Do you think facebook ruins your relationship/friendship

[MrGazet]

I've heard loads bout this before and happened to my mates too.

Personally,I agree but I haven't had any experiences before ;P

Gotta say,you have to be careful of what you post on there ;)

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[wixard]

what, no how..

it helps me get to know peeps much better or stay in touch

how would it ruin it?

[Mathew]

Err.. no. None of us really post status updates anyway.
My "friendship group" consists of about 5 of us. We've all known each other since the start of junior school so it's highly unlikely a petty Facebook message would make us hate each other :P

You need to remember Facebook is a site anyone can see if you don't choose the correct security options. Too many teenagers these days jump to conclusions and can't think before they do something. Oh how I love being the sensible one.

[dirrty]

no because i'm smart enough not to post anything which could **** up relationships/friendships unless required.

[matt$]

My friends dont take stuff too serious so no but i can see what you mean as there are some people who are offended or mislead easily, these people imo are *****, have a nice day.

[Special]

It's happened to me a few times wut were all ok now. Main reason being is because i open my mouth of facebook - i say something about someone to let me anger out and everyone wants to know who it is & why and it just escalates from there

[Black_Apalachi]

If it does then you must be doing it wrong.

[Mitch4?]

People feel they can say more over facebook than they can to someones face. So it just basically is helping people get their anger out sometimes.
So annoying,
but i do love facebook arguements, just reading them omg they're hilarious.

[immense]

only if you let it.

[rnix]

It's all *REMOVED* on facebook. It's why i deleted mine.
Plus it gets really boring. :)

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[marriott0.01]

my last commited relationship I'd probably say facebook did more good than harm, we didn't always see each other as we both have hectic lives with 2 very different group of friends and basically when we wanted to know what we were both doing we had facebook, and we could always talk and flirt over facebook. Now she has a new boyfriend who i only found out about over facebook good friend of mine too lols but don't use it much anymore anyway

[Zak]

You just got to be careful what you say, I think it's bad because people can just assume things are about them, tell their friends to look at it etc, when really its got nothing to do with them.

[Stryderman]

Yeh it does, Cos of all the 2faced idiots on there posting random crap an spreading junk which gets your mates involved an then it affects the people who know them. Many times have i seen people break up cos of things said over facebook its stupid really but wht can you do, Same as bebo people used to rant an rave on there people saw it an it caused alot of trouble in school.

[Nixt]

only if you let it.

Precisely. Just be careful about what goes on there and you'll be fine :P

[Grig]

Nah, I've never been an addict. All I use it for is to talk to a few mates sometimes and look at pics or good nights people had. Sometimes play the games if I'm really bored, but yeh I know plenty of people who are 'addicts' if you mean it ruins like in that sense. But if you're smart enough about it, then it wouldn't.