My sister.

[Stephen]

Is it right to have a sister who is 19 years old who has sudden extreme anger everytime you say something to her. 50% chance she will smash something in the house and around a minute before she smashes something she will look around to see what to throw. Today she picked up the tv in one of the bedrooms and almost threw it and then I almost got knocked down the stairs by a vacuum cleaner. She always puts everyone in our family down and continuously says **** like "Die of cancer, die a painful death, die in a car crash you **** ****" and stuff like that when she's angry. Minutes later she will calm down and then try to apologise.

After she has apologised and no one wants to know her because of what she did she will then start again throwing stuff etcetc.

Should we get her to the hospital for a brainscan or what? I would hate for her to have to live in a special hospital for the rest of her life /******* sarcasm

[Nemo]

Get her into anger management classes, can't see why you haven't tried that already..

[immense]

people have short fuses. it's her way of life. i thought you woulda learnt to cope.

[Apple]

Wow she sounds terrible. If I had someone like that living in my house I'd probably end up punching them or something when they start throwing vacuum cleaners at me when I ask them something. You should definitely get her into anger management if she is as bad as you make out.

[Special]

you could send her to a anger specialist, but first you & your mum should try and calm her down & try and find the route of the anger

has something happened in your family that may have caused it


or, you could just deal with it and face the fact she has a short temper

[Stephen]

she steals money aswell. And my mum's like "hey i got no money with me" and even though my sister knows she hasn't, she'll just start because it's like she has a thirst for it. My mum and sis completely hate eachother you see but if you don't give her what she wants then we don't even want to find out what would happen. She'd probably kill you. When she was younger she used to kick and punch my mum and even knocked her out once

[Panda]

a brain scan LOL
but in all seriousness, give the girl a snuggle and a mug of horlicks

[Special]

jesus send her to the mental clinic

[Minstrels]

Anger management me thinks.

[Stephen]

no she must be sectioned. I dunno how though. She needs to do something really bad so we call the police and then tell the police we think she's mad etc.

[luce]

get her checked out, i think anger management? Or a psych assessment because it might be something like part of her brain doesn't work or something. but that can;'t go on someone will get hurt!

[Apple]

no she must be sectioned. I dunno how though. She needs to do something really bad so we call the police and then tell the police we think she's mad etc.

What happens when you try discussing with her about anger her problems?

[Zak]

I have anger problems like your sister. They gave me a stress ball to deal with my issues, although when I flipped out I threw it out of the window then started smashing....

[buttons]

lol people who reply "it's a way of life" well no she can change
my brothers like this too, same with the stealing (money/cars), they are selfish, heartless *******s. my mum did put mine to the doctor and he gets counselling and so much better

[::Art::]

u sister sounds sexy. pic pl0x

Edited by eSocks (Forum Moderator): Please don't post pointlessly.

[karter]

she steals money aswell. And my mum's like "hey i got no money with me" and even though my sister knows she hasn't, she'll just start because it's like she has a thirst for it. My mum and sis completely hate eachother you see but if you don't give her what she wants then we don't even want to find out what would happen. She'd probably kill you. When she was younger she used to kick and punch my mum and even knocked her out once

Steals Money? oh , then maybe a Psychiatrist..

[smokeoutben]

i reckon u should get her checked for drugs my brother was on drugs and was VERY aggresive either that or shes under alot of pressure speak to ur sister nicely and ask here to stop being aggresive if she shouts just walk out the room and ask ur parents to speak to her and now my brother doesn't live here we kicked him out since he was stealing and getting stoned in his room!

[Jessicrawrr]

She sounds horrible!
You and your family shouldn't put up with her she's got into a really bad habit of when she doesn't get her own way she attacks everything around her.
and how she hits your mum?
You really should get her to do some anger managment classes, they might help, if not then well, good luck ;)

[wixard]

get your pikey neighbours to bash her around for a bit

[Conservative,]

Hmmm, at first I thought....sounds like me...then I read the stealing money, throwing stuff...no, I don't do that..I just yell at my brother if I want some private time and he invades my room...

my thoughts would be Anger Management > Physchiatrist > Loonie Bin

[LMS16]

She maybe going through menapores already? :P

Lew.

[wixard]

She maybe going through menapores already? :P

Lew.

this guy deserves a medal
menapores

[Mathew]

I've been thinking about how odd this must be for you overnight; if it was me, I simply wouldn't be able to put up living in the house with someone like that.

She's 19 and it's obviously not a the image that she wants to give of herself. Does she get angry when you bring the subject of her anger up? Get your mother to sit her down and talk things through with her. Others have said that anger management classes or personal "training" is best and I agree; providing you don't put yourself or your family in danger by even suggesting it.

I feel for you. I wouldn't be able to put up with a thief and a mad-(wo)man in the house. Good luck!

[Shar]

I don't get why people are posting sarcastic remarks when this sounds like a serious issue lol.

I think your sister needs to go and see a GP where she can be further referred to and then she can see all the right people who can help her out such as an anger management counsellor (etc).
She doesn't sound mental or anything, I know people who behave in such a manner and I know that they have received help from anger management counsellors.

[AgnesIO]

She's 19. Your mum hates her.

Kick her out??

[Shar]

She's 19. Your mum hates her.

Kick her out??
It's not that easy for a mother to kick out her child just like that, especially is her health is a concern.

[Nemo]

It's not that easy for a mother to kick out her child just like that, especially is her health is a concern.
Actually my friends mum did it pretty easily, he stays there sometimes, sometimes at his dads and he's getitng his own flat soon. And all without violence

[Richie]

My brothers like that and hes 16, you say one thing to him that he doesn't like he spits at you. He'll call me ma a ***** a **** a ***** and wishes us to die, I dunno whats wrong with him.

Is your sister hot?

[buttons]

It's not that easy for a mother to kick out her child just like that, especially is her health is a concern.
i agree
my brother has stole money from my mum, stole her car & crashed it, got caught with drugs, (he's been fined £600 for, all of which she has to pay for), stole credit cards from his gfs mum, smashed a laptop and lightswitch, beat people up - including a 15 year old girl.... i really wonder why he's not locked up, i feel the same way as you do - i want him to do something so bad he gets locked up for his own safety and everyone elses. anyway my mum has thrown him out three times now and worried about him every single time because he threatens to commit suicide & well he's the only source of income atm so that kinda helps.... it's not easy at all unless someones willing to look after him, tbh i'd be concerned if a mother didn't care.
you really need to get help for your sister, not just for her but the rest of the family cause it's not fair on you guys. & **** anger management that does nothing. she needs more than that
OR U COULD JUST DEAL WITH HER SHORT TERMPER LOL /sarcasm

[Shar]

Actually my friends mum did it pretty easily, he stays there sometimes, sometimes at his dads and he's getitng his own flat soon. And all without violence
It probably depends on their relationship? And as I said if health is a concern it makes things different.

[ben]

yeah people smashing things all the time is right nothing to worry about