What's the furthest you would go on a first 'date?'

[Samantha]

When I say date I just mean like meeting up, talking, walking etc.

Do you think a kiss would be too far?
I know it's probably what you are ready for, but just wanted to know from experiences.
I don't want to take it too fast as I haven't had a good relationship before.
Is a hug/hold hands ok?

[Rozi]

If it was like a proper date like cinema and dinner and walk erm idk kiss
depends how long I'd been talking to them/liked them
depends how much I liked them

deffo hug n stuff

[FlyingJesus]

All the way, and usually before any sort of "date" occurs

[Samantha]

ok I've known him like just over a year liked him for most part of that but ty. i will rep u when im not on mobile skin. xD

[ChickenFaces]

I **** on the first date.

Loljk

But still kissing is all right if you like them of course.

[Nemo]

idk, whatever i felt comfortable with, with that person. I dont think there's a 'set amount'.

[Rozi]

ok I've known him like just over a year liked him for most part of that but ty. i will rep u when im not on mobile skin. xD

ooo didn't realise it was an advice thread!

Yes general rule is if you've liked someone for a long time and they're into it to go for a kiss :) x

[wixard]

home run

[lol]

When I say date I just mean like meeting up, talking, walking etc.

Do you think a kiss would be too far?
I know it's probably what you are ready for, but just wanted to know from experiences.
I don't want to take it too fast as I haven't had a good relationship before.
Is a hug/hold hands ok?

a kiss would be appropriate, hugging is necessary, holding hands is too much

[Aidenn]

Provinding you like them Kissing + Hugging is ok,

but as 'lol' has pointed out, holding hands on the first date to me is abit far.

[-Charityy]

I would say if you have known him for over a year kissing and hugging are appropriate.
Normally for me I hug, sometimes kiss. Just depends.

[FlyingJesus]

What century is this where holding hands is too far? If I like someone I'll touch them wherever I feel like it

[-Charityy]

What century is this where holding hands is too far? If I like someone I'll touch them wherever I feel like it

lmao at this. if i wasn't such a noob and knew how to do the +rep thing i would.
although, maybe the reason i don't know how is because noobs can't?
oh well, that was funny. :D

[lawrawrrr]

Depends who it is, if it's someone I barely knew, I probably wouldn't go any further than hugging but if I know them quite well I'd kiss them

Also I usually follow their lead
For example my ex took 3 (yes THREE) full dates before he got up any sort of courage and even then I had to innitiate it. Funtimes! ¬.¬

I'd agree with a kiss. ;D

[lol]

Im not saying holding hands is too far in the same way sex is too far... holding hands = sign of a relationship, awkward on a first date.

also would be a huge turnoff and would make the girl look mad clingy

[Swearwolf]

public sex

[Madox]

Well same sort of dilemma i had i knew this girl from a party, in my friendship group we got talking alot, second month of knowing her we were at a party, we were gonna kiss but got disrupted, then 4th month came round, had our graduation night after graduation party got off with eachother, then she texted me the next day, asking where she stood, and asked if we could go on a 'date' to talk things through, so we went for a walk, and held hands, stopped at a road corner and kissed, and talked more, but i suppose its a different situation but i think holding hands, kissing and hugging is cool for first date, bareing in mind we were good friends though.. but been dating her 7 months so yanoe

[JACKTARD]

suppose a kiss would be alright when you were saying goodbye, type of kiss depending on how far you want to go

[Samantha]

Thanks.

I'll + Rep the good replies.


Even thought the 'date' ain't happening.

[cocaine]

all the way and preferably before the date

[buttons]

All the way, and usually before any sort of "date" occurs

all the way and preferably before the date
init, why would i want to date someone who's a bad kisser or bad in bed? would rather ~test~ it beforehand. idk.. no-one even does dates at this age, do they?! i've only ever went out on 'dates' with guys who i was already with so....
but if it was like someone i'd just met or was being set up with or maybe when i'm older then no hugging, no hand holding & no kissing probably

[wiktoria]

Maybe hug and kiss but tbh holding hands isnt even that bad

[Slowpoke]

I've had sex on a first "date", though I've never actually been on a date

[RedStratocas]

if you don't kiss on the first date, you're telling them you're not interested.

[Deak]

It depends on how both people feel but i would kiss them and hold hands and leave it before doing business *wink wink*

[Catzsy]

What century is this where holding hands is too far? If I like someone I'll touch them wherever I feel like it

With their consent I would hope, though:P

I feel that as long as you feel comfortable then go as far as you like, however, I don't think you can consider that you have a relationship with anybody based on that. It takes a lot of time
to get to know somebody and find out if they want a relationship or of they are a 'player' or not. Depends on what you want and how mature you are, I guess.