Erm please read and help.

[sophiethenerd]

I will give you a bit of backround information about me.I am 13 (11 when this story starts ) and I have hearing aids .I have never had a boyfreind.
I go to a drama club.One day about two years ago someone new came in the class.His name was Ross.He was very handsome but I didn't judge on apperance,for all I knew he could be an idiot. Then we were put in different groups and I never thought anything of it.Then at the end of the lesson we watched what that group had done.
The class then learned that ,Ross was very very funny. :PIt was supposed to be a serious sketch but he had us laughing our heads off.He got told of and when he did you could see he kind of took the cristism in. A few weeks later I was put in the same group as him to do a sketch . He was kind funny and a great actor. Over the following year me and him became a bit of a duo .We would always lead the scene and we got on like a house on fire.
I suppose during that period I fell in love with him .He was a great freind of mine and I just fell head over heels in love.
Then about a year ago miss (the drama teacher ) dropped a bombshell "Ross is going to go and live In Blackpool.":O
Then that last lesson the last I saw of him was as he walked past me into the car park.
That was a year ago and I still miss him . I know I am probably being melodramatic but I do miss him.:( I searched for him on facebook, no result, is there anyway I could get contact with him or should I just get over him.Getting over him would be hard though.
I really did love him.:(

[Catzsy]

Well at 13 you have a long way to go in life but obviously you do miss him. Sounds like you were really, really good friends. Do you know anybody else that knows him? If you had his parents name you maybe able to look in the phone book. Maybe the school has a record of what next school he went to? They might be able to find out if he wants to contact you.

[sophiethenerd]

Well at 13 you have a long way to go in life but obviously you do miss him. Sounds like you were really, really good friends. Do you know anybody else that knows him? If you had his parents name you maybe able to look in the phone book. Maybe the school has a record of what next school he went to? They might be able to find out if he wants to contact you.
Thing is is that I have moved up in drama groups so I don't know any one who used to know him.To be honest all I know about him is his name.

[Eoin247]

I know how you feel, when i was about your age i waited too long to make my move and then suddenly she was gone. :(

[dbgtz]

You should probably get over it, you will meet new people and life will go on.

Also just out curiosity, why did you mention you have hearing aids? :L

[Starburst..x]

It's always hard when someone you genuinely really like goes out of your life.
In year 11 I was head over heels for someone, he was my first genuine crush. He ended up moving away and I was really upset, some people may say this is a bit sad but it took me a year to not have feelings for him anymore. They say that when your 'chemically' attracted to someone it can take a few months and even a year to let those feelings disappear.
I know it doesn't seem like it now but you'll eventually get over him especially if someone else comes along and takes you attention. It's hard but time is all you can give it :)

[sophiethenerd]

You should probably get over it, you will meet new people and life will go on.

Also just out curiosity, why did you mention you have hearing aids? :L
Lets jsut say I am not the most popular girl in the world.

[Catzsy]

Lets jsut say I am not the most popular girl in the world.

Well anybody who discriminates against somebody wearing hearing aids isn't worth knowing anyway. Sounds like you may just have to accept that he is gone - do you know if he had any relations by you or where he lived?

[sophiethenerd]

No.I think I will have to just forget him.Hopefully time will become a good healer.

[Samantha]

I feel that when you are a bit older I think you should try get into contact with him via Facebook as you aren't suppose to have a Facebook account until the age of 13 anyway, so maybe that's the reason.

No doubt when he's older he will probably have an internet connection and make a Facebook account so waiting is probably the key.

This boy who went to my infact school 'Kevin Jones' I didn't love him or anything but I always remembered his name, so I kept searching his name on Facebook and finally last week I found his name and he accepted me today, so time can be amazing!
Even if you and him don't have a relationship you could at least come into contact again and such.

Good luck.

[sophiethenerd]

I am 13.Perhaps.I hope one day we can be freinds again.

[Stephen]

life goes onnnnn

oh and i before e except after c, remember it (not saying that in a horrible way, I'm just trying to be helpful k)

[Conservative,]

Uhmmmm...well. You're 13. No offence but most 11/12 yr olds (as you were in your story) do not know the concept of "true love". Tbh I don't think I even do. But still - you sound like very good friends, and as others have said, it's probably best you move on and then just from time to time search for him on FB/Twitter/Bebo or w/e.

If he doesn't show up - then move on. You're 13 ...you have ages to find a new guy.

[Inseriousity.]

Sorry but we can't help. You're reaching the age where you find out that asking for help isn't always going to come up with a solution. There is no solution. All you can do is move on and hope that with a bit of luck, you might find him again. Good luck :)

[Niall!]

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[hamheyelliot]

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Welcome to a forum called 'Health, Life and Relationships'. If it makes you cringe, maybe you should just have a bit of empathy for how bad it must be for the thread creator?

[Soy]

its like that ndubz song lol


my mate who used to play flanker with me for our team was deaf, he was a beast and didn't stop his hearing from playing for the county.

just forget about him your only 13, you will meet tons more people in the future

im yet to find mine because all girls in cardiff are skets.. js

[Ajthedragon]

I left my move too late, and now we're too good a' friends to do anything! Its one of these things, all you can do is move forward.

[Unarmoured]

Search FB occasionally, maybe he'll sign up one day. You might meet him one day in the IRL, it's a small world.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjli3hj0ZkM

Dunno why, your story reminded me of this song.

[ben]

Welcome to a forum called 'Health, Life and Relationships'. If it makes you cringe, maybe you should just have a bit of empathy for how bad it must be for the thread creator?

Have you read it? lmao
you daft