What age do you think you will..

[Conservative,]

A) Get married/civil partnership etc.

B) Start a family...if ever.


For me, I think 25-28 is when I'll get married. I don't want to be too old, but I want to be old enough to be sure I've found my woman. My Mum was 31 when she got married, my Dad 24, my Dad can relate to me because he is younger than my mum but a few years and I think it helps, but I think he was too young to get married, and I think he thinks that too. My mum on the other hand is sort of at that age where she's too old to be a "cool" parent, and I don't want that so I think somewhere between the two is good because then hopefully I can start a family at 26-28 and I won't be too old by the time my kids are grown up.

[Eoin247]

I'll probably get married/start a family at my late twenties/early thirties.

I think it's not the best idea to get commited at too young of an age, so really any time past your late twenties seems fine to me (just not too old ofc)

[Con]

A) I'd like to be married/have a civil partnership (whichever occurs) by the time i'm like 25-30 (if earlier if the time is right!!) and then..

B) Start a family not long after that really :) as soon as the married life is settled and stable, kids would be on their way!

[RandomManJay]

I'm not really sure to be honast. I will probably start looking for someone after uni or into my late 20/30s. As for a family, I've never really had a desire to have children although I'm not opposed to the idea. I suppose its an "if it happens, great. if not, fair enough" sort of thing :P.

[PaulMacC]

Ideally. Married at 22-24, Kids at 27-30.

[buttons]

well i want to get married before i have children and i want to have been with them at least 3 year before marrying them so idkkkkk i don't care about being a 'cool' or young parent so marriage anything after 28 years old probably then just whatever

[Inseriousity.]

I'm gonna be living with 29 cats by the time I'm 30. :(

[VelvetClover]

25 probably seems a long way away for a few of you...I'm 23 and I still feel much too young to get married and have babies! I think I'd like to be married by the time I'm about 28-30 though, have some kids in my early thirties as I want to enjoy my youth and freedom while I can :)

[Special]

a) never
b) never

[Con]

The reason I said 25-30 or even earlier is because all I'm thinking is I want kids after the marriage and stuff but then I don't want them to be 10 and for me to be like 40/older or something lmao

[Nicola]

I definitely want to be married before I have kids and I'd quite like to get married in my mid twenties, so somewhere around 24, 25, 26. Although tbh this depends on who I am with and how long I have been with them etc. I suppose you'll know when the right time is, but that's just my ideal age.

I'd say that I'd like to be married for a few years before I have kids.

[-Charityy]

My ideal age to get married was 21 or older. But things changed, I got married at 17.
However, the kids thing can wait. For a while. Maybe till I'm like 25 or older.
I want to spend as much time as I can alone with him without kids. Because I know how stressful kids can be, because all three of my sisters have kids.. O.o

[chantellehugs]

I want to be married at 25/26 and then kids at 27-31 or even before that depending on me and my partner. It probably won't work out that way for me but as long as I love the person, and we understand each other on all levels, I'll be fine with marrying them :)

[matt$]

Get married after i've got a nice job and can afford to raise a family probbably 25-29 kids would come after we've ran out of condoms settled in.

[Niall!]

Never is the only answer.

[Meanies]

start having kids at like 26, then get married at about 30 so they can be at the wedding too all little and adorable

[Hiro]

I be forever pimpin'

[JACKTARD]

It'll happen when it happens :)

[Sharon]

A) Get married/civil partnership etc. - 24-28

B) Start a family...if ever. 23-28

[Ajthedragon]

Married - doesn't really bother me, I'll marry when I want too.

Kids - I always said I'd have them between the ages of 25-30 provided I can afford to give them happy childhoods with holidays and so fourth.

[Rozi]

totally depends on my career in my late 20's.
If it's good I'll carry on with it until my mid 30s
If I'm working in Mc Donalds I'll pop out and find myself someone cause 2 Mc Donalds pay checks are better than 1.

not overly keen about being married anyway
and kids happen if they happen

[orientalframe?]

Id like to get married at 28, as i could have enough time to get a good job, and perhaps have kids at about 29-30 :)

[Mathew]

It'll happen when it happens :)
This is my attitude too, whatever happens will happen - I don't want to tie myself down or try to map my life out and become depressed if it doesn't happen! :P

[Deak]

Depends when i find that special someone and everything feels right in the relationship :)

[TheEclipse]

At this rate, probably 30. *shrugs* I think it's when we have the most chance of being emotionally ready. I won't mind being an 'old' Mum.

[Homosexual]

25 - the age I want to get a civil partnership;
going to adopt kids *+*+*+*+*

[wiktoria]

1. i'd like to have a civil partnership by the time i'm 25
2. I honestly don't know I do want kids though

[wiktoria]

1. i'd like to have a civil partnership by the time i'm 25
2. I honestly don't know I do want kids though

LMFAO **** I COPIED THIS AND FORGOT TO CHANGE IT. I meant get married :$:$:$:$:$

[toribbz]

A) I really want to get married earlier so that i can have kids earlierr. i want to be young because when i'm older, i can still be sort of the young groove if you get what i mean. i want to be married by about 23.

