Why is it people judge you, when they don't know you?

[KpgbBAN]

Really annoyed me.

[immense]

People are always going to be judgemental. We all are, admittedly to different extents but we all are nonetheless. If you see someone walking down the road who has no shoes, carrying a bin bag you assume he's homeless and dirty.

[KpgbBAN]

Yeah that is very true. In my case this guy instead of confronting me about the "oh such big problem he has with me" he ******* about me behind my back to my friend. He doesn't know me and I wouldn't of snapped at him.

[immense]

You're going to meet idiots in all walks of life though. Ignore him. If he's not going to get to know you and decide he doesn't like you prior to getting to know you then just think it's his loss.

[KpgbBAN]

Thanks it just makes it awkward 'cause his friends with my friends. >_<

[dbgtz]

Its just nature I guess, I hate it too though but I do it and I guess to some extent it's hypocritical for me to say I hate it :P

However I only really see huge judgemental behavior in the "popular" girls, this one who's never even spoken to me just ignores me to hell. Shes a **** and in 10 years she'll be smoking crack which is paid for by her prostitution. I can judge her now I know her roughly, ****.

[FlyingJesus]

Judging people is fun

[Gibs960]

I get judged a lot, because I talk a lot when I get to know people. So like people always think I'm talking about them, recently everyone has been judging me, doesn't bother me :)

[Catzsy]

Really annoyed me.

Happens all the time on here. I wouldn't worry about it.

[PaulMacC]

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done. Now, if you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you are because of him, or her, or anybody.
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Yeah, you shouldnt care lol. It'll only hold you back in life.

[Apple]

It's just a fact of life, human nature to judge things based on what we see. Many try their hardest not to but it's deep within us, you could say it is one of our basic survival instincts.

[,Lexiilu]

it's just natural really. some people don't even realize they do it (though most do). i think everyone has honestly judged someone they didn't know, whether they told someone or not. for example, to me, blonde cheerleaders automatically strike me as ****** without even knowing them or have talked to them, and a lot of the time i'm wrong. sometimes people don't take time to get to know other people and they just automatically judge them.

i've been called a **** more times than i can count behind my back, and yet i've only kissed a guy (and most people in my school don't know that). i've also been called emo, but i don't cut myself, nor do i have black hair. however a couple of my friends cut themselves, etc. therefore people associate me with them sometimes and think i'm the same. i also wear skinny jeans sometimes, wear black eyeliner and own quite a few black shirts. also i used to have reallyyyy dark almost black hair cos i dyed it, twice. basically people just assume a bunch of different things when they don't know the truth.

you just gotta ignore it and be the better person :)

[Special]

i don't really care if people judge me before they know me, everyone is entitled to their own opinion i guess even though i only do it when people have told me stores about a certain person

[chantellehugs]

A lot of my cousins friends judged me when I first met them. They said that I spoke in a posh way and that I never did anything wrong. But if I'm honest it didn't upset me, I don't mind people thinking I speak posh or I never do anything wrong. Because that's how I choose to live my life, and I'm happy doing so.
If people are going to judge me when they've never spoken to my properly, then they don't deserve to know the real me.

I admit that I do judge people based on what I see, but I don't say anything about it. I wait to see how the person acts towards me before setting my opinion in stone. I'm just more wary of those who don't seem like people I associate with.