I'm on the verge of death.

[Magnetez]

I haven't spoken to my girlfriend in almost two months now. We had something of an odd falling out, and she's completely avoided all contact. Her phone was stolen so uh, can't get in touch with her that way. I've sent her countless e-mails and even went to her house at six in the morning on our anniversary to deliver a present (yesyes, the romance is undeniable ;)) but still there's nothing. I'm slowly going insane from all this. Now, she's quite the sociopath, and she was quite capable of deleting her ex-best-friend from her memory, and she told me just before this happened that she had attempted to do the same with me but failed...

dunno why I'm posting this. I'm just on the verge of death right now, mentally :D Does anyone else share my pain?

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[W00TZEH]

You haven't spoken in almost two months... She's not your girlfriend.

[dirrty]

get the message that she's now your ex-girlfriend. the fact that you've sent her countless emails and went to her house to no response kinda shows that she doesn't want you.

[Magnetez]

Well no, she's not actually. But it's way easier than explaining what we are :D

[lorren]

You haven't spoken in almost two months... She's not your girlfriend.

so true lol. sorry mate!

[Jordy]

The romance is dead. She's not your girlfriend and if you carry on like you are you'll just come across as a stalker. You deserved to hear it from her that's it over but clearly you're not going to so it's probably best moving on and accepting it.

[dirrty]

Well no, she's not actually. But it's way easier than explaining what we are :D
well what do you call it when you haven't been on contact in 2 months by her own choice? a hiatus?

[Becca]

It's so stupid that she's ignoring you like that. But yeah, I don't think you're dating at all anymore.

[Magnetez]

Yeah, I accept that it's probably over but she's an impulsive little zipperhead. I need her to tell me it's over, because she's impulsive and if she doesn't give me a genuine closure then there's the possibility that she will randomly come up to me and say she's sorry or whatever. She's like that.

She also saw my brother the other day and told him to tell me that she's really sorry for ignoring me and that she's gonna unblock me on msn. This was.. two and a half weeks ago? Can you understand why I'm so confused by all this when she says that and then continues to just ignore? What the hell is she doing!?

[Becca]

Yeah I understand. If she can't even be bothered to unblock you on MSN, she's not worth it.

[MattFr]

Yeah, I accept that it's probably over but she's an impulsive little zipperhead. I need her to tell me it's over, because she's impulsive and if she doesn't give me a genuine closure then there's the possibility that she will randomly come up to me and say she's sorry or whatever. She's like that.

She also saw my brother the other day and told him to tell me that she's really sorry for ignoring me and that she's gonna unblock me on msn. This was.. two and a half weeks ago? Can you understand why I'm so confused by all this when she says that and then continues to just ignore? What the hell is she doing!?

Sounds like a nut job. I'll make her mind up for her, it's over.

[Magnetez]

Has anyone else been in a similar situation hum!?

[Accipiter]

Ignore her

Forget her

move on

look cool doing it. Or look like a nerd with no chance with another lass chasing her.

[cocaine]

Yeah, I accept that it's probably over but she's an impulsive little zipperhead. I need her to tell me it's over, because she's impulsive and if she doesn't give me a genuine closure then there's the possibility that she will randomly come up to me and say she's sorry or whatever. She's like that.

:S do you have no balls or something? dump her she's obviously a nutter.. thats if you can consider her as still your girlfriend after two months of no contact..

[Callum.]

If you're blocked on facebook go on a friends and message her.

I was extremely disappointed by the thread contents compared to the title, was expecting more.

[Magnetez]

She's a nutter..but so am I. You know, I know this is wildly unhealthy but surely you understand how hard it is to let go of someone who defined two years of your life?
Callum - she has no facebook ;) and the thread title is magical, that's the point! If I told you of how deadly I was right now though, it would make the title seem crappy compared ;)

[MattFr]

She's a nutter..but so am I. You know, I know this is wildly unhealthy but surely you understand how hard it is to let go of someone who defined two years of your life?

I understand that fully, but clinging on to her for longer will only make her harder to forget if you're so madly infatuated with her. Grow some balls br0.

[Meanies]

Yeah, I accept that it's probably over but she's an impulsive little zipperhead. I need her to tell me it's over, because she's impulsive and if she doesn't give me a genuine closure then there's the possibility that she will randomly come up to me and say she's sorry or whatever. She's like that.

She also saw my brother the other day and told him to tell me that she's really sorry for ignoring me and that she's gonna unblock me on msn. This was.. two and a half weeks ago? Can you understand why I'm so confused by all this when she says that and then continues to just ignore? What the hell is she doing!?

not probably over.. it is over

so if she said that two and a half weeks ago, that'd mean you were blocked for 5 and a half weeks, think that means she doesn't want to talk you

[N-Dubz]

she obviously isnt bothered about you, else she woulda unblocked you on MSN (lol, though that was pretty childish...)

you could safely say it was over .... let go m8.

[Magnetez]

Yeah, I will. You know, I needed a good kick up the ass in this situation, and it has been provided. Let's hope I stick to this. I'll send her one last e-mail.. saying bye FOREVAAAA ;)

[Catzsy]

Yeah, I accept that it's probably over but she's an impulsive little zipperhead. I need her to tell me it's over, because she's impulsive and if she doesn't give me a genuine closure then there's the possibility that she will randomly come up to me and say she's sorry or whatever. She's like that.

She also saw my brother the other day and told him to tell me that she's really sorry for ignoring me and that she's gonna unblock me on msn. This was.. two and a half weeks ago? Can you understand why I'm so confused by all this when she says that and then continues to just ignore? What the hell is she doing!?

Sounds like she is playing head games to me. Perhaps that's why you were attracted to her because she is different and unpredictable. The downside to that is you would never know where you were with her and not feel secure in the realtionship. Very destructive and painful for you, I suspect.

[eddiekins]

Go get laid with someone else, make sure she can see.
This will confirm our gleeful diagnosis; she hatez u.

[Magnetez]

Go get laid with someone else, make sure she can see.
This will confirm our gleeful diagnosis; she hatez u..
hehe!



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[Gibs960]

She's not your gf, get on with life

[PaulMacC]

She isn't worth it if she's acting like that mate, no matter how amazing you think she is.

[Wig44.]

I haven't spoken to my girlfriend in almost two months now. We had something of an odd falling out, and she's completely avoided all contact. Her phone was stolen so uh, can't get in touch with her that way. I've sent her countless e-mails and even went to her house at six in the morning on our anniversary to deliver a present (yesyes, the romance is undeniable ;)) but still there's nothing. I'm slowly going insane from all this. Now, she's quite the sociopath, and she was quite capable of deleting her ex-best-friend from her memory, and she told me just before this happened that she had attempted to do the same with me but failed...

dunno why I'm posting this. I'm just on the verge of death right now, mentally :D Does anyone else share my pain?

Thread moved by Nicola (Forum Super Moderator) from 'Discuss Anything'.

I'd say you are quite the sociopath sending countless emails and taking her a present. Two problems here:
Countless emails makes you look needy - very unattractive.
Taking a present when it's obviously over is trying to buy her back - bad idea.

If she avoided all contact after a falling out then you need to remember that you are the prize, not her and that you don't need to put up with that bull ****. Move on, find someone better.

Edit: Noticed your second post. You come across as needy, insecure and.. to be blunt, slightly pathetic. Masculinity has apparently been flung out of the window. Don't play the little games, move on.