Girlfriend /Sigh

[Fiendly]

So a couple days a go, my mother made a facebook status about winning something.
My girlfriend saw this and texted me and started causing a fight with me because my family is "rich".

Now, I'm not going to babble on about it all, but she says that I have a perfect family, that I'm perfect etc.

I know she's jealous of me and I find it stupid.. She doesn't realise how upset when I'm the opposite.
Now the other day, I went through her text messages (She does it to me ;p) and I saw that she had talked about it..
She said things to her friends and texted them that it was a joke, and she said how pathetic and an idiot my mother was.

Well, pretty upset about it. I quested whether she actually loves me or not, so I'm not sure.
What should I do? I could confront her but then she'll cause another fight.. So I don't know.

Some do please help!

[Jessicrawrr]

talk to her about it, I'd be pretty pissed off if someone was slagging my mum off, if she starts another argument argue with her, don't let her win, let her know your pissed off about it.
hope it helped :L

[Fiendly]

talk to her about it, I'd be pretty pissed off if someone was slagging my mum off, if she starts another argument argue with her, don't let her win, let her know your pissed off about it.
hope it helped :L

Well I ended up doing this, had a fight about privacy etc.
Now she's over it, she misses how we used to be.. So yeah.

I don't mind talking about it, but if a moderator would like to delete/close thread then I'm happy enough for them too.

[Catzsy]

Well looking at each others texts doesn't show a lot of trust. She sounds very insecure though and maybe is jealous of your Mother. You really need to show her how much you care (if you do) and then maybe mention that it hurts you that she is so nasty about your Mother otherwise
this just sounds like a recipe for disaster to me and a relationship pretty much going nowhere.
We can't close the thread but if you want to you can say you don't want anymore replies. :)

[Fiendly]

Well looking at each others texts doesn't show a lot of trust. She sounds very insecure though and maybe is jealous of your Mother. You really need to show her how much you care (if you do) and then maybe mention that it hurts you that she is so nasty about your Mother otherwise
this just sounds like a recipe for disaster to me and a relationship pretty much going nowhere.
We can't close the thread but if you want to you can say you don't want anymore replies. :)

It's not the fact that she's jealous of my mother, my mother said something about winning and then my girlfriend got mad because my family is supposedly "rich".
I've told her many times about our current financial situation, so I try not to hide anything. I do however, start to worry whenever she has to hide her phone all the time.

I guess this relationship can go somewhere from here.
She wants me to make her happy again and what not.. But I don't think I've changed? She just doesn't notice it anymore because she's my girlfriend now.. So yeah.

Time will tell if my time is up :)

[Inseriousity.]

I don't think she's with you for the right reasons. I'd get out :)

[Fiendly]

I don't think she's with you for the right reasons. I'd get out :)

This month would be our 9th.
Don't know if I should, she told me she is in-love with me - Sometimes it's obvious, sometimes it isn't.

It's a hard decision though..

[ben]

end it, sounds like a right controlling *****

[Nuxty]

Firstly, you both need to cut out the reading of eachothers texts. You're both entitled to some privacy.

Secondly, you tell her how you feel. If she doesn't like who you are or who your family are then thats her problem and if she can't deal with it then your better off ending it.

Don't let yourself get too upset by it as it really isn't worth it.