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HotelUser
14-04-2010, 10:52 PM
Do you guys find that you trust a person too easily?

With me, I'll really not trust someone at all, but even after I get to know them just a little bit I find that I trust them too much, and reveal things which I really shouldn't :O

syko2006
14-04-2010, 10:55 PM
I tend to make sure that people gain my trust, rather than give it to them straight away. Though there has been situations where I've given my trust away too early and ended up making a big mistake by saying things I thought I could say and trust the person I told to keep it to them. Obviously not, I was wrong. xD

Oh well, lesson learnt. :D

Rozi
14-04-2010, 10:59 PM
meeeeeeeeeeeeeh. I guess I do trust people but don't tend to rely on them so it doesn't really make a difference.

dbgtz
14-04-2010, 11:01 PM
I used to trust easily, now I don't. Infact there's only like 2 people I can trust. I had a bit of a trial and error learning experience :L

Art
14-04-2010, 11:34 PM
I used to trust easily, now I don't. Infact there's only like 2 people I can trust. I had a bit of a trial and error learning experience :L

Same as me.

AlexOC
14-04-2010, 11:43 PM
With me, most people, my trust for them goes up and down, like i will trust someone with my life one day, then the next not give them my number or something. There are a few person i always trust though.

Abbie.
14-04-2010, 11:48 PM
ive learnt to trust noone, lol, well except my boyfriend, but he doesnt trust me after what i did/ what happened, and i thought i could trust my best friend, but turns out your best not telling someone whos slightly jealous of you anything, they'll just tell someone else who they know will tell the person your keeping it from.

cocaine
15-04-2010, 12:23 AM
i trusted people until it backfired on me. now i dont trust anyone, i dont reply on anyone at all.

Pyroka
15-04-2010, 12:24 AM
I don't trust anyone on the internet. I trust my friends, not for everything though.

Blinger1
15-04-2010, 01:45 AM
I don't trust anyone on the internet. I trust my friends, not for everything though.
you trust me sexeh!


I trust only a few people a lot. As in, i'd tell them my pin code for my bank(s) and all that crap, and every little secret i have, i'd trust them with my life.. But to people i don't know, it depends, gut feelings are more important imo

Jamesy
15-04-2010, 04:29 PM
I'm generally trusting once people have proven themsevles to be. There's only a select few who I will say I would completely open up to though.

MrGazet
15-04-2010, 05:18 PM
I dnt think I trust people easily but it is not that hard to gain my trust!

Well, I dnt mind sharing my fb pw or anything with my siblings & cuzzins though.

But,I hardly tell things to people.I share some things with one person, and some to the other person.But,I like to just write it down in my diary :)

kuzkasate
15-04-2010, 06:55 PM
Hmm.. tricky question really.

I have to know someone quite close for quite some time in order to give them even the slightest of trust. I only ever tell little things to friends, and tell big things to maximum 2 people. Trusting people often backfires in your face, so I am very cautious about who I choose to trust.

buttons
15-04-2010, 07:08 PM
i used to trust literally everyone
i'm really open with a lot of things but when it's truly personal there's only one person i'll tell (cause he's like in love with me n ****) and even then i keep most things to myself. i can't even trust myself, i always know when i should or shouldn't say/do something but i normaly do it anyway so only got myself to blame ;o

Xoim
15-04-2010, 07:11 PM
Yeah, I trust people too easily too... but I mean, I have nothing to hide and manage to keep real private things private.

Becca
15-04-2010, 07:12 PM
What's the point David.
Three people.. Three freakin' people David.

Edited by iAdam (Forum Super Moderator); Please do not post pointlessly.

Xtina
15-04-2010, 07:35 PM
I'll trust someone if I talk to them for long enough and talk to them a lot, but if I've heard things about them, like talking about people behind their backs, I won't trust them that much

LoveToStack
15-04-2010, 09:17 PM
Instinct usually tells me whether or not to trust someone completely, you kind of get a feel for people just talking to them and seeing the way they act around others. I find people tend to use things they know about you to get in with someone else or as leverage for something. Most of the time I dont think someone's opinion is worth having something held against me later on so I tend not to trust everyone and anyone. That said there are certain people who I do trust unconditionally from experience.

Nicola
15-04-2010, 09:50 PM
They need to take the time to prove that I can trust them, I don't trust easy.

Richie
15-04-2010, 09:51 PM
i used to trust literally everyone
i'm really open with a lot of things but when it's truly personal there's only one person i'll tell (cause he's like in love with me n ****) and even then i keep most things to myself. i can't even trust myself, i always know when i should or shouldn't say/do something but i normaly do it anyway so only got myself to blame ;o


IM NOT IN LOVE WITH U


depends rlly i dnt trust many ppl anymore but theres ppl from the internetz that i still trust but like jen im pretty much open

,Lexiilu
18-04-2010, 06:50 PM
I trust certain people. it depends how long I've known them, etc.

I used to trust really easily and now I don't. after people backstab you, you learn that you can't.

FlyingJesus
18-04-2010, 07:34 PM
idk most stuff I don't really care about so I don't need to trust people to tell them stuff. If there is something I don't want people knowing I just won't tell anyone kinda easier than telling some and hoping

Metric1
19-04-2010, 12:01 AM
I find I don't trust people enough. I trust my family, Jenn and a few of my friends.

Blinger$
19-04-2010, 04:24 AM
i do, oddly enough

Gibs960
19-04-2010, 07:19 AM
I trust a lot of people, but they've had to earn my trust :)

Catchy
19-04-2010, 07:33 AM
No, don't trust anyone. Not even my own family. Everyone just ***** you over in the end so I avoid all the drama :D

HotelUser
19-04-2010, 11:21 AM
No, don't trust anyone. Not even my own family. Everyone just ***** you over in the end so I avoid all the drama :D

Because of recent events, where two people ignorantly assumed I'd done something I hadn't, so they went on an immature rampage, I'm very inclined to agree with you Jacob.

Blinger$
19-04-2010, 07:43 PM
WHAT HAPPENED, HOTELUSER
Because of recent events, where two people ignorantly assumed I'd done something I hadn't, so they went on an immature rampage, I'm very inclined to agree with you Jacob.

Firehorse
21-04-2010, 08:52 PM
I only start trusting someone after having known them for a number of months and judging their personality on whether or not i'd trust them keeping personal secrets. And thats still only if they become close friends.

Shar
22-04-2010, 06:33 AM
Trust is a hard earned thing.
It doesn't matter how long you've known someone really it depends on the person itself.
At the end of the day you'll never know who to trust, so think wisely.

Keri?!
22-04-2010, 06:58 AM
I always used to trust everyone really easily but since that led to myself getting hurt by someone I trusted with all my life, I can't seem to trust anyone anymore.
I only fully trust a couple of people at the moment and they're the one's who I'm incredibly close to.

,Lexiilu
23-04-2010, 05:07 PM
I always used to trust everyone really easily but since that led to myself getting hurt by someone I trusted with all my life, I can't seem to trust anyone anymore.
I only fully trust a couple of people at the moment and they're the one's who I'm incredibly close to.

you trust me of course! :D

HotelUser
23-04-2010, 07:17 PM
you trust me of course! :D

Who doesn't trust Habbox's numero uno forum moderator :)

leah
23-04-2010, 09:45 PM
I see the good in people too much but then I find it hard to trust people

and please tell me you're not edating meree

,Lexiilu
23-04-2010, 09:57 PM
Who doesn't trust Habbox's numero uno forum moderator :)

a lot of people!

Shar
23-04-2010, 09:57 PM
Define trust

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