Best feature you look for in the opposite sex or same sex?

[Lindsey]

Yesterday, In English class, we were discussing the things we look for in the opposite sex.

So I thought I would post it (: ,


What do you look for in the opposite sex or same sex ?

In a guy (as i'm straight) I look for honestly, humor, good personality, fun to be around, not boring . (:

[KyoraStryker]

Appearance-wise: eyes.

Personality-wise: sense of humor, patience.

[marriott0.01]

Appearance wise - Eyes/Hair/Weight. I know that makes me superficial about the weight, but chubby people knock me sick in terms of turning me on :l

Personality - Sense of humour, e.g can take a racist joke (that's more aimed at my rebound-of-an-ex, who doesn't even use this forum :S) Someone who accepts me for me and doesn't call me arrogant/ignorant (Again aimed at same person tehe), sweet, caring, loving, gives me attention (hate people who use their phones all the time and can't talk to me :l pisses me off.), generally they have to be perfect for me to actually have true feelings for them :L i'm very picky.

[Deak]

Somebody who is fun to be with, a good personality, likes similar things to me.

Appearance is not fully what i look for, but if a person looks nice then that surely is a plus.

[rnix]

Boys/Girls :
- Nice Hair
- Nice Teeth
- A bit fatter than me to make me feel better
- Not as good looking as me

Guy:
- Big package

Girls:
- Big bloomers


don't care about personality etc

[marriott0.01]

Boys/Girls :
- Nice Hair
- Nice Teeth
- A bit fatter than me to make me feel better
- Not as good looking as me

Guy:
- Big package

Girls:
- Big bloomers


don't care about personality etc

Wow no offence but I thought I was shallow :l Size shouldn't matter tbh? :S You don't get with someone after seeing their package you should only see their package when you've got with someone. And like would u seriously dump someone because they have a small package :S

I hope they were just jokes doe. Because the last 2 on boys/girls was as shallow as they get :l

[rnix]

Thats the bonuses. But sorry, a guy which a small pen is embarrassing and it would be so boring.
Also a girl with no bloomers is LOL situation IRL.

[marriott0.01]

Thats the bonuses. But sorry, a guy which a small pen is embarrassing and it would be so boring.
Also a girl with no bloomers is LOL situation IRL.

Erm it's hardly embarrassing, I'm not saying I have a small one because I know I haven't :L I've been told ;) But yeah I wouldn't criticise someone for having a small penis? Okay it depends how small, but they would only effect the sex not the relationship...

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Thats the bonuses. But sorry, a guy which a small pen is embarrassing and it would be so boring.
Also a girl with no bloomers is LOL situation IRL.

Erm it's hardly embarrassing, I'm not saying I have a small one because I know I haven't :L I've been told ;) But yeah I wouldn't criticise someone for having a small penis? Okay it depends how small, but that would only effect the sex not the relationship...

[rnix]

i really don't care about your penis size thanks.
yeah if it was miniture then i couldnt deal with it

[marriott0.01]

i really don't care about your penis size thanks.
yeah if it was miniture then i couldnt deal with it

Mmmmm soz just had to get it in there so you didn't get the wrong idea. But are you seriously saying if they had thee most perfect personality ever? You would split up with them because they had one small problem. Sex isn't everything in a relationship :S

[rnix]

Yeah still don't care about your penis.
Umm well if other things are better then it would make up for it.

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Yeah still don't care about your penis.
Umm well if other things are better then it would make up for it.

[marriott0.01]

Yeah still don't care about your penis.
Umm well if other things are better then it would make up for it.

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Yeah still don't care about your penis.
Umm well if other things are better then it would make up for it.

Okay I see, as long as looks aren't everything :S
No need to act snotty about the first thing I was just making a point.

[rnix]

Not acting snotty just don't care :L

But i like funny people, but not too funny.

[FlyingJesus]

Stick thin

[marriott0.01]

Not acting snotty just don't care :L

But i like funny people, but not too funny.

Yes you made that clear the first time, which I apologised for, so it's being snotty when you bring it up the second time round.

Why is it that you like _____ people, just not too _____.
Like you like fit people but they can't be as fit as you? :S That doesn't say much for the people you like :S

[FlyingJesus]

Mmmmm soz just had to get it in there so you didn't get the wrong idea. But are you seriously saying if they had thee most perfect personality ever? You would split up with them because they had one small problem. Sex isn't everything in a relationship :S

I'm not sure what part of the formula people don't get..

Bad looks, bad personality = avoid
Bad looks, good personality = maybe a friend
Good looks, bad personality = a bit of fun
Good looks, good personality = relationship material

If you don't want to be physical with the person you're with (in a mature relationship, obv we're not talking middle school here) then why would they ever be more than a friend?

[rnix]

I'm not sure what part of the formula people don't get..

Bad looks, bad personality = avoid
Bad looks, good personality = maybe a friend
Good looks, bad personality = a bit of fun
Good looks, good personality = relationship material

If you don't want to be physical with the person you're with (in a mature relationship, obv we're not talking middle school here) then why would they ever be more than a friend?

this ^
+rep

[marriott0.01]

I'm not sure what part of the formula people don't get..

