This girl...

[Jordy]

I think I've made my mind up but I'd really like some second opinions so here goes.

I like this girl and she likes me but she slept with her ex a few weeks back when he was in a relationship, she's kinda got a reputation for being a bit of a... well it rhymes with tag :P

I'd seriously like a relationship with her but I have my doubts, trust would of course be an issue and while I'm not mad over reputation, I sense it may take a little bit of a beating. But other than that it could be fun, it's good experience and there's nothing to lose right? It just doesn't seem right...

[matt$]

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[dbgtz]

I wouldnt do so.

[IceNineKills]

Sounds like you're just doing it for the sex, if you don't have trust then you don't really have anything.

[Swastika]

If your trying to find the polite words to bang her, then you failed. :P
But yeah, if you just wanna bed her, then get it done if you can.
If you genuinely want a relationship, do you think she does?
You could ask her questions you want you know the answers to if she came round yours or something?

[FlyingJesus]

It's entirely possible for people to get about when single and then commit perfectly well when they're in a relationship. You shouldn't mistake promiscuity for a lack of self-control

[Pyroka]

Sounds like you're just doing it for the sex, if you don't have trust then you don't really have anything.

thought you werent persuading him lol

[Gibs960]

Whats the point of havin a relationship with a ****?

[MattFr]

Whats the point of havin a relationship with a ****?

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[Jordy]

Nah it wasn't all for the sex, I wouldn't need a relationship for that with her. On further reflection today, I arrived at school today and basically my friends were all taking the piss out of her (planned for my benefit) and they were pretty much right tbh, she's not a very nice person and I'm a poor character judge. So thankfully they've pointed that out for me and I'll leave it there, cheers for the help guys

[FlyingJesus]

But is she fit? That's more important than personality

[Jordy]

Yeah she is pretty nice. I guess I can always give it a go if I claim I'm pissed (otherwise i'll just get ripped on).

[cocaine]

if shes a sketbag then leave it, its more hassle than its worth

[Nicola]

It's a bit risky if you know it's only going to be a fling because one of you may end up getting a bit too attached and it could get messy.

[danzooo]

I sense it may take a little bit of a beating.


I bet it would! :P



Nah but in all seriousness, mate, I don't think I'd bother if I were you. If she liked you at the time but got with her ex, what does this say about what she might do to you if you's become a couple? Plus if she's notorious for such acts of promiscuity then you should really think twice about anything serious with her...