Did i do the right thing?

[DPS]

I've been with my girlfriend for ages well was untill now.
I dumped her because it hasnt been working for ages.
She lives in scotland and i live in london, it's only 4 hours on the train and i see her alot, but shes changed so much and isnt the person im in loved with anymore, She has kinda been treating me like ****, and has been keeping alot of secrets that keep coming out of the woodwork tbh, Ive only ever cryed over 2 girls and shes one of them. I know it might take some time to get used to not being with her but why would you be with someone if you dont love who they are? and if you cant trust them.

[Eoin247]

I've been with my girlfriend for ages well was untill now.
I dumped her because it hasnt been working for ages.
She lives in scotland and i live in london, it's only 4 hours on the train and i see her alot, but shes changed so much and isnt the person im in loved with anymore, She has kinda been treating me like ****, and has been keeping alot of secrets that keep coming out of the woodwork tbh, Ive only ever cryed over 2 girls and shes one of them. I know it might take some time to get used to not being with her but why would you be with someone if you dont love who they are? and if you cant trust them.

You dont love who she is, but do you love her?

[Casanova]

he loved the person he met, not who she is now. it does make sense?

and yeah, i think you were definately right. move on man.

[bkps]

If she treats you like ****, then why do you bother with her? Long term relationships never work out. You shouldn't cry, ok? Just be strong, and remember: There's plenty of fish in the sea

[DPS]

Eoin once somebody changes so much its hard trust me, if you love someone and they change its mad it makes you think, and when they keep secrets and stuff from you, make you feel worthless you can only end it tbh. and thanks Casanova :)

[Catzsy]

I've been with my girlfriend for ages well was untill now.
I dumped her because it hasnt been working for ages.
She lives in scotland and i live in london, it's only 4 hours on the train and i see her alot, but shes changed so much and isnt the person im in loved with anymore, She has kinda been treating me like ****, and has been keeping alot of secrets that keep coming out of the woodwork tbh, Ive only ever cryed over 2 girls and shes one of them. I know it might take some time to get used to not being with her but why would you be with someone if you dont love who they are? and if you cant trust them.

I would say you did exactly the right thing. You knew that it had to happen by the sound of it.
Better to do it now although painful than waste more time trying to make it work. Hope you are feeling better soon and find somebody that respects and appreciates you.

[DPS]

Thanks Catszy, Think im ganna stay away from relationships for abit now. But oh well im 20 i got the rest of my life ahead.