Bullying.

[tylermunjkt]

Title says it all, to be honest hers my life stories (Not all obv) These will be like diary's!

1. Well, today at lunch i was hanging around with my mate, Jodie, and we were hanging around and the football pitch. I Was messin' around with the footbal now and again when it came to me. Then i got the ball and kicked it and it 'Nutted' the person I call 'A real bully' ( Nutted as is went through his legs ) Well, after i kicked the ball through his legs he went MENTAL. He grabbed me, pushing my top up so my back was showing THEN he forced me into a THRON BUSH in the school's playground. After that i stuck my middle finger up at his and walked off, But sticking my fingers up was the mistake. I turned around seeing that Kane (The bully) was now running after me. My back was killing me and i had to run or i would be Dead. So i ran for my life, even though i couldn't run as my leg was playing up, i ran for my life. I think it was the fastest ever i ran. So i was running then about half way across the playground he backed off. I ran to the fence i sat there for couple of mins with Jodie then my Girlfriend came over giving me a hug and asking me whats wrong. Once i told her she ran to Kane (The Bully) and sorted him out. But i know this isnt the end of my hatred with him.. I know he will continue bullying me. So now i dont go near the football pitch. I have witness' etc so im kinda alright, But my back kills. Theres a few marks but no *****les or what ever ..


2. I hang around with the most popular girls in my school. Everyone knows them, they wear make up, look pretty and all that. So my and my mate Harry hang aroudn with these girls all the time. There all so lovely and my girlfriend is part of this little pack. But the thing is, because i hang around with these girls everyone is callying me and my mate, Harry, Gay. They come up to me and Harry and say: '' Pussys!'' or '' Gay boy's!'' Things like that. Usually we just walk off and leave them, sometimes we say something..All this people caling me gay and everything is annoying me. I DONT fancy other Boys/Men, As you know'cause ive got a girlfriend, I keep thinking this is jealousy, but is it? Also, most of the teachers like me that may be it too, also im a ''Weakling'' and thats probably why people pick on me.

All this is starting to build up. And its getting to me, really annoying me how everyone is like this to me. But surely, There the Weaklings If they are picking on me. The people who pick on me wouldnt dare pick on tough people cause they know they'll get knocked out. SO they are obvously thinking 'Ill pick on him, He is a easy target'.

Your thoughts on this and is there anyway of getting this to stop. Also, is there anyway i can get this past me, like so i can forget about it?

Thanks alot guys,
I hope you all understand my problem as it is really getting to me.. Im not stupid and i WILL NOT hang myself or whatever, thats just plain stupid.

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I was rushing this, sorry for spelling errors!

[ChickenFaces]

Aww! That's horrible. Tell them to suck it, honestly you're the one who's hanging out with the girls ultimately getting the girls, and they aren't. They're idiots. If you get bullied tell someone you trust to get help. Sometimes it can get really bad and you could get horribly hurt.

[tylermunjkt]

I've told my mum, she told the head teacher today when i came out of school ...

[Nemo]

First of all, how old are you?

1) He just sounds like he was either joking, or thinks hes tough.. No where near what many would consider bullying. Either way if he tries it again just stick near a teacher or just tell him to back the **** up.

2) Just tell them to think about the fact that you're with a bajillion hot girls whilst they're running around with boys. Honestly dont even see why you'd care if you're in such a nice position

[tylermunjkt]

Im 13, Year 8. Im not really bothered about the Being called gay but its happening so much :l

[Firework.]

awww tyler
well most bullies bully people because they have something bad going on in there life and want to cause other people pain so they are more hurt than them,
i guess they pick on you because of pure jealousy, they cant get a girlfriend or a decent one and you can.
in my school the guys who hang around with the 'popular' girls are considered the coolest guys in the school,
if you ever need to talk im here.
just make sure you never lower yourself to be like them because that makes you just as bad, if you be the better person then they will be like bin men and you will be like lulz u left a bit -throws can
so yeah whatever xx

[tylermunjkt]

Thanks dionne, Tbh i might aswell Ignore all these bully's but its hard not too!

---------- Post added 28-01-2011 at 11:30 PM ----------

Omg, Imma keep a dairy of my life..

---------- Post added 28-01-2011 at 11:31 PM ----------

Like Dairy of a WImpy Kid LOL

[Firework.]

lmaoo that makes you more cool obv
ive been bullied before and ik what its like.
then i got hawt haha jokes on dem
lol jk ;[

[Mark]

What drives most bullies is jealousy or a weak background. Just stay clear of the "bully" and hang with whoever you want! A sentence that kept me myself is "Don't let ANYONE stop you from being who you are". The bully is clearly quite incompetant considering you have a girlfriend yet they call you Gay? Now, who the ******* hell worked that one out? The reason they are calling you gay is because you don't play football and that is classed as a manly sport. Hang around with Harry and do what you want to do. The only reason the bullies do what they do is because they get a reaction from you. If you show them that it doesn't bother you when they call you gay, they will stop. If you show them you are not scared of them, they will stop. Although I think sticking up for yourself wouldn't go a miss, no one can make you do something you do not want to do!! :)



lmaoo that makes you more cool obv
ive been bullied before and ik what its like.
then i got hawt haha jokes on dem
lol jk ;[

Aww, that is well cute! Love you Dionne x

[Firework.]

when i see tylers [ pixel ] face, theres not a thing that i would change, boy ur amazin, just the way u r
there ya go tyler xx

---------- Post added 28-01-2011 at 10:50 PM ----------

when i see tylers [ pixel ] face, theres not a thing that i would change, boy ur amazin, just the way u r
there ya go tyler xx

[tylermunjkt]

when i see tylers [ pixel ] face, theres not a thing that i would change, boy ur amazin, just the way u r
there ya go tyler xx

---------- Post added 28-01-2011 at 10:50 PM ----------

when i see tylers [ pixel ] face, theres not a thing that i would change, boy ur amazin, just the way u r
there ya go tyler xx

Thankk yaaa <3

[Firework.]

love you too markyyyy xxxx
and no problem, it posted it twice cause its cool. xx

[dogboy123]

People used to call me gay when i used to chill with the girs but I think once you get further into the year that people start not giving a **** and who you hang around with is up to you, if you want to chill with them then do.

