Am i being childish?

[AlexOC]

Hi Ho!

So i live at home with my mummy and that thing i call a step dad, my sisters have all moved out. But about 2 weeks ago one of my sisters broke up with her boyfriend and moved back into the spare bedroom for a few months while she sorts things out, she's 19 or 20 or something i don't really know, anyway i like her and shes my fav sister and we get on really well but whenever i'm with my mum and sister at the same time, it seems like my sister always comes first, my mum is always happy to see her, but i feel shes sick of seeing me. My bed is propper crappy, because a few of the springs poked through, and its really uncomfortable, and its been like that for just over a year, and my mum keeps saying she'll get me a brand new one, but last week, only a week after my sister moved back in my mum goes out and gets her a brand new sleepmasters nice bed, which cost a few hundred, even though the one in the spare bedroom was perfectly fine, and now i've heard her talking about buying my sister a holiday with a friend to get away for a few weeks even though it took me 3 weeks to finally get £25 off her to pay for my alton towers trip.

I know for sure she favourites her, and i have nothing against my sister, but i'm really pissed how my mum treats me in relation to my sister.

Am i being childish, or can anybody see my point? and would you feel pretty crap if the same happened to you?

I don't really know what to do about, should i sit down with my mum, my sister, and talk about how i feel? Or should i just wait until she moves out and my mum has to favourite me because there is nobody else left? :(

[Kieran]

Talk to her, let her know how you feel. She might not see it :)

[Sharon]

I totally see your point and I've been in the same position - My brother is 8 and he was so close to get an iPhone. I've wanted an iPod for over 3 years and I finally got one at Xmas. My brother only wanted one because I have one and he got one for HIS 8TH BIRTHDAY.. may aswell ******* buy him a mansion he pisses me off so much.

[Muct]

Shar-bon, calm down lmao...

Alex, you you're not in the wrong at all, I'm the most favoured in my family lol, but still, that is really wrong... Your sister is lucky just to get you and your mothers spare room, nevermind a totally new bed and a holiday with a friend... You have friends, don't you? :/ Just have a talk with her, but if you don't wanna do that just put your foot down and totally demand the new bed and stuff...
My sister used to be favoured but since I put my foot down when I was like 8 I get everything lololol!
Yeah, maybe you should have a talk with your sister too? :S

EDIT: UNTIL she moves out!?!
Your mother bought your sister a new bed and a holiday when she's only there until she sorts things out? O.o WTH

[Chris]

I feel the same when my sister visits and i feel neglected but ive realised that it's only because she likes to spend time with her and do all that girly shopping thing because they don't see each other much. Thats probably the same as you?

[chantellehugs]

Ooo I know how you feel, that happened to me a few years back, and because back in the days I used to keep a diary that I wrote everything in, my mum found it when she was "cleaning my room" and the "wind" must of blown it to the particular page where I wrote I was fed up of feeling like second best.
Anywho, she spoke to me about it afterwards and everything's been fine after that, I feel like me and my siblings are treated equally.
So I guess my advice is to talk to her about it, because like someone above said, she may not even realize how you feel :).