Bad looks, bad personality = avoid
Bad looks, good personality = maybe a friend
Good looks, bad personality = a bit of fun
Good looks, good personality = relationship material

If you don't want to be physical with the person you're with (in a mature relationship, obv we're not talking middle school here) then why would they ever be more than a friend?

I'm not saying that sex shouldn't be an element of a relationship, I'm just saying it shouldn't be the ONLY element. And I said if they have ONE problem then overlook it, but if they a million problems then you probably wouldn't date them? But if it's a problem as pathetic as being slightly less well endowed then most, then it's easily overlooked. You don't need to have amazing sex to be in an amazing relationship. It's about the person, not the sex they can give.

[rnix]

I'm not saying that sex shouldn't be an element of a relationship, I'm just saying it shouldn't be the ONLY element. And I said if they have ONE problem then overlook it, but if they a million problems then you probably wouldn't date them? But if it's a problem as pathetic as being slightly less well endowed then most, then it's easily overlooked. You don't need to have amazing sex to be in an amazing relationship. It's about the person, not the sex they can give.

amazing sex makes up for alot. j/s

[marriott0.01]

amazing sex makes up for alot. j/s

Not really? :| I hate it when guys think with their ***** more than their head or heart :l That's the most off-putting thing ever. Everything isn't centred around sex?

[rnix]

Not really? :| I hate it when guys think with their ***** more than their head or heart :l That's the most off-putting thing ever. Everything isn't centred around sex?

Re-read my post and does it say that sex is everything.
Nope.
It says it makes up for alot.
(In a mature relationship) Sex is an important factor of a good relationship.

[marriott0.01]

Re-read my post and does it say that sex is everything.
Nope.
It says it makes up for alot.
(In a mature relationship) Sex is an important factor of a good relationship.

I've had mature relationships and sex was just a thing, not an "important factor". I still liked the person with/without sex?

[rnix]

I've had mature relationships and sex was just a thing, not an "important factor". I still liked the person with/without sex?

Mature not teenager.

[marriott0.01]

Mature not teenager.

It was mature. You're not really mature if you think with your ****.

[rnix]

It was mature. You're not really mature if you think with your ****.

I don't think with my ****. :)
You are taking a point you read the wrong way and reposting about it.

[scott]

Appearance-wise: hmmmmm blue or brown eyes. black/brown hair! Sometimes blonde depends i suppose :eusa_danc

Personality-wise: funnny, caring, easy to get on with obv and treat me well =)

[Moh]

Well, if I'm looking at somebody in more of a sexual way, then I kinda look at them in steps. So if they have nice hair, I will look at the face, then the weight and then the clothing etc..


I'm not sure what part of the formula people don't get..

Bad looks, bad personality = avoid
Bad looks, good personality = maybe a friend
Good looks, bad personality = a bit of fun
Good looks, good personality = relationship material

If you don't want to be physical with the person you're with (in a mature relationship, obv we're not talking middle school here) then why would they ever be more than a friend?
This too :)

[buttons]

Like you like fit people but they can't be as fit as you? :S That doesn't say much for the people you like :S
woman who date/marry a man less attractive to her are more likely to be happy. fact. (even though he's male i can use it as an excuse)



- dark hair/dark eyes/dark eyebrows
- pale
- a well structured face so defined jaw and cheekbones
- nice thighs


i like someone who's silly and always smiling + loads of fun to be with. one who doesn't smoke or drink EVERY weekend & preferably not a sense of humour like mine.
yeah so a really girly boy basically don't have one particular feature:S

[Jessicrawrr]

Personality is everything, good sense of humor, cares about you, doesn't act different infront of certain people,
but I wouldn't get with someone ugly, I know it sounds horrible but I just wouldn't :S
Hair and eyes are the best physical feature in a person :)

[Sharon]

ugh i hate most of these posts.

someone that can make me laugh
someone that doesn't care what others think (this is what i'm missing with the guy i like)
prefer brown hair&eyes
just generally fit

bascially a guy i know irl.

@buttons perfered to be asian LOL

[FlyingJesus]

Personality is everything

I wouldn't get with someone ugly

What .

Edited by Apple (Trialist Forum Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly.

[Grippz]

Honesty, genuine, loving, different, lovely personality - This is all. I don't really go for looks but they have to be attractive obviously xD

[Jessicrawrr]

What .

oyea, i contridicted myself, um what I meant is that I wouldn't get with someone dead ugly, but if they were sort of ugly and had an amazing personality then I would consider being with that person.

[HotelUser]

I admire eyes, hair and nose in no particular order. After that mainly if they're in shape and things!

Edit: I just realized how shallow that sounds. Note that these are what I look for in physical attributes of someone. They're not necessarily the only things I look for in a person by any means :P

[Meanies]

personality first obvs, wouldnt wanna be with someone boring
and look good too, can have an amazing personality but if they're ugly then no thanks. gotta have nice eyes too. and not too fat.

