Would you?

[Samantha]

Well basically it's whether or not you would screw this person up after what they put me through tbh.
I'm not saying I would, I told him I wouldn't but sometimes, he just drives me mad.

Basically, this person cheated on his girlfriend with me, I had no idea he had a girlfriend basically because his relationships statuses all said single and he never mentioned it. The flirting began, and we became so close, I could trust him with anything and everything. Basically, eventually he told me about his girlfriend, which upset me quite a bit and told me he would have to choose. And he ended up choosing her but she knows like nothing about him and I know everything.

Now he told me it was a mistake he shouldn't have done it etc. Which hurt me even more.
And now him and his girlfriend are together (they have only just recently become close now.)
Anyway, basically I could really destroy his relationship because I have all the chat logs, all the pms etc that we sent.
The reason I think I wanna send them and show her sometimes is just because he gets a girlfriend out of it all and I just get nothing frankly.

Like I said i'm not saying I would tell her, I dont think I have the guts. But would you? That is the question.

[dbgtz]

You'd seem like a total ***** in their eyes but if it brings satisfaction then you might aswell

[Arron]

4 times you wrote basically ;)

[dirrty]

yeah, go on then.

[Minstrels]

I wouldn't do it.

[Zak]

If it makes you feel better I don't see why not. He basically used you then got back with his gf?

[Conservative,]

I would tell her. He made you miserable, so you make him miserable.

[Minstrels]

The other girl will get hurt though and as far as I can see she's innocent. Ehhh idk.

[Special]

tell her get your revenge x

[mr.tom]

did he actually do stuff with you and cheat on her?

[Accipiter]

Is this irl or edating lmao

[Casanova]

you're just as bad, if not worse than him if you're vindictive enough to ruin his relationship. He's a dirty little dog for what he done, but the difference between someone being mislead and you is you wanted it to continue? Pick between me or her? You're being just as unfair on his girlfriend, especially now after trying to ruin their relationship (or what they had left with a **** like that in it) you're now trying to do it again?

Keep it quiet, move on and just keep in mind you're no angel.
Poor girl getting **** on by everyone by the sounds of it.

[Jordy]

He's hardly done anything wrong to be honest, doesn't even sound like he's been cheating. From what I can hear he got close to both of you and then chose the one he wanted rather than being unfaithful.

I very much doubt you'll get much satisfaction from upsetting the pair of them. Especially when the chances are the girl will be alright with it seeing as he chose her instead of you, in which case you'll just end up looking some jealous moron trying to upset everyone.

You also risk creating enemies, and when you create enemies you'll no doubt lose mutual friends, it's not worth it.

[buttons]

you'll be the one that gets the ****** reputation, trust me
the guys who are cheating are never the bad ones, it's always the "other girl"
don't even go there, that sorta revenge is bitter not sweet. you won't gain anything but the reputation of a **** and look jealous, don't jeopardize it. he said it was a mistake, he's not going to be with you no matter what you do so is it really worth it?

i have done it to people before and it made me feel better for a few days and that was it. & really you don't know how much she knows about him compared to you. i would personally just leave it, i know from the past it just brings unnecessary trouble. just think of it as your dirty little secret;)

[The Don]

you'll be the one that gets the ****** reputation, trust me
the guys who are cheating are never the bad ones, it's always the "other girl"
don't even go there, that sorta revenge is bitter not sweet. you won't gain anything but the reputation of a **** and look jealous, don't jeopardize it. he said it was a mistake, he's not going to be with you no matter what you do so is it really worth it?

i have done it to people before and it made me feel better for a few days and that was it. & really you don't know how much she knows about him compared to you. i would personally just leave it, i know from the past it just brings unnecessary trouble. just think of it as your dirty little secret;)

What she said. + Rep

[Minstrels]

you're just as bad, if not worse than him if you're vindictive enough to ruin his relationship. He's a dirty little dog for what he done, but the difference between someone being mislead and you is you wanted it to continue? Pick between me or her? You're being just as unfair on his girlfriend, especially now after trying to ruin their relationship (or what they had left with a **** like that in it) you're now trying to do it again?

Keep it quiet, move on and just keep in mind you're no angel.
Poor girl getting **** on by everyone by the sounds of it.
Completely agree with this.

[Samantha]

you're just as bad, if not worse than him if you're vindictive enough to ruin his relationship. He's a dirty little dog for what he done, but the difference between someone being mislead and you is you wanted it to continue? Pick between me or her? You're being just as unfair on his girlfriend, especially now after trying to ruin their relationship (or what they had left with a **** like that in it) you're now trying to do it again?

Keep it quiet, move on and just keep in mind you're no angel.
Poor girl getting **** on by everyone by the sounds of it.

Where did I say I wanted it to continue. I was pissed at him for not telling me he had a girlfriend. If he told me at first the whole thing wouldn't have happened.
How the hell am I being unfair on his girlfriend. Did I at any point say that I was gonna tell her. No?
And I havent tried ruining their relationship.
How am I trying to do it again :S

I am not as bad as him, like I said before I told him I wouldn't tell her and also that I probably didn't have the guts anyway. I would never try ruining a relationship. Unless they were my absolute best friend and I didn't want them getting hurt.


Also at buttons, I do know that his girlfriend doesn't know that much - well as much as me that is. It really is some dirty little secrets that I know about him that would send others running for the hills. But I won't tell her, I also wont blackmail him with it.
I did that once, but I apologized straight after. And I do wish to be his friend, when it gets through to him that I am now completely over him. :)
+rep to buttons.

Also, his girlfriend put this thing on her status yesterday on fb, saying something about an ex, which made me think it's not worth it. I honestly thought she was talking about me - she wasn't but not the point. It proved something though :D.

Thanks anyway.

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