What do you do when someone you loved hurts you badly?

[Shar]

How do you deal with it?

[despect]

get your own back ;)

[Lew]

Slit my wrists.

[Shar]

but does harming yourself make it any better?

[Meree.]

If they hurt you it's obvious they have no meaningful feelings towards you.

So you build a bridge, and get over it.

[Xoim]

If they hurt you it's obvious they have no meaningful feelings towards you.

So you build a bridge, and get over it.

You know who this about, and yet you feel you need to make a reply on this thread
LOL
You possibly cause this thread.


But yeah shar babe, you will get over it. He wasn't worth it anyway.

[superalex929]

Have a good think about what you have done wrong, Or in my case me, and then think what would be the best way to improve this situation?

[Melsia]

If someone was low enough to hurt you that badly then they're not worth loving so you'll get over them with time :)
That's how I would deal with it anyway

[dogboy123]

If that happens, obviously they will never love you again. It's not worth thinking about what could have hapened, or what can still happen, as if you go back to that person they'll only just do it again. Honestly I think you should move on from it Shar :( xx

[Shar]

Ben, you're too wise for your own good. :P
hmm I'll get over it don't worry

[Catzsy]

If they hurt you it's obvious they have no meaningful feelings towards you.

So you build a bridge, and get over it.

It is really not as easy as that. When you love somebody and they hurt you badly you feel betrayed and lose confidence. It is only natural to go through a cycle of hurt, depression and anger before you can see it more objectively again. You can't just get over it like that. It takes time. People cannot control the way they feel and if posting here makes the member feel better then that's fine. Time is the answer and hopefully other people that you can talk too and support you.

[Pyroka]

get drunk be with friends and party loads

worked for meeeeeeeeeee and my social circle got bigger than peter keys waist size

[buttons]

If they hurt you it's obvious they have no meaningful feelings towards you.

So you build a bridge, and get over it.
hahaha loves it
life is too short, obv they don't care about you so why try make it work? if anything just ignore it (while secretly plotting revenge)

[Soy]

most people confuse love with lust

have a **** and all will be better

[Xtina]

When someone you love hurts you badly, I think you just need to forget about them and move on, because at the end of the day, they're not worth your love if all they're going to do is hurt you and abuse your feelings. Try and find someone who's worth it

[@K]

I go out with my mates EVERY night, and drink A LOT, I know it's not the answer, but that's what makes me happy at the time. I drink quite often anyway, it's the norm here in Spain.

[Keri?!]

It's always hard to move on from someone, especially if what they've done is incredibly low.
Just think, if they're gunna hurt you like that, then they're certainly not worth your time, go find someone who loves you for who you are because there's always someone out there for everybody :)
It may take some time but think about how you could move on and have a better life without them, try not to talk to them for a while simply because, if you still love them, it'll just bring them feelings back which makes it hard because you know they don't love you anymore.
Just try and get over them, no matter how hard it'll be :)

[Lindsey]

If they hurt you it's obvious they have no meaningful feelings towards you.

So you build a bridge, and get over it.

I think thats abit rude, So you build a bridge and get over it? , It takes abit more than that, and thats what shes asking for.

Shar, You have your friends just stick with them, and everything will get better, after my problems with Devyn, I think I can only trust my friends now, and be close to them ;) .. idk if it helps , hopee soo (A) , if u wanna talk about something anything you know where i am ;) winkx

[=Lizzy]

Hide away then get my own back With me its something real evil.

[IceNineKills]

I'm a 'take life on the chin' kind of guy. Whenever someone hurts me or someone dies close to me I don't let my self get down, I just take it on the chin and get on with things.

[Anarchist]

Emotional Pain - Eat a lot of food.

Physical Pain - Go to the gym.

I'm a pretty well balanced guy.

[Nicola]

I'm going to assume here that they aren't sorry and not willing to work this out, yes?

If so then there's really not much you can do. You have to remember that if they hurt you that bad then they really aren't worth having in your life and it's THEIR loss, not yours.

It'll probably take you time to get over it but try not to sit around getting upset about it because thinking about it will only upset you more. Occupy your mind with a hobby or hang out with your friends, it'll take the edge off it and stop you thinking about it.

[Danzilla]

It is really not as easy as that. When you love somebody and they hurt you badly you feel betrayed and lose confidence. It is only natural to go through a cycle of hurt, depression and anger before you can see it more objectively again. You can't just get over it like that. It takes time. People cannot control the way they feel and if posting here makes the member feel better then that's fine. Time is the answer and hopefully other people that you can talk too and support you.

So true and if anyone has been in real love, no matter how much the person you love hurts you, you can't stop loving them.
They say you only have 2 true loves in your life and you will never stop loving that person if you really did love them.
I think the best way is to get out there and find someone your really like and they might soon take your mind off the person that hurt you, it will be hard though.
No matter what, your going to get hurt in the end so its best to find someone whos worth it. Well thats what iv always thought aha.

[Sharon]

Dump them. Short and sweet

[leah]

I just shut myself away from them :x