First Experience of Love

[Gibs960]

When did you first experience full-on love?

'Cos I'm so young I don't think I've experienced proper "love" as such but I've felt strongly for girls before now, and I do feel really strongly about someone now! :)

[Jordy]

This very much depends what you mean by full-on love, it's a broad subject.

[Wig44.]

This very much depends what you mean by full-on love, it's a broad subject.

Also at 11 I'm sure you won't be able to tell the difference between love and lust.

I'm more of a lust person myself.

[Special]

i haven't yet

i believe that love finds you

[Conservative,]

I don't think I have personally. I think I've met girls who i've felt for, but when I find a girl that feels for me - that's when I'll experience it.

[chantellehugs]

I think I fall in 'Lust' more than I do in 'Love'. And I wouldn't trust my teenage mind if it was telling me I was in love because I don't deem it possible to be in love at this age.
To me love is knowing all of the good things about a person, and knowing all of the bad things about them, but still loving them.
It's like my family for instance (even though it's a different sort of 'Love') I know everything good and bad about them but I still love them. I can trust them and I feel secure around them :).

[Martin]

I've never really experienced it, I've been single for the full 19 years! xD I do develop silly crushes though. :D I hope the above statement about "love finding you" is true, although I have my doubts! :P I'm sure it's a wonderful feeling.

[Unarmoured]

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[Gibs960]

When you say lust if you feel "tingly" inside when you even see this person would you call that lust? :/

[Matthew]

Gibs, if you dont mind, how old are you?

i assume youre 11-12, and if so in my opinion thats just too young to be feeling 'true love/full on love'. Thats why people have doubts.

Being 14, nearly 15, i havent experienced what i think is 'true love'. love; yes, but true love; no.

[Gibs960]

I used to think that you couldn't experience any sort of love till at least 16, but I really really like this girl and I feel sick when I don't see her, right now I miss her like a peado misses a child.

[Amberr]

I haven't experienced "true love" yet. I've had feelings towards boys before and at the time i suppose you think it is love but it's generally lust. I agree with Special, i also believe that love finds you.

[Matthew]

I used to think that you couldn't experience any sort of love till at least 16, but I really really like this girl and I feel sick when I don't see her, right now I miss her like a peado misses a child.
interesting similie there...

but yeh, i just think that youre probably just too young to be feeling real serious love :P

[Gibs960]

interesting similie there...

but yeh, i just think that youre probably just too young to be feeling real serious love :P

We're doing similes and metaphors at school :)

[AgnesIO]

i haven't yet

i believe that love finds you

Aren't you gay though?

I am not being rude by the way, but not that many young people would come out as gay, so depending on how old you are could mean someone might fancy you - just they don't come out :)

[deathbranbw]

Like Gibs ive felt strong about girls but i dont think ive experienced full-on love as u people call it so Probably no!!!!!

[Lindsey]

I have felt strong about guys before. But I guess its never been true love. As, I couldn't really picture being with this person, for the rest of my life.

I think true love, is ; You want to be with them for the rest of your life. (:

But that's just my opinion (:

[FlyingJesus]

I was 14, I suppose 15 by the time it'd because actual love rather than just normal boyfriend/girlfriend feelings, but yeah the best way to know is retrospect unfortunately - when you're with someone you can be thinking that it's TRU LUV 4EVA and it probably feels like it is, but it's pretty easy to fool ourselves and it's only a while after everything's fallen apart that you can make the distinction properly

[Sharon]

not proper felt it i'm 12 i need to live in the moment!

liked this guy for ageeeeeeeeeeeees though.

[dbgtz]

I used to think that you couldn't experience any sort of love till at least 16, but I really really like this girl and I feel sick when I don't see her, right now I miss her like a peado misses a child.

That's not love my friend, in both your situation and the similie. It's lust.

And besides, true love will be when you feel sick when you see her (as you'll be sick of her as you see her too much) :P < that is probably why alot of relationships fail, as they're with each other too much.

In response to the actual question, no I have not experienced it.

[T@R]

End of last year earlier this year was my first serious relationship, and it went from late November flirting, to full on 'relationshipping' through to March, but then things changed, for no obvious reason and although words were never said, it was clear things weren't working out, but the worst part of it all was slipping back into casual friends and having to see her with other guys.
I'm fine with it now, except when we hook up at parties because I know I shouldn't! But yeah... first experience and only experience of love right there.