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Gummyish
22-12-2010, 10:00 PM
Right.
Hello Habbox members :)
I have a story to tell, that happened a few weeks ago.
Lets start. My mum is quite the alcoholic (gets drunk on weekends, sometimes in the week) but a few weeks ago, she went mental. Came into my bedroom, broke my stereo and kicked in my draws. The next morning i heard her openng G + T at half 7 in the morning, i was like 'WTF are you doing' She was still drunk from the previous night, glared at me and stumbled upstairs. Roughly 20 minutes later she called me into her room, she told me she had taken too many sleeping pills, so i got dressed, ran outside to the neighbours, and rang the ambulance (as I didn't know if the pills were dangerous or w/e) so police and ambulance came (as she can be violent) and took her to the hospital, as soon as she got there, she discharged herself and came home. Between the time she got taken away and came back, I had got a bag ready to go to my dads (who lives 200 miles away) to live with him till start of next term. A few days ago my mum rang my grandad, and effectively said she didnt want me back. So now I have to go to a new school, in a new place. I hate my mum :')

So yeah.
Don't judge. :)

dogboy123
22-12-2010, 10:04 PM
Nobody was judging you or will. Thats a really bad situation to be in hope it all goes ok :)

Gummyish
22-12-2010, 10:05 PM
Well, my friend said I might be able to stay at his for another term, so yeah :/

dbgtz
22-12-2010, 10:14 PM
sure ur mum wasnt drunk saying that? shes a ****.

Narnat,
22-12-2010, 10:16 PM
Wow, why would you think someone would judge you about something like that! That must be absolutely without a doubt scary to an extent.

Gummyish
22-12-2010, 10:16 PM
Nah. Totally sober.

Jessicrawrr
22-12-2010, 10:19 PM
that is a horrible situation, I don't think anyone should judge you on this situation, it's terrible.
I hope it all goes okay for you, she sound horrible, good luck :S

Moh
22-12-2010, 10:22 PM
That's pretty bad. Although you maybe hate your mum, you should support and help her :)

If she really didn't want you back and didn't care, she would have told you to your face and not to your granddad.

jrh2002
22-12-2010, 10:32 PM
I think your mum needs help badly :( Have you called your grandparents on her side and explained that she needs help? They may not be aware of what the drink is doing to her. I know moving seems hard for you but if your dad is more stable then it could be good for you and open up a whole new world :) With cheap coach and air fairs etc you can always visit as well as all the social networking/internet you will always keep in touch with whoever you like. It might work with you stopping at a friends but living with people who are not family could be hard work and in the bad times you will feel like an outsider.

Good Luck :)

MissAlice
22-12-2010, 10:48 PM
Well you did the right thing calling for an ambulance, as you say you weren’t to know exactly what she had taken, and had she taken her life, you would have carried the guilt for not trying to help her.

Your mother is in need of help, she’s drinking for a reason. I don’t know how well you get on with your grandad, but he or another close member of the family should be telling her to seek help and to sort herself out, and give her the support she must need.

It must be hard for you to have left, but living in that type of environment can’t have been good for, and living with another member of your family does sound like it’s for the best.

I doubt very much your mother hates you, and in all probability she was just lashing out, she is hurting. I hope for you are your family’s sake she gets her act together.

Stay strong and the best of luck to you :)

Glopy
22-12-2010, 10:58 PM
same happend to me apart from i live with my dad fella :)

Gummyish
23-12-2010, 01:16 PM
Well, I have said she has needed help, my dad says she needs help, her ex-bf says she needs help, her own mother says she needs help, her bestfriends says she needs help. But she says she doesn't have a problem.
-_-

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