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immense
31-08-2010, 09:20 PM
before i go uni im meeting one of my old best mates from secondary school. i haven't seen him properly for two years. we were close at secondary school but i was a ***** 2 years ago (no confirming this thnx) and i think i've become a lot more reserved. i'm strangely nervous. i've changed, what if he has? will we have anything to talk about?!
buttons
31-08-2010, 09:33 PM
this is the same as me
i met up with someone, who was my best mate for 4 year, on monday and it was mega awkward. i used to be a doormat and let him control me so he was shocked i was actually my own person:O, we have nothing in common anymore but he's still a snotty creep. sometimes you just gotta move on for the best, don't bother tryna be who you used to be it'll just be burdensome in the long run. it's worth a try though.
Jordy
31-08-2010, 09:41 PM
Hmm I did this, someone I was best friends with at primary school I met up with last year after talking on Facebook a lot. It went surprisingly well seeing as neither of us have changed much and had a good laugh, but after we met we haven't spoke since it's quite strange.
dbgtz
31-08-2010, 10:40 PM
i done this earlier in the year, hadn't spoke to him for 7 year and it was amazing how even though were really quite different now it was amazing how well we still got on :L
i think it just depends i guess.
Grippz
31-08-2010, 10:42 PM
I recently met an old friend who I hadn't spoken to for over three years. We were friends since primary school and were more or less the best of friends when we were in secondary. It was okay at first and it was genuinely nice to see him again after such a long time but it did eventually get awkward and we found ourselves running out of things to talk about more and more. We both commented on how we had changed but I now have no interest in talking to him again. I think you lose/stop contact with people for a reason, if you were genuinely interested in the friendship you wouldn't have lost contact in the first place. Have a nice time!
Minstrels
01-09-2010, 01:13 AM
I once met someone after like, 10 years of not seeing her as I moved to Germany. She stalked me on FB & stuff so we chatted etc etc etc. Long story short it was alright and we're still in contact and talk regulary. Btw jake i'm posting this on my phone in bed mmmmmmmm, remember ma bed? x
immense
01-09-2010, 01:19 AM
thnx guys :) im gna do it and see whats what. im going with a current friend anyway.
yah matty, remember it well ;) i hope the sheets have been cleaned tho.
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