View Full Version : Going for a night out on your own.
What's your opinion of it?
Personally i probably could. Say if all my friends were out or busy (like they are this holiday, everybody is revising for exams) then i dont think i'd be too shy about going to a club on my own. I wouldnt really be able to at my age since well...cant really get into clubs and only can go out with friends generally (unless i wanna drink on my own in my room or something but well....doesnt seem very appealing to me, but anyway.)
But yah, what do u reckon?
You would have to get there relatively late so that the club has got going otherwise you wouldn't really have anyone to talk to.
Personally I don't think i'm confident enough just to go to a club on my own, I like having friends there so that at the start you can talk to them and then decide to venture out.
I personally wouldn't, would feel rather strange
Aidenn
28-12-2010, 04:01 PM
I would on go out with my mates; main reason is i wouldnt want to look like a loner.
buttons
28-12-2010, 04:05 PM
i don't really like clubbing i just prefer pubs and bars really which a lot of people go to alone
i haven't done it before but i might. i'd probably just sit at the bar and talk to people, you can always have a laugh with the people serving the drinks. plus when i go out with my friends we all end up losing each other and going elsewhere anyways
wixard
28-12-2010, 04:36 PM
wouldn't do it
unless my friends were there and i was going on my own later to meet them or something
find it creepy otherwise
oh why'd i double
Personally I wouldn't, I'd rather go with people I know..like my friends :P
FlyingJesus
28-12-2010, 04:45 PM
The only reason I go out is to have a laugh with a group of friends so going by myself would be a bit daft. My bff used to do it from time to time but that was to go on *+*Da PuLl*+*
dirrty
28-12-2010, 04:48 PM
naw would be weird going out on my own. sure you can just meet new people, but they'd be with their friends and it would just look like a tag-a-long.
Rixion
28-12-2010, 05:41 PM
i wouldn't go out without atleast 1 friend
kuzkasate
28-12-2010, 06:06 PM
Sometimes I prefer going out on my own, it takes my mind of things and relaxes me and ****. Plus if your not shy, you can meet other people.
Wig44.
28-12-2010, 07:40 PM
I wouldn't, I think of a lot of people who go to clubs alone are doing it so they can pick up girls and if the only reason you're going out is to pick up a girl then you're pretty desperate in my opinion. I always think that enjoying yourself comes first, pulling comes second.
I wouldn't go out on my own no. A couple of times my friend has gone home early and I'v stayed - but that's only because I met somebody I know who I ended up staying with.
RobDawson
28-12-2010, 08:51 PM
I wouldnt because it'd just make me really depressed, i have to go out with my mates ;)
Rapidshare
28-12-2010, 10:46 PM
Hmmmm hard that one is that, I wouldnt go on my own to a club cos that just sad but a local pub yehh...
yeah probs not to a club but to like a pub or a bar. Don't see how that's any different to going to starbucks on your own.
Toasten
28-12-2010, 11:24 PM
I would need someone to look over me to be honest. It's not that I can't trust myself I would feel really lonely!
I wouldn't dare. i would be scared to be left on my own full stop in a club :/ im a bit of a wuss like that. I would be scared my drink would get spiked and i would get raped or something :/
danzooo
29-12-2010, 01:04 AM
I could get away with it, because the nightclub we go to (jiggies) is always packed full of people I know anyway. Was just me and my mate who went up last time and we knew almost everyone there.
Judas
29-12-2010, 02:06 AM
i wouldnt, im not confident enough :P im just really shy so noooo way would i be able to go out on my own
Callum.
29-12-2010, 02:09 AM
probs not unless i was out solely to pull.
i like having a few people to go to and know you'll have a laugh
Marbian
29-12-2010, 02:14 AM
I couldn't go to a club by my self at all.. It'll be like going to someones funeral without knowing them.
Jamesy
29-12-2010, 10:42 AM
I don't really go to those sort of places, but I don't like going out by myself in general. Nice to have someone you know to talk to.
I'v been to the local pub a couple of times on my own, but my dad always goes in there and the majority of people in there I already know.. although, I'v only gone in because I'm meeting my dad later ^_^
Arron
29-12-2010, 11:15 AM
I could maybe go shopping on my own but never on a night out! I'd just sit there in the corner while R.E.M plays.
I wouldn't go on my own, I'm too shy and I'd feel like an idiot on my own. I'd have to have at least one person to go out with, even then it's not so great.. the more the merrier !
Mikey
29-12-2010, 01:46 PM
Personally I wouldn't go on my own, I would take someone with me. :)
Snatter
29-12-2010, 03:18 PM
I think it'd be weird going out on my own - there won''t be much craic' if there's no friends around.
chantellehugs
29-12-2010, 07:01 PM
I wouldn't go by myself, I'm not very good at fitting in with crowds of people I don't know. And I don't like clubbing anyway :P
what the ****
i went out with one person today and it was the worst night ive ever had in town
waste of cash if your spending £20+
Nicola
30-12-2010, 03:00 PM
Nah I wouldn't. I'm not confident enough to go out on my own and I'd rather it was with my friends because it'd be much more fun and I'd feel safer.
Hollyish
30-12-2010, 11:32 PM
Why the he'll would anyone go up town on their own lol
The whole point is too go and have a good time with your mates
Casanova
04-01-2011, 10:05 PM
done it a few times. I'm a social person but I like my space. so for instance, a few months back i had spent twelve hours at work (people in my face all day!), got a call to say my aunty was extremely ill. I went for a few drinks with my parents then went to a few bars myself for a couple, just to think and chill out.
Drinking yourself depending on the situation is actually quite fun. You're not tied to someone, you will meet someone else and you normally end up generally more happy. might I add i've went out myself twice and both times un-intentional. I do enjoy going out with my mates in general though, wouldn't make habits of it.
Casio
14-01-2011, 12:30 PM
Would never go out on my own, would feel like a complete pleb lol
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Metric1
16-01-2011, 05:39 AM
i don't go out by myself. i find that a bit odd, sort of like drinking by yourself.
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Danzilla
19-01-2011, 12:21 PM
Id never go out clubbing on my own, i dont even like it when im only with just one or maybe two mates.
But obviously when we have all had a few ect. we do tend to go off on our own.
The only time iv gone to the pub on my own is because i knew people that i know would be there but thats it.
Samantha.
19-01-2011, 12:38 PM
I would rather have at least one person with me if not a few.
Martin
19-01-2011, 12:44 PM
Hmm, I don't think I would- it would be quite boring I guess and it would probably be weird to do so. :P Still, might be the only option when ya got no friends :D
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