View Full Version : How to break some bad news to my friend
Alexx..
20-10-2010, 07:20 PM
It's not like im dying or anything but it's going to make my best friend sad.
Anyway, the problem I have is that i've won a meet and greet thing with mine and my best friends favourite band like EVER. The thing is that it's only for one person which is me and i'm not allowed to bring another person in meaning she'd have to wait outside.
I don't know how to tell her that she won't be meeting them and I will. How can I do it the easiest way possible ... if there is one :|
hairpins
20-10-2010, 07:24 PM
karnt yew take sum1 else ???????? ??????
but if she has 2 go yew r goin 2 have 2 tell her arent yew…
Special
20-10-2010, 07:30 PM
can't she buy a ticket?
or you could ask the the organisers very nicely that she would be very greatful if she could come
either way you are going to have to tell her... she might unserstand :)
orrrr... you and her could go to see another band after
or you could just not tell her and go secretly
Alexx..
20-10-2010, 07:33 PM
can't she buy a ticket?
or you could ask the the organisers very nicely that she would be very greatful if she could come
either way you are going to have to tell her... she might unserstand :)
orrrr... you and her could go to see another band after
or you could just not tell her and go secretly
I know she'll have to find out eventually cause we're going to the gig together and it'll be a bit weird if i go off randomly :') and she can't buy a ticket cause it was like a random draw thing D: I may just tell her and offer to get her some things signed :\
Sharon
20-10-2010, 07:49 PM
I know she'll have to find out eventually cause we're going to the gig together and it'll be a bit weird if i go off randomly :') and she can't buy a ticket cause it was like a random draw thing D: I may just tell her and offer to get her some things signed :\
well really it's not your fault... you won.. she could of entered!
well really you should be like GUESS WHAT I WON! she'd be like omg. then you could be ''yeah but its only for one person'' and get her an autograph, if shes a real friend she'll understand
who are the band (just wondering)
Stephen
20-10-2010, 07:58 PM
I'd get her an autograph, aslong as you don't laugh in her face and rub it in hard lol If she's your friend then she'll be happy that you won
karnt yew take sum1 else ???????? ??????
but if she has 2 go yew r goin 2 have 2 tell her arent yew…
Did you know that most people probably have you on their ignore list because of your hard attempt at trolling every thread with hard to understand posts :P
Alexx..
20-10-2010, 08:26 PM
well really it's not your fault... you won.. she could of entered!
well really you should be like GUESS WHAT I WON! she'd be like omg. then you could be ''yeah but its only for one person'' and get her an autograph, if shes a real friend she'll understand
who are the band (just wondering)
She couldn't have entered cause it's only for like fan club members .. yes i'm that sad :')
and yeahh i'll just get her an autograph and the band is paramore :)
Jessicrawrr
21-10-2010, 07:23 PM
PARAMORE!
PARAMORE?!
i love paramore, just say to her, give me things that you want me to ask them to sign ;)
you can't miss out on seeing paramore :)
mr.tom
21-10-2010, 07:27 PM
say it really fast so she won't understand then walk in and say remember what we discussed earlier so you can't come in ok and then if she gets upset break down and be like I ALREADY EXPLAINED EVERYTHING
Samantha
22-10-2010, 12:12 PM
Tell her you was lucky enough to win.
Tell her, that you actually thought the competition meant you could bring a friend but it turns out you can't.
And yeah ask her for some stuff to get it signed.
Cwmbran
22-10-2010, 03:09 PM
She couldn't have entered cause it's only for like fan club members .. yes i'm that sad :')
and yeahh i'll just get her an autograph and the band is paramore :)
I has a similar situation story thingy ma bob.
Last year in Feb, I went to see Paramore in Portsmouth with a friend and I had won a meet and great with them through the fan club but my friend didnt.
So he just snuck in, they didnt ask questions or anything. It was pretty crap though as there was a bunch of us and they just talked to us as a group not seperatly. They even had security there and we werent allowed to like be so close to them. I have a picture I had with them and my friend somewhere. The band was in the middle and me and my friend had to be about 2 foot apart from the band.
Was annoyed but ohwell.
Gibs960
22-10-2010, 03:44 PM
If you told the people that you're best friend loved the band wouldn't they say "Aaah, alright bring her in."??? Or, just get her loads of signed stuff off the band :D
KyoraStryker
22-10-2010, 03:54 PM
or you could ask the the organisers very nicely that she would be very greatful if she could come
This is probably your best bet if you absolutely have to take her. Not telling her would cause her suspicions to arise, and that could potentially damage your friendship more than if you told her she wouldn't be able to.
Regardless, you should tell her in the most diplomatic way possible. Explain the situation and how it happened, and if she's a good enough friend, she'll definitely understand.
Or, if you feel she'd benefit from it more than you would, one-up this and tell her that you were going to go, but you've decided to let her go in your place.
kuzkasate
22-10-2010, 04:11 PM
If she is your friend and if you say she loves them as much as she does, I would give her the ticket.
You could also try ask if she can come, or just sell the ticket to someone else and that way no-one goes?
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