i fancy a girl and i dont know what to do now :S

[:.justben.:]

theres this girl who i knew for more than 6 years shes very flirty :L and i kinda like want to ask her out but well im not sure i dont want to be embarrised if she says no what should i do :S

[Jordy]

If you feel it's some great feat to ask her out then you're not ready to as you obviously need to be comfortable enough around her first.

How old are you btw, cause there gets to a certain point where it's too juvenile to ask someone to go out with you.

[Zak]

Completely agree with Jord.

It should not be awkward on asking a girl out, they usually drop hints that they like you along the way. Try to pick up on these and if you think she likes you back go for it?

If she doesn't like you it maybe a mistake asking her out, you could lose her as a friend!

[SirTezza]

You have to go for it pal. You don't want to spend the rest of your time wondering what her answer would have been. Sometimes you have to just put yourself out there to find out what's going on.

If she says yes, then you can start your relationship. If she says no then you can begin to move past it so that you aren't stuck to her when you could be missing out on the girls that actually like you.

Don't hesitate my friend, take each step as it as it is your last, because then you won't miss out on anything.

[:.justben.:]

ill probly screw it up we've been m8s for ages so it might be wierd and if i do she might tell every one else wich will make me like oh.....****! why did i do that

[immense]

don't give a **** what people think. go for it. only live once and all that. easier said than done i know but try and think how much you will regret it if you don't act on your normal human feelings and then drift apart because that feels like **** and i would change so many things in my life so just go for it. if you do, good luck.

[SirTezza]

I know it is tough territory when you are friends with someone first, but you can't let that stop you. In some ways being friends before is the best way. You will know all about them, you will know what they like and what they don't, you will know how to make them happy, you will know what she wants.

Use friendship as your advantage. Don't succumb to peer pressure.

[kdg-guy]

Ask her who she likes?

That way, you leave a subtle hint that you're interested, and will quickly find out if she is.

[:.justben.:]

I know it is tough territory when you are friends with someone first, but you can't let that stop you. In some ways being friends before is the best way. You will know all about them, you will know what they like and what they don't, you will know how to make them happy, you will know what she wants.

Use friendship as your advantage. Don't succumb to peer pressure.

thanks ima think im not rly sure my best m8 fancyes her so :L i might go for it if my m8 dont :L oh and added rep m8 :)

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don't give a **** what people think. go for it. only live once and all that. easier said than done i know but try and think how much you will regret it if you don't act on your normal human feelings and then drift apart because that feels like **** and i would change so many things in my life so just go for it. if you do, good luck.

its alot easier said then done :L her bros a hard man :L he doesnt like me much :L check the bruises on my arm when im at her house!! LOL

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SirTezza and immense are awsome and have both got added rep thanks guys :) oh and thanks to the other people iu help as well well night guys :)

[SirTezza]

Well, speak with your mate lol. Find out the deal, because you can only wait so long, and she will only wait so long. For all you know she has been waiting for you to ask her all this time!

Older brothers! I understand, I was a pain with my little sisters boyfriends before I moved out. It is our prerogative as older siblings. If you show him that you mean what you say to her, then there is no reason why he should be in the way. He is looking out for her, but if you prove you really are serious, he will back off.

I will return rep to you in your first post after this :D

[:.justben.:]

thanks and u older siblings are mean stop hitting me and being taller :L lol and i do love her :L and thomas (my best m8) might be angry lol lets just see lol brb grabbing my base ball bat :L jk hes small :L

[immense]

thanks and u older siblings are mean stop hitting me and being taller :L lol and i do love her :L and thomas (my best m8) might be angry lol lets just see lol brb grabbing my base ball bat :L jk hes small :L

lmao thats alright then if ur bigger hehe x

[:.justben.:]

just need charlotte (i think thats how u spell it :L) bro to be small >:L lol wow im tired... and i cba to go to sleep now :L

[Nemo]

damn you use :L a lot, but yeah i dont think you answered, how old are you?

[beth]

stick yr finger up her bum :) that'll do the job!

[MattFr]

Lol I remember when I was young and telling someone you like them/asking them "out" was a huge deal. If your friendship is as strong as you make it out to be, it will easily recover if she rejects you.

[Jessicrawrr]

go for it!
girls get annoyed when you leave it too long, trust me!
I'm in the same situation, my best friend likes the lad I like, the lad I like said he likes me, so she always seems sort of jelous when im around him.
but yeah, ask her who she likes, she would think that you'd be kinda interested ;D

[dbgtz]

stick yr finger up her bum :) that'll do the job!

It didnt work when I tried it :(

anyway, back on topic, how old are you?
Go for it though, I guess. Never hurts to try but always requires trying to get hurt.

[Apple]

You seem very young so things like this are usually just forgotten about in a week or 2. But say you are like 15/16 getting rejected can effect your relationship long term. So I'd just go for it, if she says no it will all be forgotten about in a few weeks probably. :P

[:.justben.:]

im 14 years old and her bros 17 :P he still hits me....

[Conservative,]

I was in this position a few months back. I asked her out after getting myself some self-confidence and she said no, for the simple reason she doesn't feel ready for a boyfriend. We're still quite good friends and our friendship wasn't harmed by it so I'd say go for it, if she says no, ask for a reason.

[SirTezza]

At 14 you still have feelings, and as long as the girl is around the same age I don't see it as an issue. So go for it pal.

As for her brother, teens at that age are always bigging themselves up and trying to be rocky balboa, but don't worry, everyone has a soft side. If you show him you care, you will be fine!