Everythings changing

[lAbby,ox]

Ok lately at school I've been really depressed, I nearly cried on the guy I proper like in drama today when I was telling him about it and he agreed with me that everything is changing.

So what's happened is, since my other friend got with this girl everything just changed, all of last week I was basically on my own, every now and then people came over to talk to me, my friends seem to be ditching me for that guy and the girl he's going out with.

These 2 other girls decided they want to hang out with us as well because there obsessed with the guy I proper like so I seem to have competition but if I get the chance I will get him, but the thing is when there around I just feel completely blanked out, so basically I'm being left alone, left out of everything, no one talks to me or anything.

I'm the only one who's realising this and tbf it's hurting me idk what to do, do I just come out with whats going or idk lol

[Nemo]

ugh my god whats with every kid on this forum using the word depressed like its a standard thing. You're annoyed/upset and if you're depressed about this honestly then wtf.

Why cant u also hang out with that guy and the girl he's going out with?

And just tell them and be honest about it, or just ignore it and continue. Or get some new friends.

[lAbby,ox]

ugh my god whats with every kid on this forum using the word depressed like its a standard thing. You're annoyed/upset and if you're depressed about this honestly then wtf.

Why cant u also hang out with that guy and the girl he's going out with?

And just tell them and be honest about it, or just ignore it and continue. Or get some new friends.

Because everytime I try hang out with them I just get ignored & I can't get some new friends coz I've been mates with them for the full 5 years of senior school

[Nemo]

Because everytime I try hang out with them I just get ignored & I can't get some new friends coz I've been mates with them for the full 5 years of senior school
okay so you have a good 2 months left anyway im guessing? and exams coming up soon yes? Then who really cares whether or not you've got mates. Just get on with revision and your work and pull them A's out the bag. And why not just tell them that you feel ignored?

[lAbby,ox]

okay so you have a good 2 months left anyway im guessing? and exams coming up soon yes? Then who really cares whether or not you've got mates. Just get on with revision and your work and pull them A's out the bag. And why not just tell them that you feel ignored?

Well I care? lmfaoo and yeah telling them might be a good idea

[Rozi]

oh my god get over it.
if you're in your last year of senior school then you're far too old to be crying over the fact you feel like you're being ignored.
either do something to tackle it by making sure that you can't be ignored or ignore it and move on with your life.

[Nemo]

Well I care? lmfaoo and yeah telling them might be a good idea
It was more of a rhetorical question, in that no you shouldn't care because its almost the end anyway.

[dbgtz]

I dunno, get some friends?

[Lost_Addict]

This happens to every group of freinds that have ever existed. Take mine, we're in second year college now. Since joining college most of us are in relationships and rarley see the others. Peopl get ****** about other people relationships, people fall out, people join new freinds. It's how school / college works.

For example: One of my best freinds (lets call her E) is going out with a guy, i rarley chat with her anymore apart from text, she's pissed of with her best freind (C) because shes going out with another one of my best freinds(W). Because of that they (E and C) dont speak much any more. (W) has decided not to go to uni because his girlfreind is a year below and they've been going out for 3 years. (E) is annoyed because she sais he shouldn't take relationships this seriously and that he could be wasting what he wants to really do because of it. E blames C and C blames E for them not talking anymore.

This is without adding all the other damn couples in my freind group to the equation. It's all one giant mind**** which will all work out eventually. School / college relationships rarley work so don't worry about your freind going out with that girl/guy. Everything works out for the better.

[Jessicrawrr]

oh dear.
GET OVER IT.
You're in year eleven, nearly finished school, doing exams, and you're worried about people you probably won't even talk to long after you leave school.
fair enough you need a social life, but c'mon!

[Inseriousity.]

Friendships often fade away in the end and especially when you go through that school to college or school to work phase, those friends you once had will disappear. Although despite the very harsh (imo) 'get over it' that you've got a few times, regardless of how long you've got left, if it's obviously causing you stress, that's going to have some sort of impact on your work.

If you keep it bottled up inside you, it's just going to get worse. I'd talk to them, perhaps suggest a trip out somewhere like the cinema or shopping. it might be just the thing you need to bring everyone back together. If that doesn't work then I'd suggest you move on. Hope it works out well for you!

[Stephen]

I think people are saying get over it because of the words "really depressed"

[Mizki]

People can get depressed with no known real cause, noone has to die.

Feeling lonely can have a big impact on someone - maybe you lot have never truely felt alone. The original poster says she/he still has two people to hang about with but can you imagine having noone at all? not just noone to hang about with, but noone who cares, noone to... just noone.

Saying that, most groups of friends at school go through different phases, if your friend is a true friend, she will miss you and would love to spend some time with you. Just ask her.

[Stephen]

still dont mean she's depressed :|

Most people who say they're depressed don't know what depression is, they just instantly think that any moment of sadness is depression

[Mizki]

Yeah alot of people say they're depressed when they're not. But reading alot of these replies it's as though someone has to die before you can medically become depressed