I was set up.

[kuzkasate]

So I dont even know where to start. I will try make it short and simple.

Well I have, or should I say had these two best friends one was a girl and the other was a boy. Lets name the girl G and the boy B. I have liked G for the past 3 years, I guess it was kinda love at first sight thing, but I didnt know G at all so I told me best-friend at the time B, about how I felt & as soon as I did, what does he go and do? He gets with her.

So I am really pissed off at him and get to know G more. Me and G became bestfriends. G is still dating with B, whilst me and G have a bit of a flirt. B, gets pissed off with me and tries having a go at me. G starts to like me and because B is a total ****, they keep splitting up, gettin together, splittin up, getting together etc.

So recently, they split up for good (well for like 2 months anyway) and me and G start getting really close and she admitted that she thinks shes falling in love. I was constantly there for her, when she had to get rushed to hospital, when her house set on fire, when her mum got put into one of those mental homes, when her dad went on a mad-one, so basically I am always there for her.

So as you probably understand, me and B aren't friends at all anymore, probably enemies infact. But B still wants her even tho she is mine now, and when they were together he treated her like **** and she was always in tears. So like for the past 2 weeks, he has constantly been getting in the way of us and basically, chatting ******** about us.
He really upset G and lied to her about some things I apparently said, and she was in tears, so I get really pissed off and have a go at him basically telling him to **** off & leave us alone & that he had loads of chances with her and now hes blew them all.

So today, I get home and strangely my gf does not pick up her phone, she doesnt reply to texts and doesnt talk on facebook, even tho she comments on wall posts and stuff. So one of her close friends, tells me that apparently there are pictures of me with another girl & apparently there are some pictures when we are high on cocaine & weed and what not else?

Now B has really good photoshop skills & he often photoshops stuff for a joke.. so its quite obvious he faked the pictures and what hes done is quite clever, cos we all sorta did this truth/dare thing & basically I owned up that if I had the chance, I would try cocaine, but only once and once only, so hes used that to completely make me look like a crackhead & cheater?

Funnily enough, the girl thats in the pictures with me, is some unknown girl that noones ever seen or heard of.. how can I proove that those pictures are fake (my gfs close friend showed me them and they do look quite realistic I sppose, but common, there must be a way to show that they are fake?)


Any ideas what I can do to get my gf back? Cos atm, my gf has really fell out with me, everyone thinks I am a crack head & what not else and like.. yeh.

This is serious so I will +rep all serious suggestions
(didnt know how to title it so thats the first thing that came into my head.)

[Nemo]

Well you could either try and find the original picture, which would then prove your innocence, or you could post the pictures here or pm me, or just try and do it yourself, and try and find major flaws in the picture, because there must be somewhere.

Cant really think of much else to do, although she doesnt sound like a great girl if she can't even trust you when the only person she's got to go on is someone whos messed her about so much, surely she should realise.

[kuzkasate]

Well you could either try and find the original picture, which would then prove your innocence, or you could post the pictures here or pm me, or just try and do it yourself, and try and find major flaws in the picture, because there must be somewhere.

Cant really think of much else to do, although she doesnt sound like a great girl if she can't even trust you when the only person she's got to go on is someone whos messed her about so much, surely she should realise.

i just re-read what i wrote, sounds like something from eastenders.

anyway, i dont have the picture with me & its not like a real photo, its just been printed from a computer so i cant even look for flaws.
and she doesnt know that he sent them her, apparently it was done all secretly and was posted in her house.

it just pisses me off to know someone is that sad to do something like that. the guy whos done this is not normal.. i really dont think a normal person would do that.

[Nemo]

i just re-read what i wrote, sounds like something from eastenders.

anyway, i dont have the picture with me & its not like a real photo, its just been printed from a computer so i cant even look for flaws.
and she doesnt know that he sent them her, apparently it was done all secretly and was posted in her house.

it just pisses me off to know someone is that sad to do something like that. the guy whos done this is not normal.. i really dont think a normal person would do that.
ow, thats a tough one. Surely though u wuldnt trust something that someone just randomly posts through your door, that just screams suspicious.

And yeah, he really does seem like a sad kind of guy, but you can't really do much. Tbh, if i were you it just sounds like the whole thing is just one big messy situation and id just run before she gets even worse.

