Have you ever?

[Samantha]

Have you ever thought that someone actually liked you, you got close but it turns out they are only pretending?

Happens to me a lot.

Anyone else it happened to?

[Meree.]

This has happened to me. But they never actually "pretended they liked me" just initially acted as if they did. However they did apologise for supposedly "leading me on."

[Samantha]

Well, basically, I got a top up, spent like half on him, he repays me by blocking me lol.

But, i suppose i didnt mind, at least, i know it was a one off thing,

thanks meree :)

[Meree.]

Well, basically, I got a top up, spent like half on him, he repays me by blocking me lol.

But, i suppose i didnt mind, at least, i know it was a one off thing,

thanks meree :)

See that's where you're being silly. It's like he's waiting on you to do everything. I hope you wasn't ringing HIM and staying on the phone to him for ages, and he never rang you.

Because if so I hope you've learnt a valuable lesson. But hey, you're young; you've got plenty more guys ahead of you.

[Suspective]

I've had it the other way round; a girl I occasionally talk to. Admitted they liked me, but up until then pretended they didn't. They are pretty good looking and have a good personallity as well - so I don't know what they are scared of. lol.

[ChickenFaces]

To me, when people do that I feel like they only do it for attention, and it's really stupid of them because it just hurts their relationships with people...

It's happened to me a few times in the past.

[buttons]

lol gurlllllllll, owned
no i haven't, i find it hard to believe anyone would like me

[,Lexiilu]

This has happened to me. But they never actually "pretended they liked me" just initially acted as if they did. However they did apologise for supposedly "leading me on."

yeah this has happened to me before

i don't think i've had anyone actually pretend to like me, but they seem like they do and bam they like/date someone else. and then i'm stuck here like ....? and they're like oh sorry for leading you on. i guess i fall too easily.

[Samantha]

Where the phone call is conserned, it was a one off anyway, and I chose to ring him at the time, so that's why I don't feel it was a waste, as I enjoyed the phone call a lot ;)

16 aint that young :( lol. And i too also find it hard to accept some boys like me.

its like my ex, i absolutely adore our friendship, and his friend asked if he could talk to me and he allowed it, and he really did like me but the next day, when we were together i apparently said 'i love you' so he didnt wanna date me, i never said 'i love you' that was the most upsetting thing about it.
meh

ill just wait i guess :P



i remember last week, this boy, who i kinda like, decided to ask me out, he then told me it was a joke, because he knew i had feelings for me.
i utterly dispised him, but i thought whats the point, if he likes me, he likes me, if he had a joke, and apologized i can tell hes sorry. stupid beer.

but he just wants to get to know each other before he would wanna go out, but he is certain we will go out.

[cocaine]

no im usually the one doing it to girls hahaa

[Conservative,]

Yeah I have...well...sort of..and I liked them too, but it turned out she just liked me more as brother/cousin :\

[Sharon]

No lol. I really get to know someone before I feel anything. I've like the guy I like for what 8 months now and nothings changed.

[Samantha]

Tha's exactly what I did Sharon, I waited and waited and waited, then suddenly they aren't even interested, and then purposely get a girlfriend to annoy you.

[Lindsey]

This has happened to me in the past . D: , I personally call is leading on, ;l which i find very stupid,
they either find an excuse to dump me,
like one time, this guy said he was moving.. ;l yeah , he wasn't.
or they just dump me, through a friend or the phone.

[wixard]

lol aw at all you rejects
nah it's happened to me i'd say once or twice

[e5]

Pretending to like you? That seems very heartless of them. Recently a girl played my brother on a bit, he made him think she liked him, when he liked her, and let him down by telling him she didn't like him. I think that's very heartless and mean. I can't really see a girl 'pretending' to like you... unless they wanted something... Maybe they're just confused how they feel, or you are confusing best friend with liking you.

[Jessica.Rose]

Thats happened to me before, I really liked this lad and he asked me out, i said yes and we kissed and stuff then the next day he said he asked me out as a joke because his friends dared him to, it sucks when it happens to you :(

[Keri?!]

Happened once or twice aha!

[Samantha]

Thats happened to me before, I really liked this lad and he asked me out, i said yes and we kissed and stuff then the next day he said he asked me out as a joke because his friends dared him to, it sucks when it happens to you :(

SAME THING OMG IRRRLL!!

[HotelUser]

Well the closest I can come to relating anything to this was when a girl I didn't know but who apparently knew me said hello and talked casually on facebook (and god knows why) and then she ended up being a Lesbian. Hmm.

[Samantha]

Well the closest I can come to relating anything to this was when a girl I didn't know but who apparently knew me said hello and talked casually on facebook (and god knows why) and then she ended up being a Lesbian. Hmm.

You have that affect on people obviously. ;)

But thank you for your stories. :)

[Jessica.Rose]

SAME THING OMG IRRRLL!!

SMALL WORLD WTF lol

seriously wtf is up with lads and being dared to ask someone out ... its immature.

[Samantha]

wel he didnt get dared.

he didnt ask me out, but he was about to, then said we can only be friends :S

[Jessica.Rose]

that well sucks did he say why he wanted to just be friends?

[Samantha]

Apparently, he had just come out of a long relationship, which I was fine with because I thought I would be waiting a few weeks.
Near enough like 7 weeks later still nothing.
But I asked my ex, and he said he overheard him say that he doesn't want a relationship yet. The person didn't even have the courtesy to tell me.

[Soy]

i usually flirt with girls im not even interested in

so i have the confidence to talk to the girls which i am

get me

[immense]

no lol. i'm not into runescape dating.

[Samantha]

i dont play runescape...

and also, @jessica rose, turns out, im apprently not his type. to think he didnt even have the decency to tell me?

[Gibs960]

Although I'm only young yes, there's this girl I know in school now and she flirts me like crazy, she just does stuff that a "friend" wouldn't do. She's my bestmate but I think she wants to go a little further :D I wouldn't mind it if we went further lol ;)

[Apple]

Although I'm only young yes, there's this girl I know in school now and she flirts me like crazy, she just does stuff that a "friend" wouldn't do. She's my bestmate but I think she wants to go a little further :D I wouldn't mind it if we went further lol ;)

Give it 5 years. :P

I've had a few people come close to me but then just drift off after a while.