What to do

[Jordy]

Last Wednesday basically I got dumped cause she said she didn't love me and never would. I'm okay with that, we'd been going out for a few months and I hadn't really developed much feelings for her either. So I didn't really react I just took it and didn't really show any emotion during the phonecall. I asked whether it was because I'd been a bit of an idiot recently and she assured me it wasn't. However I'm really not convinced by that, the past week or two I had been pretty intensive and to an extent clingy and let her down a bit, nothing major but it no doubt added up so it was too much for her.

Should I contact her and apologise asking for a second chance or just leave it? I risk making it awkward and seeing as it's all okay I'm unsure. While I don't love her as such, I do have feelings and I do enjoy her company, I wish it'd return to how it was in that respect. I don't wanna end up regretting not contacting her.

If I'm honest though I think I've made my mind up in that I'm not going to contact her and live in hope she contacts me but the advice I've received here in the past has been pretty decent so a second opinion wouldn't do any harm :)

[Special]

i think you should leave it if i'm completely honest

with the sounds of things, you don't have feelings for her & she doesn't have feelings for you

[Catzsy]

Last Wednesday basically I got dumped cause she said she didn't love me and never would. I'm okay with that, we'd been going out for a few months and I hadn't really developed much feelings for her either. So I didn't really react I just took it and didn't really show any emotion during the phonecall. I asked whether it was because I'd been a bit of an idiot recently and she assured me it wasn't but I'm really unsure about this. However I'm really not convinced by that, the past week or two I had been pretty intensive and to an extent clingy and let her down a bit, nothing major but it no doubt added up so it was too much for her.

Should I contact her and apologise asking for a second chance or just leave it? I risk making it awkward and seeing as it's all okay I'm unsure. While I don't love her as such, I do have feelings and I do enjoy her company, I wish it'd return to how it was in that respect. I don't wanna end up regretting not contacting her.

If I'm honest though I think I've made my mind up in that I'm not going to contact her and live in hope she contacts me but the advice I've received here in the past has been pretty decent so a second opinion wouldn't do any harm :)

Well however you break up you will feel bad for awhile it's only natural but as you say you have not really developed any feelings for her I don't see a lot of point tbh. You are bound to miss her because she has been a part of your life for some time but there could be happier times ahead elsewhere! I would not contact her even if you would like to see her again - let her miss you and keep your dignity. :)

[dbgtz]

to be quite honest the fact she done it over the phone says everything, I'd leave it and I pretty much agree with Catzsy.

[Apple]

For her to say that she doesn't love you and never will just out of the blue like that I think that you should just leave it. It's not as if you have done anything really bad that has made her upset and caused her to say such things so I don't think you two are meant to be. Besides, girls that can finish relationships over the phone are never the type you should really chase.

[CustomSocks]

You might have feelings for her but one day you will meet someone you will have 10 times more feelings for. So why rush and mess about? Enjoy being a 'single pringle'. :)

[Grippz]

It's her loss, if she says she doesn't love you and she never would I think it's time to pick yourself up and move on. Maybe one day she will come to realize that she has lost someone she could have been happy with but it's something only she herself will know. She has said that you haven't done anything wrong to help fuel her decision so I wouldn't call her apologizing. Maybe if you did really want to say hello you could perhaps just call her and see if she wanted to go see a film or something but I wouldn't expect much. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!