Very confusing relationship story happened in 1 day D:

[rokgal]

Well my boyfriend dumped me after 2 wekks of going out although i was going to dump him as he didnt make me feel special so one of my friend goes up to him and says why did you dump her? and hes say i dont want to have a girlfriend. then i went up to him with my friends and i randomly said its because your gay isnt it XD meanwhile i sitll loved him then 1hour later i get asked out by Jai who isnt the person i would expect to like me... i was right to think that too! my friend made me say yes then when she was wlaking home his way he said tell charlotte i dumped her. although earlier in the day i figured out it was a joke wanting to dump him but not being able to find him.. He left a dent in my heart for sure. so i told him the next day - I learnt alot form you... how fake people can be and how people dotn care about others feelings. then when i got home ( the day they dumped me) ryan asked me out and i said no because my friend likes him and she asked him out on the same day and hadnt recieved and answer so i am VERY confused at my nightmare of a day

:'( ... </3

[wixard]

is this a joke

[Neversoft]

To be young.

[Nemo]

I actually laughed.


Ehemm.


Er.... yeh?

Didnt really understand it but ermmm live and learn?

[Arron]

loved him after two weeks?

[Samantha.]

Two weeks isn't long enough to love somebody.

[ben]

lol ]]]]

Edited by Infectious (Trialist Forum Moderator): Please do not make pointless posts, thanks!

[wixard]

she loved him yet went out with somebody the DAY he dumped her
how can you be so heartless

[FlyingJesus]

I remember having days like this, it was literally 10 years ago how awful is that lock me up

[Stephen]

im guessing ryan is pyroka

yes im psychic

[dirrty]

wait so you got mardy at the first guy who dumped you, even though you were gonna dump him anyway? yeah kk

[wixard]

am i the only one who didn't have 105492 boyfriends/girlfriends when they were like 12/13
i was like a leper

[FlyingJesus]

You made up for it in the last couple of years though

But yeah I didn't have gfs then either my peak was 1st school I had like 30 gfs at once when I was 7

[Sharon]

am i the only one who didn't have 105492 boyfriends/girlfriends when they were like 12/13
i was like a leper

sadly i havent actually not been out with anyone for like a year now how LONELY

erm ok so your freaking out over someone that dumped you, but you were going to dump them anyway? i think they saved you the trouble okay
next you went out with someone on the same day after? (sorry i dont understand much of it soz if i'm wrong) *REMOVED*. and you wern't that bothered about the first guy...

why are some 12 year olds so immature :S i hope you'll get more of a clue when you get older

Edited by HotelUser (Forum Super Moderator): Please don't be rude to other forum members, thanks.

[HotelUser]

I think it's quite cruel of other people here to be so rude toward the original poster - I'm sure you've all done some things you'd consider silly when you were her age.

[Sharon]

I think it's quite cruel of other people here to be so rude toward the original poster - I'm sure you've all done some things you'd consider silly when you were her age.

But I AM her age and I don't do this?

[Nemo]

But I AM her age and I don't do this?
lolol. Just the maturity difference actually made me lol irl. I keep forgetting you're12, think you're my age coz my perceived perception of a 12 year old is well.... the original poster. A sad truth perhaps.

Oh and i only had like 1 girlfriend when i was little. And i didnt know we were going out until she dumped me (the same day).
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VSrnkiWaqSQ/TMdBQsCZScI/AAAAAAAAAZI/r7M0LAXkxW0/s1600/forever+alone+face.png

[Catzsy]

Well my boyfriend dumped me after 2 wekks of going out although i was going to dump him as he didnt make me feel special so one of my friend goes up to him and says why did you dump her? and hes say i dont want to have a girlfriend. then i went up to him with my friends and i randomly said its because your gay isnt it XD meanwhile i sitll loved him then 1hour later i get asked out by Jai who isnt the person i would expect to like me... i was right to think that too! my friend made me say yes then when she was wlaking home his way he said tell charlotte i dumped her. although earlier in the day i figured out it was a joke wanting to dump him but not being able to find him.. He left a dent in my heart for sure. so i told him the next day - I learnt alot form you... how fake people can be and how people dotn care about others feelings. then when i got home ( the day they dumped me) ryan asked me out and i said no because my friend likes him and she asked him out on the same day and hadnt recieved and answer so i am VERY confused at my nightmare of a day

