wrong idea

[immense]

on saturday night me and some mates planned to take it easy and watch the fireworks and then have a drink after but not go out. so anyway, weather wasn't great but i didn't wanna stay in and neither did this girl. i didn't think anything of it just being me and her but she did. what to do.......

[tm]

tell her you'll call her and never call her? just be a man!

[Robbie]

Show her your collection of Louie Spence DVD's and put Alan Carr on.

[Nemo]

Direct her to this forum.


Or just be straight up with her

[Robbie]

be straight

Good idea.

[immense]

tell her you'll call her and never call her? just be a man!

forgot to mention im living with her next yr

[Eoin247]

Direct her to this forum.


Or just be straight up with her

Here Here (to both points).

[Inseriousity.]

lololol i dunno... this is a toughie. oh wait, you can just tell her you're not interested.

[immense]

lololol i dunno... this is a toughie. oh wait, you can just tell her you're not interested.

thats heartless

[Nemo]

thats heartless
better than leading her on

[immense]

im not leading her on though

[Nemo]

im not leading her on though
well you sort of are coz she likes you and you havent told her otherwise

[RandomManJay]

Just tell her the truth, its better than lying to her and ending up her finding out later on and resenting you for all eternity.

[Richie]

tell her you like bum fun too, is she good looking?

[Samantha]

Well she's got the wrong idea, can't really do much about her feelings I guess, but dissapointment is a part of life.
Just make sure she understands that you don't want anything to come out of it, tell her you aren't really interested, but do it in a gentle way.
She will probably think that it was her fault or something but just put her straight just tell her you aren't looking for anything more than a friend yet. If you are living with her next year then surely she will understand, although in saying that you aren't looking at the moment may make her believe that you will be looking by the time you are living with her.

Like I said, put her straight, tell her that you are just friends and that you are ok with it if she 'likes' you but not to make it interfere with your friendship.

[wiktoria]

Tell her you aren't interested and you don't want anything more than being friends

[Kyle]

if you're living with her next year then shes gonna find out you're gay 1 way or another. tell her