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Narnat,
09-02-2011, 01:51 PM
Simple question, Do your parents tend to check up on you or are they overprotective?
My parents are pretty laid back because they know I'm responsible and I think that bit of space is essential.
My mum trusts me but is one of the biggest worriers ever. So even though she trusts me, she'll check up on me in that she'll check up on me to see if im safe, not to see if im doing anything naughty
My mum trusts me with big things, just the daft little things she doesn't haha
dirrty
09-02-2011, 02:00 PM
my parents trust me as i don't give them a reason not to
Metric1
09-02-2011, 03:13 PM
My mom would leave me for months at a time when I was in highschool. It's mint.
Mikey
09-02-2011, 03:29 PM
My mum trusts me but just worries about me, like she texts me and asks if i'm alright.
At least she cares about my wellbeing :)
Narnat,
09-02-2011, 03:46 PM
My mum trusts me but just worries about me, like she texts me and asks if i'm alright.
At least she cares about my wellbeing :)
..Mikey she flipped because you were going to die because you didn't have on a Jacket when we went to watch Avatar. Lmfao it was an amazing moment of history!
Jessie
09-02-2011, 04:14 PM
My mum trusts me but she doesnt trust other people. Like, if I walk home in the dark I have to call her to tell her I'm home alright.
Although once she did tell me to be careful while making super noodles..
lawrawrrr
09-02-2011, 04:48 PM
No. Not even slightly. They treat me like I'm 4 years old, won't let me out (my curfew is 'darkness', and I'm 17 FGS). They rely strictly on a "guilty until proven innocent" type thing.
matt$
09-02-2011, 04:50 PM
Yeah my parents both trust me although they'll check up on me, but if im going to a party etc my mum will just tell me not to do anything i regret and leave me to it.
wixard
09-02-2011, 04:50 PM
I'm 19 so she doesn't really care bout anything, if I wasn't gonna come home one night I'd text her to tell her
HotelUser
09-02-2011, 04:53 PM
I don't really go anywhere or do anything "bad" or that they'd disapprove of really, though if I wanted to they wouldn't care terribly!
=Lizzy
09-02-2011, 04:55 PM
My parents do trust me I guess but if they went out for the night, they would call to check up cause last time they went out my sister had a house party :/
Chris
09-02-2011, 05:27 PM
Yep they trust me because Ive never given them a reason not too. Of course, if I'm out they'll ring and check up on me but thats pretty normal.
Yeah I think my mum trusts me (don't live with my dad) however she read my texts ages ago and I sent someone a dirty text once LOL.
buttons
09-02-2011, 06:50 PM
its not that my mum doesn't trust me cause she has no reason not to buttt she doesn't let me have my credit card or driving provisional. she keeps them but with good reason, i ALWAYS ALWAYS lose something when i'm out! plus i spend a lot so sometimes she gives me a budget but i'm glad cause i spend whatever i've got whether i need to or not :(
she doesn't like me staying out unless she knows where and with who but tbh i don't blame her, i wouldn't blame any parent i'd probably be the same... & she won't let me go like hours and hours away by myself cause she knows thinks i'd meet up with some asian and run away together
Jessicrawrr
09-02-2011, 07:07 PM
my mums protective and won't let me out when it's dark, I see her reasoning though so it doens't bother me that much.
benjamin
09-02-2011, 07:12 PM
My mom would leave me for months at a time when I was in highschool. It's mint.
bit irresponsible if you ask me.
yeah my mum trusts me, i've never given her a reason not to. angel child 0:]
My parents do trust me, although the old paranoid mum who phones after a big exam or to see if I have forgotten anything does occur from time to time :P
chantellehugs
09-02-2011, 07:46 PM
My mum trusts me completely, the only thing she worries about is me walking into the road without looking. I have a tendency to do that when I'm on the phone to people.
I'd hate to not be trusted, especially because I never lie about where I'm going or anything like that.
Casanova
09-02-2011, 08:11 PM
I've always been trustworthy, only because I rage if I don't get space and get respect. I'd cut someone's fingers off if they raided my room etc.
It's common courtesy. When I was younger myself and my twin never got a time to be home by, we were simply told 'come back when you think it's a reasonable time'. and we always did, until they couldn't tell us any different :).
Metric1
10-02-2011, 03:10 AM
bit irresponsible if you ask me.
yeah my mum trusts me, i've never given her a reason not to. angel child 0:]
not really, i would take time off school and go down too. i was 18 and what was she going to do? hire a babysitter?
she knew i respected her house and her car and her business, i wouldn't **** around.
Yeah my parents trust me alot - alittle too much id say although im not complaining :)
My mum hates me drinking and smoking..
She hates when my sister drinks too (My sister's 19)
She's abit over protective. I mean, we live a bus ride from the biggest shopping places, and she wont let me go there? But she let me go up to london by myself before when I was like 11 or su'ink
She also doesnt let me out after 5.. But I still go :)
O and bout the drinking and smoking thin, she says: You're allowed abit of alcohol, she gives me a bit then tells me off for drinking.. I just drink anyway :)
When I was younger my dad had trust in me to be sensible, my mum was a worrier though and would always check on me to make sure I haven't died.
Now I am older it is complete role reversal and worry about them.
Casanova
10-02-2011, 09:00 PM
No word of a lie, but since my mum left when I was ten my older sister took on the over-protective 'female figure' in our lives.
When i'm going out (and i'm twenty!) she'll be like "so who are these people? you say you've worked with them but do you know them? are they the bad kind?" "don't get too drunk, don't talk home. always keep money for a taxi".
It's nice but irritating because it's my big sister!?
Hollie
10-02-2011, 09:50 PM
they trust me and i have never given them a reason not to :)
No word of a lie, but since my mum left when I was ten my older sister took on the over-protective 'female figure' in our lives.
When i'm going out (and i'm twenty!) she'll be like "so who are these people? you say you've worked with them but do you know them? are they the bad kind?" "don't get too drunk, don't talk home. always keep money for a taxi".
It's nice but irritating because it's my big sister!?
dw mysisters liek that too
Nicola
10-02-2011, 09:59 PM
My mum trusts me because she knows I am sensible. She does worry sometimes though but she always says "it's not you I don't trust, it's others around you".
Casanova
11-02-2011, 12:49 AM
always a lie when parents say that. It's because they were your age and they done it.
Like I remember my dad telling me about the time he done LSD :p
Alkaz
11-02-2011, 12:56 AM
My mum is worse than lots of my friends or at least that's what I hear on the grape vine. My dad trusts me with everything though, when my mum left I helped him sort out all the finances etc so he pretty much trusts me to not do the wrong thing.
Stephen
11-02-2011, 01:04 AM
my mum trusts me
everyone trusts me
cos im more trustful than trust itself
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