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immense
19-05-2010, 03:03 PM
how easy can you discuss sex with your parents?

Smits
19-05-2010, 03:06 PM
quite easily i guess but i just prefer not to.

My mum tried to bring it up a few times but old enough not to need the stupid safety talks.

lorren
19-05-2010, 03:07 PM
uhmmm still akward LMAO.
but girly things are fine with my mum, not so much with dad XD

Nixt
19-05-2010, 03:13 PM
Easily, there isn't any embarrassment whatsoever. I wouldn't discuss the sordid details of my sex life with my mum but I am quite comfortable talking about most things, as is she.

Stryderman
19-05-2010, 03:19 PM
I tell me mam like everytime i get some n when my missus used to stay round i used to come out an go smell my fingers guess wht i been doin

Blinger$
19-05-2010, 03:20 PM
dad keeps trying to give me tips =\ I think he is stuck in the old days... The advice is ****!

Hecktix
19-05-2010, 03:20 PM
It's not really something that gets mentioned although I did have a quick chat with my mum about my 15 year old sister being in her room with her boyfriend for a long while...

Blinger$
19-05-2010, 03:26 PM
... Uhm.... Oli, **** block much? ;) hehe

Hitman
19-05-2010, 03:32 PM
Dad - fine, can talk about everything & anything.
Mum - nothing. Bloody taboo.

Good job I don't live with her.

Special
19-05-2010, 03:32 PM
Not sure about sex but drinking is not a problem lol i'm so open if not too open about that

Kieran
19-05-2010, 03:34 PM
My mum being a teacher/head of year as her job has to talk to kids about sex.... so I have no problem whatsoever talking about it with her... I always keep her up to date with what slang is for certain things so she's prepared for her kids in lessons :D

Nikki
19-05-2010, 03:34 PM
my mom is easy to talk to, i just leave my dad in the dark about things.

immense
19-05-2010, 04:09 PM
yeah me and my mum talk about events and compare and have a laugh

don't think my dad would appreciate it

Smits
19-05-2010, 04:12 PM
yeah me and my mum talk about events and compare and have a laugh

don't think my dad would appreciate it

Compare events? Not sure id do that.. be a bit weird

immense
19-05-2010, 04:14 PM
not the actual intercourse itself. more like, what's the biggest you've had etc

Kyle
19-05-2010, 04:15 PM
It's never really come up. Don't mind talking to anybody about it though, so long as they don't want exact details.

Smits
19-05-2010, 04:15 PM
not the actual intercourse itself. more like, what's the biggest you've had etc

Ahh right i was gonna say, i wouldnt really wanna hear what my mum had been up to.

Kyle
19-05-2010, 04:17 PM
You speak to your mom about pen0r sizes? that is SICK :l

immense
19-05-2010, 04:18 PM
it's not sick at all. we have a joke about it, bet you haven't had one like.... etc

kuzkasate
19-05-2010, 04:18 PM
i dont tend to talk about it with my parents. dad keeps giving me tips and stuff and i dont wanna tell him "look i already knew that." but yeh, he did say he will give me free condoms if i asked, but i doubt ill ask him, ill rather go buy my own

Nicola
19-05-2010, 04:32 PM
Dad - Definitely not.

Mum - We've discussed how to be safe and all that kind of thing when I was a bit younger but we haven't spoken about it since. I suppose she would be easy to talk to about it I'd just prefer not to really.

Nixt
19-05-2010, 04:33 PM
You speak to your mom about pen0r sizes? that is SICK :l

Maybe it's a gay thing because I do that kinda thing with my mum too

Kyle
19-05-2010, 04:35 PM
Probably is. I mean, I don't really go up to my dad and start nattering away to him about girls. Or maybe it's because he's with my mom and I wouldn't really wanna hear about her. If it was a different woman I would probably feel more comfortable but it's still kinda pervy.

immense
19-05-2010, 04:36 PM
Maybe it's a gay thing because I do that kinda thing with my mum too

Maybe it's just what our families are like though. My family and their humour is black humour.

Nixt
19-05-2010, 04:37 PM
Probably is. I mean, I don't really go up to my dad and start nattering away to him about girls. Or maybe it's because he's with my mom and I wouldn't really wanna hear about her. If it was a different woman I would probably feel more comfortable but it's still kinda pervy.

It's not really pervy because I don't get off on it. I'll just make jokes about certain sexual things that are based in truth but are ultimately a stupid joke and we're just having a laugh.

immense
19-05-2010, 04:38 PM
It's not really pervy because I don't get off on it.

just me then

Smits
19-05-2010, 04:41 PM
Probably is. I mean, I don't really go up to my dad and start nattering away to him about girls. Or maybe it's because he's with my mom and I wouldn't really wanna hear about her. If it was a different woman I would probably feel more comfortable but it's still kinda pervy.

Yeah same here i dotn realyl wanna hear about him and my mum, but if he was single and he was telling me it might be different.

SugarPlum.
19-05-2010, 07:24 PM
it's not like my dad comes upto me and goes, "so leanne, hows the sex life?"
but i could talk to them about it really easily.
they fell out with me when they found out i lost my virginity but now they're over it ;D

Jamesy
19-05-2010, 07:40 PM
My parents and I are pretty liberal in what goes on. I've not really had to talk to them about it though, but I wouldn't imagine it would be a problem. I'd probably be more inclined to talk to my dad, but either is fine.

HotelUser
19-05-2010, 07:42 PM
Extraordinarily difficult and awkward and there's things better left unrevealed, so I would never discuss it with either of them :P

buttons
19-05-2010, 08:06 PM
I tell me mam like everytime i get some n when my missus used to stay round i used to come out an go smell my fingers guess wht i been doin
uhh.... too far, that's something you do to your MATES ;_;
my mum still thought i was her innocent, virginal daughter until last week when i came home with a hickey and she called me a TART:(

my mums pretty serious and i don't feel the need to tell her about stuff or even joke about it, wish we did though. me and my brothers do, mainly cause my friends tell them what i get up to and vice versa:@
never had the whole "be safe" talk, my mum still asks if i got a "snog" after a party, such a geek...

Smits
19-05-2010, 08:08 PM
uhh.... too far, that's something you do to your MATES ;_;
my mum still thought i was her innocent, virginal daughter until last week when i came home with a hickey and she called me a TART:(

my mums pretty serious and i don't feel the need to tell her about stuff or even joke about it, wish we did though. me and my brothers do, mainly cause my friends tell them what i get up to and vice versa:@
never had the whole "be safe" talk, my mum still asks if i got a "snog" after a party, such a geek...

haha my mum thinks the same about me, i dont really wanna break the news to her though.

Shar
19-05-2010, 08:41 PM
never ever ever end of.

Richie
19-05-2010, 08:42 PM
Graham hasn't ever met my parents.


But really, I just tend to avoid it, why would you need to talk about sex to them?

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