Life

[Shar]

sucks.

I have two brothers that I hate so much. They're both younger than me and get everything they want. Although I lose my temper very easily for a couple of months now, since my sister moved out, I've been behaving really well and now everything's ruined. Both of them are acting like brats and I've just lost the plot. I'm the criminal child in the family although I don't actually do anything wrong most of the time. Yes I shout but my parents know that that's something I can't help. I have no idea what I should do anymore at all. I've become a person I hate, my relationship with my mum has gone down the drain and my dad hates me.
I'm really stressed out as it is because of A-Level results and UCAS stuff and I'm just dfghjkljhgfd.
FML.

What shall I do? ;S

Thanks guys,

Shar.

Yes I know I sound like a spoiled, attention seeking brat but you don't know anything about me so stick to giving advice instead of calling be the latter.

[Muct]

My relationships gone down too, so has alot of others, it's just exams! (Obviously not for me because I'm in Y8, but I'm moody anyway LOLOL)
Just wait a few months and you'll be fine! :)

[Shar]

My relationships gone down too, so has alot of others, it's just exams! (Obviously not for me because I'm in Y8, but I'm moody anyway LOLOL)
Just wait a few months and you'll be fine! :)
Oh I should add in that my relationship with them has never been good.
They hate me the most. I know everyone says that but in this case it's actually true. My mum always wants to go out with my brothers and my sister but she never asks me to go out with her anywhere. We have no mother - daughter bond.
And it's getting worse as I get older.

[buttons]

be thankful. your brothers are younger and are going to get all the attention. deal with it.
i am the same, there's been a lot of problems with both my older brothers. i get angry with my mum for forgiving them and giving in to them when they treat her like ****. i'm no angel but i know to be respectful to her, i don't moan that i'm better behaved because it's something i should be anyway...

no, your life doesn't suck. lots of people go through bad relationships with their parents especially teenagers, it gets better with time. OR you could try to sort it. moaning and being depressed will never ever solve it, gotta do it for yourself i'm afraid. once you lose that brothers "you hate" or the mum that doesn't bond with you that's when your life will truly suck. stop taking for granted what you do have.

you can help your shouting, don't expect them to be your bffl after shouting at them it's not gonna happen. i dunno why you think your dad hates you nor do i really care but unless he's ever said/proved it then don't make assumptions. it's all hormones, it'll get better and if it doesn't it'll get worse unless you be patient and try to improve stuff for yourself..

[Shar]

be thankful. your brothers are younger and are going to get all the attention. deal with it.
i am the same, there's been a lot of problems with both my older brothers. i get angry with my mum for forgiving them and giving in to them when they treat her like ****. i'm no angel but i know to be respectful to her, i don't moan that i'm better behaved because it's something i should be anyway...

no, your life doesn't suck. lots of people go through bad relationships with their parents especially teenagers, it gets better with time. OR you could try to sort it. moaning and being depressed will never ever solve it, gotta do it for yourself i'm afraid. once you lose that brothers "you hate" or the mum that doesn't bond with you that's when your life will truly suck. stop taking for granted what you do have.

you can help your shouting, don't expect them to be your bffl after shouting at them it's not gonna happen. i dunno why you think your dad hates you nor do i really care but unless he's ever said/proved it then don't make assumptions. it's all hormones, it'll get better and if it doesn't it'll get worse unless you be patient and try to improve stuff for yourself..

Read the italics. You don't know the full story lol its not how you think it is.
Thanks for the advice though +rep

[5,5]

Read the italics. You don't know the full story lol its not how you think it is.
Thanks for the advice though +rep

Tbh, unless you tell the whole story, you will just keep saying that nobody knows the whole story, so tell the whole story, or dont tell anything.

[Shar]

Tbh, unless you tell the whole story, you will just keep saying that nobody knows the whole story, so tell the whole story, or dont tell anything.
It's complicated, I didn't say her advice didn't help!

[5,5]

It's complicated, I didn't say her advice didn't help!

Fair enough. By the way I probably sounded a lot more like a jerk than I intended I wasn't trying to come off like that haha

[Shar]

Fair enough. By the way I probably sounded a lot more like a jerk than I intended I wasn't trying to come off like that haha
It's OK I'm tough, I don't get offended that easily :)

[HotelUser]

It's OK I'm tough, I don't get offended that easily :)

Tough as nails :)

There's always University, when you can move far far away from the terrible two :)

[Samantha]

Shar, it usually happens in most families, you grow up and it seems you have to compete with your siblings. Now your the oldest your mum may expect more from you.

She may think that, seeing as your growing up, you don't really want to spend time with her - but you do. You should try and mend the bond between you, try asking if she would like to come shopping with you or to the cinema or just have a chat.
She then can see what is really bugging you and begin to include you more.

I know what you mean about shouting and stuff. I shout at my dad a lot, butit doesn't help when my mum starts shouting at me too when it was completely my dads fault. She takes my side sometimes, but in others it's just like they are out to get you.

You shouldn't have to live in your brother's shadows, your mum should not favouritise any kid in their family. But you may also need to try and include her, so she will include you, if you get what I mean.