Girl Problems

[Delimed]

Iv had some problems with a girl the last few days and she has lied to me twice

1. I said i love her and i said Don't tell anyone next thing i know half the school knows

2. I asked her out. I said same thing and once again half the school knows

I actually feel like killing myself TBH everything people have said and i have heard not the Nicest rumours

Anyway i can get over it? cause i really love her

[RockyHorror]

Why would you want to keep it secret in the first place? It's unreasonable to expect her to keep it to herself, as it's going to be a big part of her life and she wants to share that with other people.

You should be proud that she's that happy she's with you, that she can't keep it to herself and she wants to show you off.

Rumors are a part of life, especially in a school environment, not everyone is going to think favorably on what you choose to do with your life, they are most probably just jealous, rise above it :)

[Triz]

Love is a strong word buddy! I wouldn't go throwing it around like it doesn't mean anything (not saying you don't but I assume you'r still in school and 90% of the people still at your age only know of "lust" and not love, but you shouldn't want her not to tell anyone, you shouldn't be ashamed, if you truly love her then let her know it along with anyone else who happens to be there when you express yourself. Also you said that she has lied to you twice, what lies were these, and how do you know she was lying? I've been with my partner now for over 2 years, I know she keeps stuff from me and lies to me about certain things, because girls need their own space sometimes, although I am a big part of her life, as she is mine. There are some personal stuff that she wants to keep between her and her friends and whatnot. I don't question that because I too have things I don't discuss with my partner, not because they are rude or anything that would jeopardise our relationship, but because it's "a guy thing".

You'll find that not every relationship is perfect, no matter what two people are together there will always be conflicts if they see each other on a day to day basis, it's life. You'll also find that most of these conflicts are small things, tends to be one another's habits that you dislike or can't stand; but you put up with them because you know that you love this person and will have to live with it, so you learn to like it.

Yes, they are jealous, most people who bully others have a false sense of security and deflect that off by bullying others to make them feel better about themselves. Just stay strong dude, you'll get through it, as I'm sure your relationship will. If it doesn't then she clearly wasn't good enough for you, just be yourself, if she doesn't like that then that is her loss aye? There is no point in changing for someone.

[dbgtz]

Iv had some problems with a girl the last few days and she has lied to me twice

1. I said i love her and i said Don't tell anyone next thing i know half the school knows

2. I asked her out. I said same thing and once again half the school knows

I actually feel like killing myself TBH everything people have said and i have heard not the Nicest rumours

Anyway i can get over it? cause i really love her

Are you even in big boys school? Seriously dude, I remember thinking like that way back and now realising how much bull crap it was. Live and let die.

[Stephen]

It's called being bullied.

Not to be harsh but ask your mum to tell you the truth and you'll know why people are doing it to you...

[Callum.]

if you're havin' girl problems i feel bad for you son

love is a strong word, which you shouldn't be using, especially since you're not even going out with her. i'd laugh and tell people if someone said it to me. just forget

[beth]

i actually thought this thread was gonna involve periods haaaa; but come on man, yr acting like a bit of a douche. if yr like her so much; why the big secret?! s'all part of growing up ;)

[FlyingJesus]

Is she like disabled or something I can't think why else other people knowing about you would be a bad thing

[beth]

Is she like disabled or something I can't think why else other people knowing about you would be a bad thing

maybe shes ugly.

[Michael]

I would think if I was dating a girl, and that she was alright, I would let her tell everyone, why not?

[:.justben.:]

give it a bit it will blow over :)

[Rozi]

Pro tip in life: don't tell people you love them unless they say it first :)

---------- Post added 06-04-2011 at 09:40 PM ----------

Pro tip in life: don't tell people you love them unless they say it first :)



... and you actually do of course

[Matthew]

Love is a very strong word, and not to be rude or anything but you seem a little bit young to be throwing it around. I'm not saying you didn't mean it or anything, though.

[HotelUser]

Love is a very strong word, and not to be rude or anything but you seem a little bit young to be throwing it around. I'm not saying you didn't mean it or anything, though.

I think it's sort of sweet that he was so upfront with his feelings. I think that's a great thing you should keep up when you do end up in a relationship, just, it might be a good idea not to be too eager to establish that sort of trust with someone and say things like that too soon.

[Wig44.]

Iv had some problems with a girl the last few days and she has lied to me twice

1. I said i love her and i said Don't tell anyone next thing i know half the school knows

2. I asked her out. I said same thing and once again half the school knows

I actually feel like killing myself TBH everything people have said and i have heard not the Nicest rumours

Anyway i can get over it? cause i really love her

What, you didn't get the hint?

Also, you feel like killing yourself because some girl spread that you said you love her (and I'm guessing you're young, year 7-9 or something)? I think you mean; you're a bit upset because you told a girl that you don't really love that you love her and now people are taking the piss out of you for it. Next thing you'll join 30% of the people on this forum and claim to be depressed. The annoying thing about this is that it trivialises depression which isn't good because there are some genuinely depressed people out there. Just man the **** up..