:'( ... </3

I totally agree with Hotel User. It is some who are older being immature and forgetting things are different when you are young. Firstly your post is a little hard to read but you do sound like you have had a bad day. I would take some time out from all of this and put it down to experience from which you will learn. Being dumped is probably as bad as dumping someone. I wouldn't let your friends talk you into 'going out' with people - make up your own mind but let things settle first. Good luck :D @Shazzy people mature differently
and just because you don't act like this probably means that you are mature beyond your years. 12 is no age.

[JACKTARD]

how old are you?

You'll look back at this thread in a couple of years and cringe.

[Catzsy]

how old are you?

You'll look back at this thread in a couple of years and cringe.

It says above she is 12. :P

[JACKTARD]

It says above she is 12. :P

oh ok,

well yeah you will look back and cringe,

but then most people your age have similar experiences, none quite as extreme as that though.
You'll just look back and think 'omg as if I thought I was in love' - you're not even a teenager yet

[Narnat,]

..Is this an online relationship ? Or a real life one. And you can't really love someone in two weeks really..

[Matthew]

12 does seem like a very young age to 'love' someone; especially after just 2 weeks!
I wouldn't even expect a 17 year old to really love someone after 2 weeks, let alone a 12 year old!

[Andeeh]

Well my boyfriend dumped me after 2 wekks of going out although i was going to dump him as he didnt make me feel special so one of my friend goes up to him and says why did you dump her? and hes say i dont want to have a girlfriend. then i went up to him with my friends and i randomly said its because your gay isnt it XD meanwhile i sitll loved him then 1hour later i get asked out by Jai who isnt the person i would expect to like me... i was right to think that too! my friend made me say yes then when she was wlaking home his way he said tell charlotte i dumped her. although earlier in the day i figured out it was a joke wanting to dump him but not being able to find him.. He left a dent in my heart for sure. so i told him the next day - I learnt alot form you... how fake people can be and how people dotn care about others feelings. then when i got home ( the day they dumped me) ryan asked me out and i said no because my friend likes him and she asked him out on the same day and hadnt recieved and answer so i am VERY confused at my nightmare of a day

:'( ... </3
God this happened to me, 6 years ago

[Camy]

lol

You're 12, worry about getting through school, and stop taking boyfriends and 'love' so seriously.

[Samantha]

You had a 'boyfriend' who you was going to dump, therefore you didn't love him.
He dumped you, but one hour later you 'loved' him still.
Then you get 'asked out' as a joke by Jai.
He then 'dumped' you as he was lying about going out with you anyway.
Then Pyroka asked you out but you said no because your friend likes him.

Think of it like this Charlotte. I think you're lucky to have had a boyfriend, I didn't get one until I was 14 and even then I wasn't ready.
They make have been joking about liking you and asking you out, but that's because they think you are an easy target, I know because they thought that about me too, and they knew I wouldn't retaliate.

Also, you said Jai dumped you, and it left 'a dent on your heart' please tell me how did it do that when you weren't going out a day. However, you went out with Ryan for two weeks and 'loved' him.

Can I also ask, Ryan was your boyfriend so I'm not mistaken? How can you say no to Ryan, when he dumped you, you said you loved him an hour later and now you are saying your friend likes him? Wth? He was your boyfriend so you obviously weren't thinking of your friend when you first went out with him.

I'm not trying to be harsh or anything, you just need to understand that maybe you aren't ready for a relationship yet.

[Nemo]

guys i dont think its pyroka coz no one fancies ryan