View Full Version : Do rushed relationships work?
My friend has been seeing this girl for a week now and now they're in a relationship and saying they 'love' each other.
Relationships aren't that easy.. right?
Meanies
12-09-2010, 04:46 PM
depends how long they've known each other as to whether they couldve actually developed those feelings yet
Matthew
12-09-2010, 04:46 PM
could be love at first sight ;), and if theyd known eachother before and for how long
EDIT: beaten to it :/
Special
12-09-2010, 04:51 PM
slow relationships don't work so there isn't a cat in hells chance a fast one will
They only just met last week lol.
I'd understand if they liked each other, but to start a relationship so soon seams a bit rushed.
emotional
12-09-2010, 04:56 PM
slow relationships don't work so there isn't a cat in hells chance a fast one will
Somebody give this man a medal.
A week is rather short, but if they're both happy, what's the problem? Let them consider themselves to be in love, if they're happy then it's all hunky dory. :)
RedStratocas
12-09-2010, 05:12 PM
its alright to start a relationship that fast. me and my ex only knew eachother 3 or 4 days before we started dating and we ended up being with each other almost 2 years. i mean a week is probably too fast to say youre in love with each other but thats a really common thing for teenagers to think. as soon as they get a kiss they think theyre going to be with that person forever lol.
dbgtz
12-09-2010, 05:32 PM
I think like most blokes most of the time, "loves" means hes getting the pleasure he needs :P
in all seriousness, not really and I bet soon enough they'll find flaws, get pissy with each other etc etc.
I guess it could be but its highly likely it isnt.
[Jay]
12-09-2010, 05:47 PM
Starting a relationship fast can work, however there is such a thing as two fast, for example being in a relationship for a few months or a year and getting married. That wont work.
kuzkasate
12-09-2010, 05:48 PM
i think they do work, like if they met & instantly had feelings, thats already saying something and if they are both prepared to get together, then yeh why not but they should build on their relationship, during their relationship if that makes any sense.
Narnat,
12-09-2010, 06:38 PM
It may seem weird to you but maybe not to them. Some people benefit from fast relationships and others from slow. I personally do better in medium relation ships. so yeah ;D
Firehorse
13-09-2010, 06:12 PM
Well I knew someone who did rushed relationships and she'd gone through about 7 guys in 2 years. So no, i'd say rushing doesn't work.
chantellehugs
13-09-2010, 06:38 PM
If you don't get to know the person properly and you're 'infatuated' then they probably won't work. Because you don't each other and you could be complete opposites.
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