B) I have quite big planss, 4 children and have the first one at 24 or 25 years oldd.. i want to have quite a big family because i grew up with only 14 in this country (all from netherlands or italy) & i want to make a big one.. my sisters want to have a big one too! hehehhe(:

[Chris]

I dont know, I dont really have a plan. It'll jusy happen when it happens for me. :)

[,Lexiilu]

between 20 and 30 for me for both of these. i don't want to have a kid after 30 really if possible :P i don't want to be old when my kids are young. if its like a year or maybe two over 30 then that's fine but after 35 its definitely NO. i'm not even set on having kids. as someone said before it's kind of an "if it happens it happens, if not then oh well fair enough" type thing. the idea of having kids doesn't even appeal to me at all really but i really like the idea of raising one. i'll be happy no matter what but i just would rather have kids a bit earlier so i can stay with them longer and their family can enjoy them for a longer amount of time as well :) there's some other reasons as well but i won't go into detail now!

[Arron]

I'll get married when I'm about 35 I bet. I wouldn't mind doing so at 28 and starting my family from there on in. My first aim is to get my career up and running and that's when I'll start thinking about marriage.

[Splintus]

I'm not going to lie, I haven't actually really though about it before but idearly I would like to get have a civil partnership between the age of 25 to 30 but earlier if the time is right and I would like to get married by the time I'm around 30. I don't want it to be really early or too late if you know what I mean?

Thinking about it my Mum got married when she was 24 and had her 25th birthday when she was on her honeymoon and my Dad got married when he was just under the age of 42 so there is a big age difference. If I'm honest, that really doesn't matter to me because I'm 15 now and age doesn't matter to me. I will always love my parents whatever age they are and I'm sure any other kid would say the same. :)

I would also like to start a family by the time I'm the age of 35 but saying that I haven't really thought about it in great depth yet.

[bkps]

Whenever I'm ready tbh..
I want to get married at like 22 ish? And have kids at 26ish,,, i dont know tbh, let life take its course, eh?

[Shoe]

i would like to get married around the age of 23 ishh... have my first child at prob 24/25. i only want 2 children, two little girls :D :) i wouldnt want to have any children after the age of 30 tbh :)

[Narnat,]

Married Maybe 30ish and have a kid 25-35

[Casanova]

A) not sure I want to, civil partnership brings me nothing but someone else owning half of my ****... and I worked for it all?
B) absolutely never. I don't agree with gay adoption and don't think children will fit into my life.

Before I get flamed, I don't agree with gay adoption because no one can say what a child may think/change due to having two of the same sex parents? Also, they may get bullied for having gay parents and may grow up confused due to having adapted thoughts and opinions on a 'family' life? I do NOT think in anyway that a child wouldn't get the best of upbringing from a gay couple. I believe they'd actually benefit in different ways :)

[Chippiewill]

There's no point in planning these things now, they'll happen when you find the person or when you both agree. But don't rush it, that never ends well...

[Stephen]

never and never obviously :( Forever alone

well if it does happen then I've been raped and have a husbandbeater

[Snooki]

i want to have kids quite young just 1 a girl but i want to be like 22 when i have her :-)

not bothered about getting married

[ChloeeBALDWIN]

If i had a child I would have it at the age of 18-29 because it would live near enough as long as I would (hopefully). Because my child would hopefully have a house and a family before I die and I could guide him/her all the way (near enough) through its life. All the help it would need , Ill be still able to supply it :)

If i got married it would be at the age of 22+ but at the end of the day its all about the ***** that is around :P

[Neversoft]

I think it's silly to ponder over such a thing. As I said in the other thread, just let life run its course.

[FunXiaomilitary]

Not sure for now ^^

[J0SH]

Not for a while single life is good when you're bored you just go search for a different girl every night, although I don't think if I was to cheat I'd feel guilty cause she'd be one lucky ***** to have me in the first place ;)

[Super.willow]

Married - 26th November 2011 - so i shall be 19 :p
Baby Due - 10th Jan 2011 - so i shall also be 19 :p

[Neversoft]

The 10th of January is already gone, unless you're planning to go back in time.

[Super.willow]

lol yeah ment 2012

[brandon]

I have no idea. I can't assume that I'll even be with someone who would want to marry me and vice versa. Same with having children. What will be will be.

[Hollie.]

A) Get married as soon as we can.

B) I cant realy say when our family will start because when it happens it just happens? But im pretty sure well have a baby before Im 21.

[Liam]

A) I already have a civil partner and get married as soon as we can.
LOL H, you aint got a clue! Civil partners are people of the same sex. Do I look like a woman to you? :S:P

On topic: I'll probably do everything by the time I'm 25. (That's 6 years or less away)

[Hollie.]

LOL H, you aint got a clue! Civil partners are people of the same sex. Do I look like a woman to you? :S:P

On topic: I'll probably do everything by the time I'm 25. (That's 6 years or less away)

How was i supposed to know what civil ment LOL... i just asumed it was sum1 you will b with forever..

[-:Undertaker:-]

Never and never.

[N-Dubz]

when i find a person worth marrying