What to do?

[Arron]

Right, I started this new job a few weeks ago and I've got on with all the people there immensely. there's this one girl in particular though, we are always kinda flirting and i really like her. Its early stages at the moment because ive known her for a matter of weeks but i could see something happening. Just the sad thing is that she is moving away to Derby in August which gives me four months to do some form of movement. i only learnt a matter of seconds ago that she will be back visiting every weekend because her family lives locally, which makes it slightly less painful. on another note, her parents are currently on holiday and theres a lot of fuss - in which im not going to introduce into this thread - between this girl (Jaz) and her mum. i think her mum is way over protective over what she's doing, i'm going to post a few facebook wall posts from her mum (who's currently abroad)

Are you stupid or what? I know it's a bit late now, but I can't believe you've put your mobile number on Facebook. Der. And stop advrtising yourself to any Tom, **** or Harry to walk you home. Grow up

Who's that Gareth? You are in big trouble and the world can know.
Yesterday at 12:54 · Comment · Like


Gareth is a friend of Jaz who is GAY. I think her mum isn't so happy about Gareth because he said something in a status about 'kinky behaviour' or something. so it's obviously joking around because of his sexuality but her mum doesn't think this is true because of the comments, also if this Gareth guy was straight, Jaz wouldn't go out with him because he's not her type.

So the thing putting me off is the fact that her parents seem really protective and i dont want to get on the wrong side of them at such an early stage. also her moving to Derby puts me off but if i start something up then hopefully it might turn out into a long term relationship, which i want as ive not had a propper one once before!

[danzooo]

Well to be honest mate, long term, long distance relationships never work out, and that's a fact. If it were to develop though, you'd need to try and get this girl to persuade her folks that you're different, and to give you a chance. When you get that chance and you go round to meet them, make the best impression possible - be polite, friendly and fun - nobody likes someone down. She has obviously never had a "real" boyfriend before hence her parents' over protectiveness, and usually the first boyfriend loosens them off a bit.

You could have just a really close "friends with benefits" relationship with her, seeing her when she visits her family and that but they're tough to keep cos girls always want to take it further or end it. Good luck in whatever you choose though man.

[Arron]

Well her parents return from their holiday tonight at 11:30 (oh wait they'll already be back by now) and jaz has some breaking news to reveal :P