time, what is she talking about?



The situation is like this

Yesterday she asked me,How old r u? Is it A or B?

I have no idea why cause I told her my age before

So,I jokingly tell her that my age is C and was serious bout it.I was just messing.

Then,she got really upset saying that I lied to her and stuffs.

Later,I told her that I was joking and she said she's fed up of lies etc -.-'

Btw I'm using A,B,C cause I'm not comfortable divulging my age here

[MrGazet]

Ah,thanks for your time and advice dude :)

+REP

[kuzkasate]

Just tell her shes being childish and she over reacted. And if she carries on then just say, well d'ya know what, fine then, I wont joke with you at all. Be a miserable cow.

[cocaine]

thats so childish lol, why do people get so upset? ;S

[kuzkasate]

This situation reminded me of this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lASM_n2R_TY) scene.
WARNING: CONTAINS SWEARING AND VIOLENCE

YOU OVER REACTED ;)

[Smits]

Its hardly a joke if you say the wrong age in a serious tone, is it now? It is pretty much a lie unless you told her the truth soon after by laughing about it and making it an obvious joke.

For example, a girl will ask me my age, i will say 25 and keep a blank face, then laugh so they know for sure its a joke.

Its something of nothing though, and her saying'i'm sick of the lies' leads me to beleive one of three things; either this isn't the first time you've lied, she's been lied to by other lads before making her cautious or she is really childish.

[Hiro]

Well I got pissed off at someone for telling me the wrong age. So I agree with her.

At least you didn't lie about your name.

[Blinger1]

i'd say she overreacted tbh. Does she know you face to face or an internet friend? If its an internet friend just go on webcam to prove you aren't 25 instead of 15 or however old you said you were..

If its a real life friend she'll get over it.

[Art]

Tell her to get over it and stop wasting your time with her if she doesn't ;)

[MrGazet]

Ah,she's alright now

she's forgiven me I hope lol

she sent me a text " I forgive you, ily xxx"

Obviously,she realized that she was acting childish over a joke.

Thanks you lot :)

[Sameer!]

WOW, you must've said something really bad to make her switch like that....

[rnix]

Is it one of these "internet relationships" where you said a different age at the start so she would keep talking to you and now you told her the real age she is ****** off? :) Just curious.


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