[flatface]

- Short dark hair
- Nice teeth
- Nicely built arms
- Toned body
- Tallish
- Good sense of humour

blahblah

[Wig44.]

woman who date/marry a man less attractive to her are more likely to be happy. fact. (even though he's male i can use it as an excuse)



- dark hair/dark eyes/dark eyebrows
- pale
- a well structured face so defined jaw and cheekbones
- nice thighs


i like someone who's silly and always smiling + loads of fun to be with. one who doesn't smoke or drink EVERY weekend & preferably not a sense of humour like mine.
yeah so a really girly boy basically don't have one particular feature:S

Sounds scarily similar to me, wouldn't call myself a girly boy.

In a girl
I prefer brunettes but blonde is kind of growing on me, hair can't be too short.
Slim, I'm not looking for a girl anywhere near fat, needs good **** and bum and thighs.
Beautiful face, nice smile/eyes.
Good sense of humour.
CAN'T be boring.
Needs to be intelligent enough (not academic necessarily, academia =/= intelligence imo).

If you think I'm shallow then answer this: Why should I settle for any less than what I want and can get? I put effort into myself and my life and the girl needs to do that too if she wants to join my reality.

[Nemo]

Personality first

but after that, idk i dont tend to like a certain thing more than others, but looking back i tend to go for brunettes mostly

[Callum.]

legs #1
low weight #2
nice face #3
small/medium sized boobs #4
personality #5

saying that, i guess they gotta be white, preference, so +1 all my stuff

[wixard]

legs #1
low weight #2
nice face #3
small/medium sized boobs #4
personality #5

saying that, i guess they gotta be white, preference, so +1 all my stuff

you should have just said my name

[Callum.]

aka tara

i haven't seen your legs tho.

[Special]

1st defo personality, closely followed by looks

[Rozi]

Tall, dark and handsome duh and RUGGED.


only joking, that's like ma ideal dream, but in reality the most important thing to me is intelligence, can't imagine being in a relationship with anyone less intelligent or mature than me.

[marriott0.01]

Tall, dark and handsome duh and RUGGED.


only joking, that's like ma ideal dream, but in reality the most important thing to me is intelligence, can't imagine being in a relationship with anyone less intelligent or mature than me.

Sign me up ;)

[FlyingJesus]

you should have just said my name

He said low weight and good personality

[Nemo]

Tall, dark and handsome duh and RUGGED.


only joking, that's like ma ideal dream, but in reality the most important thing to me is intelligence, can't imagine being in a relationship with anyone less intelligent or mature than me.
No wonder you're always all over me :eusa_whis

[Cheryl]

He said low weight and good personality

he also said small/ medium boobs - not non-existent/ small

[wixard]

THEY
ARE
GROWING

[FlyingJesus]

I don't care about boobs they're just gonna sag more when you get OLD if they're bigger, concentrate on legs they're already good

[Rozi]

No wonder you're always all over me :eusa_whis

soz forgot to add they can't be annoying :|

[Keri?!]

Kind and funny, it's all personality for me. They should at least like the same music as me too. Looks aren't everything ;)

[Wig44.]

I don't care about boobs they're just gonna sag more when you get OLD if they're bigger, concentrate on legs they're already good

Why think so long term? :P You can have some fun with some nice boobs now and when you look for marriage material you can look for smaller ones.

[wixard]

i'm a scary gargoyle on a towaaa that we made with plastic powaaa

to be honest boobs are over rated... who needs them if the girls got a nice ASSSSS

[FlyingJesus]

idk I prefer smaller ones now anyway tbh they tend to have better shape and feel, there's exceptions each side obv but that's my experience of it haha, they're just bags of fat anyway


omg
"looks aren't everything" lol good joke +rep

[buttons]

Sounds scarily similar to me, wouldn't call myself a girly boy.
lol welll not necessarily girly but i prefer cute guys that can be sexy
& look good in eyeliner
and suits
and glasses
no abs, just a soft, flat tummy
& small hands but nice nails

why am i like this
i will be forever alone

[Wig44.]

i'm a scary gargoyle on a towaaa that we made with plastic powaaa

to be honest boobs are over rated... who needs them if the girls got a nice ASSSSS

You can always tell which ones are flat chested by what they say lolll.

@buttons: at least you're not in denial.

[wixard]

well no shock there obviously i am flat chested

[FlyingJesus]

lol welll not necessarily girly but i prefer cute guys that can be sexy
& look good in eyeliner
and suits
and glasses
no abs, just a soft, flat tummy
& small hands but nice nails

why am i like this
i will be forever alone

I'm all of them except my nails are in bad condition so the wedding's off soz, you're still doomed to be alone

[Wig44.]

lol welll not necessarily girly but i prefer cute guys that can be sexy
& look good in eyeliner
and suits
and glasses
no abs, just a soft, flat tummy
& small hands but nice nails

why am i like this
i will be forever alone

You want a boytoy to dress up? only if you're putting out