[The Don]

As Nemo has said, post the pictures of pm them and I/He will have a look for any flaws, as I myself am good at photoshop and so is nemo to my knowledge. Also, as he's already said, have a look through pictures on your facebook to see if you can find the ones anywhere. If shes ignoring you walk to her house if she means that much to you. The person who's done this needs a good kick in. Goodluck and keep us updated if she beleives you (I'm quite interested now lol)

[wixard]

how can somebody possibly photoshop a picture of you with another girl that looks sexual
if not and it's just a picture of you and a girl that's pretty stupid for her to get mad about

[The Don]

Just read what else you put. Explain to her that he's insanely good at photoshop, if she knows him (well they went out) then she should beleive you. Also mention how it obviously was him who put it through her door and explain that you would never do anything like that... Gl

[kuzkasate]

As Nemo has said, post the pictures of pm them and I/He will have a look for any flaws, as I myself am good at photoshop and so is nemo to my knowledge. Also, as he's already said, have a look through pictures on your facebook to see if you can find the ones anywhere. If shes ignoring you walk to her house if she means that much to you. The person who's done this needs a good kick in. Goodluck and keep us updated if she beleives you (I'm quite interested now lol)

i dont have the original pictures, its me gf that threw them away, but my gfs close friend picked them up and took them. ill have a look on facebook but do you know possibly where i could even begin to look for a similar image of a guy sniffing away at 5 lines of coke.

im just kinda really shocked, i cant even ask for advice from anyone irl cos they all think im some crackhead & worst of all, if this gets out to parents or anything.. im tempted to go and smash the guys face in honestly, but then everyone will be like "omg why did you do that" and then i will be in the wrong once again cos i cant proove it was him.

btw, is it legal to do things like this? :S

+repp to everyone if i can.


how can somebody possibly photoshop a picture of you with another girl that looks sexual
if not and it's just a picture of you and a girl that's pretty stupid for her to get mad about
there were seven images, it wasnt really sexual it was more like snoggin and stuff and in really dirty positions and w.e


Just read what else you put. Explain to her that he's insanely good at photoshop, if she knows him (well they went out) then she should beleive you. Also mention how it obviously was him who put it through her door and explain that you would never do anything like that... Gl
yes but its hard if she doesnt listen, but i told her close friend to pass it on to her.

[Inseriousity.]

i just re-read what i wrote, sounds like something from eastenders.

LOL I thought Shameless but that's cos you live in manchester as well I think :P

Anyways, finding the original photo is definitely the best course of action. If you can't do that, go round her house and tell her what you told us. That her ex is a jealous **** who's good at photoshop and is trying to split you and her up!

[Special]

just explain to your girlfriend that it was photoshopped because he's pro at it andif she doesn't belive you say 'so you're believing him over me?' and if she says yeah just leave her because she obviously doesn't trust you

[kuzkasate]

LOL I thought Shameless but that's cos you live in manchester as well I think :P

Anyways, finding the original photo is definitely the best course of action. If you can't do that, go round her house and tell her what you told us. That her ex is a jealous **** who's good at photoshop and is trying to split you and her up!
dont watch shameless but yeh lol i sppose.

i dont even have the "original" to compare it with & i doubt that my gfs close friend will give them to me.

shes she sorta girl that will just not open the door even if i through a brick at her window tho.
so i need some ideas on how i can get her to listen to me & once again, is it legal to do what hes done, surely it cant be right?

[Mathew]

just explain to your girlfriend that it was photoshopped because he's pro at it andif she doesn't belive you say 'so you're believing him over me?' and if she says yeah just leave her because she obviously doesn't trust you

Sounds like the best option tbh. Yeah, it sounds like a petty excuse by screaming FOTOSH0PP3D!!! but she really should believe you :)

Try just googling cocaine for the picture - "B" doesn't really sound like the brightest of boys, so he's obviously just googled for a picture and chosen the first result :P

[Inseriousity.]

Do what he did, post a letter through her door. Natural curiousity will probably make her read it even if she is too stubborn to open the door.

[kuzkasate]

just explain to your girlfriend that it was photoshopped because he's pro at it andif she doesn't belive you say 'so you're believing him over me?' and if she says yeah just leave her because she obviously doesn't trust you
yeh just need to try and get to talk to her.


Do what he did, post a letter through her door. Natural curiousity will probably make her read it even if she is too stubborn to open the door.
sounds like a good idea mike, but id much rather have a face to face talk about stuff like this.


Sounds like the best option tbh. Yeah, it sounds like a petty excuse by screaming FOTOSH0PP3D!!! but she really should believe you :)

Try just googling cocaine for the picture - "B" doesn't really sound like the brightest of boys, so he's obviously just googled for a picture and chosen the first result :P

yeh ill have a look in a min.

anyway, ive +repped everyone so far (think i could only of repped one person and for the rest i had to spread :( )

[Firehorse]

Use this http://errorlevelanalysis.com/

It's an image error analyser, if the images are photoshopped it will show up using that and you should be able to use it as proof.

