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chantellehugs
07-08-2010, 09:51 PM
Like a friend that you can tell anything to?

I don't think I have, I mean I have about 4 really good friends, but I don't feel like we're best friends because I can't always express my true side to them, and we don't always have fun when we're together.
I was browsing youtube and I came across demi lovato and selena gomez's videos and it just made me think about close friends. I used to have a few friends who I kinda classed as my best friends but then they got into doing bad things and stuff so I kinda cut myself off from them.

I'd really like a friend that I could anything to, and they wouldn't judge me. And a friend that I could call at 4am with any of my worries, and they'd be there for me.

Hecktix
07-08-2010, 09:54 PM
Yeah but he can be an ******** most of the time, infact I kinda have two best friends, one that I see most and one that I talk to about things most.. complicated really.

I'd also say that my girlfriend is my best friend too :)

Nemo
07-08-2010, 09:57 PM
Not irl (how sad am i). I got good friends irl that i chill and can talk to, but only one guy online that i can really talk to. Im pretty secretive and get randomly emberassed, so the fact that hes online probably helps a lot that i can talk to him. Plus we have similar interests so yknow.

Samantha.
07-08-2010, 10:09 PM
I've had a best friend since year 7 which was like 6 years ago and I can tell her everything and anything! I love it how I feel comfortable to tell her anything no matter what

HotelUser
07-08-2010, 10:15 PM
In real life I don't have a specific best friend anymore. Used to--I'm not really into the stuff she's done to herself these days. I have two closer friends and other than that a small group of other guys who are my friends. We do not talk about anything remotely personal and we would all feel uncomfortable doing so!

I would say I am much closer on that level to people I've met via Habbox, actually :P

Sharon
07-08-2010, 10:53 PM
No, just lots of friends. Don't like singling people out

Phil
07-08-2010, 10:59 PM
I used to have a best friend but her boyfriend thought I was trying to sabotage their relationship and he was supposed to be one of my best friends. She was the only person I really felt comfortable telling everything too and I don't have that anymore. We are friends again now but we can't ever be as good as we were. Now I don't have a BEST friend, just loads of really close ones :)

buttons
07-08-2010, 11:11 PM
i have 5 best friends but each of us have someone we're closer to within the group.
i can do stuff easily just the 2 of us, we often get ready together or just watch a dvd but i couldn't do it with the others. my bffl literally keeps us all together, she makes all the plans. we probably get on best because we've been brought up with guys so act like them....

Soy
08-08-2010, 12:11 AM
I've got four i'd consider my best

but i call them ma boiz

syko2006
08-08-2010, 12:33 AM
Nope, thought I did. But obviously not.

Wish I did have a really good friend though, the type I could do stuff with all the time. Someone I'd actually like to be around.
Oh well, maybe one day!

Mathew
08-08-2010, 01:55 AM
Yes, I have one close friend who I can tell absolutely anything to - then loads others which I'm close to.

I'm pretty open and speak my mind about stuff that happens and will preach it to anybody so it's not really a problem :S

Muct
08-08-2010, 03:02 AM
Nah I don't play favourites

Tintinnabulate
08-08-2010, 11:57 AM
Yesss there are some people I share quite a lot with.

Petite$
08-08-2010, 12:28 PM
I don't feel like we're best friends because I can't always express my true side to them, and we don't always have fun when we're together.


Same here, I had someone like this for years. I gave up pretending and told her what I thought of her, we're not 'best friends' anymore obviously lol. But I have nobody that I can tell anything to. Most of the stuff I think is completely private & nobody knows how I actually feel. I kinda like just having 'friends' because there's no pressure to commit more to one person.

Jessicrawrr
08-08-2010, 12:36 PM
I have a best friend, she's been my best friend since like year one and we've been best friends for years,
I also have like a group of close friends but I still have a best friend :)

Gemma
08-08-2010, 01:44 PM
I have 3. I can talk to them freely, be myself, trust them with anything and we hardly ever argue.

Fallen
08-08-2010, 03:22 PM
I don't really have a best friend, but I tell different friends different things, depending on what my problems are at the time.

Lost_Addict
08-08-2010, 04:41 PM
I've had a best freind since i was like 4 who libves down my road XD but he ca nbe an utter **** :P

I also have a small group of very good freinds of about 3-4 people then lots and lots of freinds :P

FlyingJesus
08-08-2010, 10:23 PM
One guy I've been close with for 16 years who I probably could tell everything to but am not often serious enough with because we just have too much fun together so I'm not often in that kind of mood with him. Also there's a girl I've know like 3 or 4 years now I think who I can literally tell anything and she's beautiful so naturally all my friends think I'm totally in love with her but really she's my best friend and would rather keep her that way instead of getting with her and messing it all up like I usually do with women :P

Camy
18-08-2010, 08:59 PM
Hmm, kind of, I've got two or three people I can talk to about almost everything. I used to have two best friends who were girls, they were awesome friends, but it was ruined when we decided to be more than friends.

immense
18-08-2010, 09:02 PM
not as such i just have a really close group of friends, i would love someone i could tell anything about but there is nobody i could really phone up crying down the phone if i had a family row or whatever

MattFr
19-08-2010, 12:09 AM
I have one person I can tell anything to. Good stuff.

Decapitated
19-08-2010, 12:11 AM
i have 4, i used to have 6 but 2 just drifted from our very tight friend group and it's been the 4 of us for as long as i can remember, we're all really open and we all trust each other and it feel so good to actually have so many people i can tell anything.

Jorc
19-08-2010, 01:54 AM
I have a bestfriend, it actually used to be 4 of us and then dwindled down into just us lol. :D We do everything together though.

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