[Jsoh]

I was bullied when I was your age too. :P When I was getting bullied at the time, the best thing to do is write down EVERYTHING that's been happening (because it's difficult to actually say it to someone) then when the person crosses the line or if they already have, give the letter to your parents.

[dbgtz]

For #1 remember that it's only bullying if it is consistent, once is not bullying but is just a split second of hitting or w/e

#2 its not jealousy, because there is a guy in my year who is like that and he is often seen as gay but never like, taunted for it. I don't see why you are if you have a girlfriend. I think at that age it will be like that but as you get older tbh no one really cares who you hang out with. However I do find it odd if a guy 99.9% of the time is spent hanging out with only girls.

[ben]

just ignore him and dont go near him np

[Slowpoke]

I hate to say it mate but thats typical of years 7-9. Everyone and everything is described as gay and a lot of kids attempt to pick on others to make them feel good about themselves and look "cool" infront of others. However, you'll notice that as you progress through high school that people mature quite quickly :)


However I do find it odd if a guy 99.9% of the time is spent hanging out with only girls.

Why?

[AgnesIO]

Lool - people are calling you gay for hanging around with the opposite sex. Right.

It is typical of that sort of age range, people trying to impress their mates, but as Slowpoke said people grow up etc - strangely I said to a mate the other day; "I stopped caring whether what I did was cool or not when I was 13". There was this one person who I used to hate (mutual feelings), not sure why he disliked me - probably because I didn't let him wind me up - but now I am friends with him - he just suddenly started not being a ****.

[Moh]

Meh, I used to get called gay in general ^_^

From the sounds of things, this bully has problems of his own and is taking it out on you. Schools are becoming more and more secure now and I presume that your school will have CCTV all over. So if he does do anything again, try and move in sight of the CCTV (and don't provoke him on the CCTV). You can then go to your head of year, report him and you'll have the CCTV footage to back you up, and the school will have to do something.

If they call you gay for hanging around girls, turn around and ask them how is hanging around with girls gay opposes to hanging around with a load of guys..

[Catzsy]

Everybody has different thresholds and abilities to cope than others. Some are hardened at an earlier age. If you feel you are being bullied then you should take action as you have. As you grow older then it is easier to cope with. It can sometimes lead to the 'bullied' becoming bullys themselves which I guess is a coping strategy but not one to be recommended.
There are many sites around to help with coping mechanisms. Here is one:
http://www.kidpower.org/resources/articles/prevent-bullying.html?gclid=CLqKrr3Q36YCFQEOfAod6x385g
The old cliche though ' a problem shared is a problem halved' so just by posting the thread it may have helped you which is one of the wonders of the Habbox Forum Community, I guess! :)

[qaxzsw]

Aww I'm really sorry to hear about those *****s being nasty to you, a really good place to go to for advice is connexions-direct adviser online, basically it's like a mini one-2-one chatroom between you an a trained advisor who can help you with problems offer advice etc, I've uesd it a few times before and they are really helpful, you can find the link here: http://www.connexions-direct.com/index.cfm?pid=223

I have experience of people calling me gay and even though I am gay, before I came out (before I knew I was gay) people would often call me gay, this was in like year 7 and year 8 and obviously thinking I was straight it would upset me. Don't let it get to you, I don't know why people are so obsessed with sexuality, as it's such a small part of someone. Rise above them - if anyone asks if you are gay, laugh and say no. I worked out when I was trying to hide being gay that if you laugh about it they get bored. Hang around with whoever you feel comfortable around.

[:.justben.:]

if ur liek older that 11 go to the gym and do some weight gain some muscle and learn judo and next time u wont end up the worst they will ;) or u could just say aw wellz i haz girlz;) :P

[Zak]

Ok first off there's no problem with hanging around with girls. I prefer the company of females more than men, so the boys are wrong to call you names. They're only words, if you want you can try call them back but if there's a group of them it might not be the best idea. As for Kane, the 'bully' if you don't stick up to bullies you are likely to be picked on more and more. Just let some time pass, if he leaves you alone .. leave it.. if he bullies you further.

You can either, tell on him. Which I'm not sure is the best option, if he is scared of that type of thing, tell them. If not get someone bigger to threaten him, or you can do it yourself.

I got bullied, not bad but still enough. So I had a fight with both the people who were bullying me, it stopped.. but i'm no pushover :P

Hope this helps. Use your initiative!

[Firework.]

The wierd thing is
boys who hang around with girls are called gay
but girls who hang around with boys arent called anything? :s

[AgnesIO]

The wierd thing is
boys who hang around with girls are called gay
but girls who hang around with boys arent called anything? :s

Tom boys.

[Firework.]

but that doesnt really bother people
im not saying being gay is a bad thing
but the bullies make it seem like it, where as being called tom boy isnt intended to bother anyone really

[bkps]

1- You needa tell someonee, but ya said you already did, so that's good.. He probs thinks he's hard, when really he isnt.. Is he older?
2- Tthey call YOu gay? Think about it; you hang with all the hot girls.. They hang with the guys. I swear gay people like guys and not girls? ;] So.. Yeah. They're probably jealous cause you get the fit chicks :)