[Moh]

The best thing to do is to either (Which have already been mentioned):
- Find the flaws in the photos
- Find the origional photo

Just explain to her that they're edited. May I ask how he edited the weed photo? If he just put your face on another photo then explain that the items/clothing don't even belong to you.

If that fails, send a photo of him to somebody whos good at photoshop on here and get them to edit one of his and show her how easy it is to fake a photo :)

[Minstrels]

Depends how good he is using Photoshop. Your best bet is trying to obtain a copy and either look for flaws yourself or send them to someone you know designs graphics. I doubt the lad will be an expert at Photoshop so it shouldn't be too hard to find a flaw, would probably take less than five minutes if you know what you're looking for. However as others have said you could also look for the original image, slightly longer process than looking for a flaw but the only option you have if you can't obtain a copy of the edited image. To my knowledge websites such as sxc don't allow such graphic images to be posted so you'll probably find the original on Google, simply Google keywords with safe search off.

Although from my understanding he's created numerous images so they must be from a set if they're wearing the same clothes in each photo. Let's be honest, if it's a set then it could be from anywhere. The easiest way will be to obtain a copy of one of the images (more than one would be more helpful) and scan it into a computer and upload it for others to examine.

Not really clued up on the law aspect however I know someone whose been threatened by Manchester United for publicising derogatory images of Alex Ferguson, Wayne Rooney, Gary Neville etc which could damage the clubs reputation. The lad pretty much told them to do one as he's broke as he is so it'd be a waste of time taking him to court so they've not bothered him since and he continues to produce images damaging the clubs reputation. So I guess you could look down the slander path if he's portraying you as a drug addict. But as I stated I'm not totally clued up on the law part.

Good luck sorting it out, I didn't realise people were sad enough to do this.

Although I would say you've got to ask yourself the question "why is the girl who apparently loves me believing an image posted through her door and not willing to talk about it, is she worth the effort?".

[Jordy]

You've got to explain everything you've told us to her, everything from how you're enemies with B to how he's amazing at Photoshop. I'd go round to her house, if she doesn't answer, pop a detailed letter through her door explaining it all and asking to meet up to discuss it further.

If you really want to drill in the point, find some great examples of what photoshop can do on the internet and show her them to prove to her how capable the software is.

It's also worth noting revenge will not help a thing, you'll just end up losing other mates and her if you end up getting violent with him. You could however blackmail him by saying you'll contact the police or his parents if he doesn't admit to faking the photos? :)

[kuzkasate]

So I got it all sorted. First, I came to my gfs house and knocked on and she decided to listen to me, so I explained everything and she realised her mistake and went off on one cos she was "so stupid!!"

So then we turned up at B's house his mum let me in cos she thought we were still mates (haha shes blonde) & I told her not to tell him we were here, to make it a surprise ;) cos he was in the shower anyway. So she left for work like 10 minutes later & we waited for him to get dressed and come down stairs, THE ******* SHOCK ON HIS FACE LMAO. He stupidly ran up the stairs lol so I chased him up had a little "chat" with him, I didnt hit him too much cos knowing him he will ring the police and say that I nearly killed him or w.e. Anyway, after this "chat" he surprisingly owned up himself so my gf did the funniest thing like, she was just standing there silently and out of nowhere smacked him across the face like, bloody hard that I even twitched a bit.

So she left the house and was waiting for me outside I gave him a few good words of advice and quite soon, hes gonna get some taste of his own medicine with help from a friend who is like a PhotoShop PRO.

Oh, btw the pictures were obviously faked as I looked into them, they had different clothes on all the pictures, my nose was well different and other stuff like that. But in the end, my gf was really sorry & she, lets say compensated me for the lost time & I was left completely satisfied ;) :P

Thanks to your help everyone, Ill try +rep you all!

[1cred]

check the photos, see if theres just the slightest mistake, there must be, a uncut area or a blob. Im pro (no boasting) and even i make little tiny tiny mistakes!! x :)

[Minstrels]

check the photos, see if theres just the slightest mistake, there must be, a uncut area or a blob. Im pro (no boasting) and even i make little tiny tiny mistakes!! x :)
If you read it's been sorted...

[Jordy]

That is a very satisfying outcome to be honest. Your girlfriend believed you, she smacked him and you have a good time. Loved reading it :P