Sexuality.

[DrLouis]

Hello :)

Right first off i have been a bit attracted to guys for about 2 years now.
I've not ever had sex with them just yano :L
I've never wanted a relationship with a guy before and i like girls alot and love going out with them and sex.
I thought nothing of it and just thought it was a phase.. then i watched a movie "Get Real" which is about two school boys being gay and in love and it really hit me and ever since i watched it i keep thinking about it and its really weird.
Also i don't see myself being with a guy when im older i see myself with a wife and kids and stuff.
Argh help?

Thanks

[gangstaagent1]

I'm the same way... like I can't see myself living with a guy... and spending my life with a man... but I mean I'm attracted to them.... I see myself with a wife and kids... I mean it's completely normal to be attracted to guys at some point. But only being attracted to them and not thinking about doing anything with them (Sex etc..) Doesn't make you 'bi' if that was what you was thinking ! (: So I find it's completely normal (:

[DrLouis]

I've done everything but sex with a guy, but i mean i DON'T want to be gay :L

[gangstaagent1]

I've done everything but sex with a guy, but i mean i DON'T want to be gay :L
In that case, well you might be considered 'bi' but your not GAY (Hence you like women) Just because you get active with guys (If you get what I mean) doesn't mean you have to spend the rest of your life with them !

[DrLouis]

Okay thanks :)
I feel myself slowly wanting to be with guys more.
But i HATE gays i know thats harsh but i HATE gay people.
I dont wanna be gay or bi! :(

[HotelUser]

If you're sexually attracted to guys and you're aroused by sexual activity with another male then you're most likely gay or bisexual. If you just think they're hot, I don't think that necessarily means anything.

You not wanting to be so is fine, but you never have to tell anyone if you don't want to!

[gangstaagent1]

If you're sexually attracted to guys and you're aroused by sexual activity with another male then you're most likely gay or bisexual. If you just think they're hot, I don't think that necessarily means anything.

You not wanting to be so is fine, but you never have to tell anyone if you don't want to!
Don't tell anyone, bad idea !

[Narnat,]

Yeah i agree with them

But remember .. There's not a law saying you have to like girls and only girls . I see it as more of a trend were people rather go for the opposite sex. There's nothing wrong with going against the trend and going for someone the same sex and if anyone was to have a problem with it then it's there problem the main thing is that your happy.

[gangstaagent1]

Yeah i agree with them

But remember .. There's not a law saying you have to like girls and only girls . I see it as more of a trend were people rather go for the opposite sex. There's nothing wrong with going against the trend and going for someone the same sex and if anyone was to have a problem with it then it's there problem the main thing is that your happy.
100% agreed Natalie

[DrLouis]

Wow some great advice thankyou people :)

But in reply to Natalie's post. I'm not always happy about it. Not really much of the time. Most of the time i wish it was gone from my life :S That's the tricky part.

[MrPinkPanther]

The thing is, just like people have "Gay phases" people have "Straight phases" too. Just because you like Women as well as Men it doesn't mean for sure that you are Bi or Straight. Until your hormones have settled you could be Gay, Bi or Straight!

[Gibs960]

I'm the same, like I'm goin through a stage where I'm questioning my sexuality, but I'm attracted to women (Ashley Greene - SMOKIN'!!!!) :D But I still question weather I'm bisexual :) So I'm in the same position :)

[Nixt]

I know you'll probably still read this regardless of the fact you are banned. When I was first confused as to whether I was gay or not, I used to think oh I do like women and I think I'll go for them because when I am older I don't want to be with a man. I wanted to be normal and have a wife and children and be like the rest of my family. As time went on, however, I began to except the fact I am a raving homosexual and embraced it. Now, I have a boyfriend who I am happy with and I can't ever see myself with a woman, and I am happy with that. It takes time but you will come to realise what you want - either way.

[Technologic]

I'm with a guy atm but i've come to realise that after 2 months i'm just not ready for a proper relationship and we've kind of come to a stand still.... It took me a few years to fully accept who I am and now i have, i'm extremely happy for it but relationships just arent on the agenda atm :]

[Becca]

For my age, being bisexual is weird for people. I don't find it strange at all, it's a life choice, my life choice. I knew this girl called Sophie since I started primary school. We've been close friends and I don't know why but, I kind of started liking her? One night I told her that I might be "liking" her in that way. Somehow, she explained that she liked me too! So we started dating and stuff. It ended out weird because of things that happened. I'm still attracted to men, but I think women are "hot" too. At the start of realising I think girls are good looking, I grossed myself out. Like, shivers down my spine when I looked at a girl that way. Now I feel cool with it, but I wish I never told my Dad. He hates the whole, "gay" thing. I can get around him though. Sometimes I think I'm not normal for it because most girls at my school are straight and very homophobic. I normally tend to hang around with the lads, they kind of understand me more. So yeah, I guess I'm proud to be bisexual.