Your best friend dies, what would you do?

[hah]

well apart from cry for ages i dont think id be able to function
id be always thinking about them

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[Special]

think about them
quote what they always used to say
visit their family all the time
visit their grave once a week
give them flowers

[Mikey]

probably cry for ages ermm
be depressed for like weeks and weeks and weeks
thinking about them always no matter what
go to their funeral tbh
make a memorial type thing

[Lew]

probably cry for ages ermm
be depressed for like weeks and weeks and weeks
thinking about them always no matter what
go to their funeral tbh
make a memorial type thing

Same as this.

[dbgtz]

dont have best friends
friends always turn their back
they always stab
then you lose.

if it was one of my friends then i would be sad but i could carry on.

[Aidenn]

dont have best friends
friends always turn their back
they always stab
then you lose.

if it was one of my friends then i would be sad but i could carry on.

I agree on this statement, nowadays you can't trust no-one
+rep

[rnix]

Can't really do much cause they're dead?

[FlyingJesus]

Prob hit on his gf she's quite fit from what I remember

[Soy]

find a new best friend with the exact same name

[rnix]

or dont tell anyone and pretend they are sleeping.

[flatface]

I'd shed a tear and try to preserve them the best I could using the pickling technique

[Richie]

probs ask his ma for his xbox


OT: I'd be shocked then an hour later i'd say itd kick in properly

[Shar]

well apart from cry for ages
i dont think id be able to function
id be always thinking about them
Same as this

[Pixet]

my ex is dying & that's bad enough for me...
if i lost my best friend i wouldn't be able to get up everyday;/
i couldn't imagine it

[Richie]

my ex is dying & that's bad enough for me...
if i lost my best friend i wouldn't be able to get up everyday;/
i couldn't imagine it

thats just silly, yes its your best friend and yes they are gone, but thats just a part of life. You have to move on, keep your friend in mind, but continue to live life normally.

[Sad3k..]

I only met my best freind in September 2008, but since then it's been amazing. We've knwon eachother for like 6 years now but grow so close in Sep 08. And if she ever passed away i think i would cryyy so much over and over. I'd begin to self harm and feel so depressed. How do you get over something like that. My great aunt passed away in January and I still cry till now.

[Pixet]

sad3k ^ sorry to hear about your great aunt :(! it's not been years or anything & you can take however long you need to get over losing someone x


thats just silly, yes its your best friend and yes they are gone, but thats just a part of life. You have to move on, keep your friend in mind, but continue to live life normally.

i'd give anything to live my life normally. please don't tell me what i 'have' to do...

[Richie]

i'd give anything to live my life normally. please don't tell me what i 'have' to do...


Okay, just lay in your bed and rot away, because that makes sense.

You grieve and move on, like I said its a part of life.

[Pixet]

Okay, just lay in your bed and rot away, because that makes sense.

You grieve and move on, like I said its a part of life.

What the hell did I do to you? I was just answering the OP's question. Stop talking like you know me.

[Richie]

What the hell did I do to you? I was just answering the OP's question. Stop talking like you know me.

Yeah and I replied to what you posted, if everyone just answered the question in the thread and didn't make a decent debate the forum would be pointless. I'm not picking on you or whatever you want to think I'm doing, I'm simply giving my opinion on what you posted and I don't need to know someone to say its healthy to stay in bed for months grieving over a loss of a loved one.

[PaulMacC]

I have no idea, I'd be really depressed although I know they would not want me being depressed so I'd try to move on as soon as I can but still keep memory of them.

[Shar]

hmf I'm kinda depressed thinking about this now

[Pixet]

Yeah and I replied to what you posted, if everyone just answered the question in the thread and didn't make a decent debate the forum would be pointless. I'm not picking on you or whatever you want to think I'm doing, I'm simply giving my opinion on what you posted and I don't need to know someone to say its healthy to stay in bed for months grieving over a loss of a loved one.

lol my bad, sorry :(
i probably wouldn't be able to do much. i've lost too many people in my life but none as close to me as my best friend. I've already been in hospital with depression so i'm sure i wouldn't be able to handle losing my best friend much. not now anyway.

[wiktoria]

cry and think about them all the time, get over it eventually.

[W00TZEH]

post about it on hxf

[Swearwolf]

get very drunk in his honour

[Erotica]

Grieve and pay my respects to their family.

[DieselShaq]

Get over it? Don't really have much of a choice IMO.

[hah]

naaaaaa richie you're wrong. you wouldnt be able to move on, they would always be in your mind

[Richie]

naaaaaa richie you're wrong. you wouldnt be able to move on, they would always be in your mind


so your basically telling me if your best friend dies (me) your life is over because you'll suffer with depression until you pass away?

[itsMIKEYY]

don't really have a best friend.

[Camy]

wow, not very many optimists on here.

I think if it was my friend, I wouldn't be myself, and just feel kinda empty for a few weeks. But I'd eventually snap out of it, and just try to remember the good times we had, and the things they did that made me smile, and try to celebrate them and the short time we spent together.

[Volumise]

erm would cry and rememba memories

[Hollie]

Cry and be depressed but I would get over it eventually.

[IceNineKills]

i've lost a few good friends and everytime i play 'yellowcard - view from heaven' always reminds me of them. I was very depressed when each died and tried to get on with my life as i knew they wouldn't want me always down and feeling sad. I try to visit their graves twice a month and always on their birthdays and christmas day.

[HotelUser]

I have two friends which I would consider best friends in real life. Though like most friend relationships between two males at my age, we're not close on an emotional level. Of course I would be sad if either one died, but I would be able to function.

[Black_Apalachi]

Anyone who has experienced death may agree with me; how you react can be completely different to how you always imagined you would and you can surprise yourself.

[Shar]

Anyone who has experienced death may agree with me; how you react can be completely different to how you always imagined you would and you can surprise yourself.
Agreed. When someone close to me died recently I didn't shed a tear but I didn't talk to anyone for about a month.

[Banana Pancakes]

I don't have any friends as I spend all day on Habbox.

[Richie]

I don't have any friends as I spend all day on Habbox.

Typical lol

If a friend passes away it is sad, but imo if your male its allot easier to move on. With me and my mates its not like we have heart to heart moments or talk about how were feeling, but with girls they do, so I'd say it would be harder for girls as imo they are just generally closer and more open.

[2uettottanta]

Probably bury his body in the woods, burn my clothes and dispose of the weapon.

EDIT: Oh, and have an alibi in place.

[Rozi]

:'(

lord knows, I'd probably just go into shock and just not be able to do anything for ages, and cry a hell of a lot, or be on the complete other end of the spectrum and bury it farfarfar down and try to carry on like it never happened, but I would fail miserably.

[Banana Pancakes]

Typical lol.

What's that supposed to mean?
Obviously it's not true - losing a close friend is something that I couldn't comprehend and to me is an incredibly pessimistic topic to talk about?

[kuzkasate]

cry.
go to their funeral.
visit them and bring them flowers everyday.
cry most of the day.
not go out, just stay in by myself.

hopefully, one day ill get over it.

[StripedTiger]

its nice to see some humour in some of these answers, I don't think I would cope with 100% depression :(
But as for my answer I really would not know, I don't think I know how I would react to something until it happens

[ChickenFaces]

I'd cry ofc. It'd be so sad. :'(

[crazed]

well apart from cry for ages i dont think id be able to function
id be always thinking about them

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I lol'd.

I'd be sad but then I'd get over it. Life goes on, well for you it would..