Hes getting in the way

[..ValOwnsYou..]

So for almost 7 months I started likeing one of my best friends.. and everyone else says that he likes me back too. We talk on the phone, and text eachother almost everyday. The good thing about it is that we both have the same background, aloot of the same interests and hes soo nice. When he found out I liked him nothing became awkward.. which made people think more that he liked me.
The problem is that one of my well.. ex bestfriend which is my cousin, he is trying to make us not become friends for some reason. Hes so 2 faced and I forgave him so many times for trying to ruin me and my crushes relationship. Last night me and (lets name my crush tom..) me and Tom were jokeing around on facebook. All of the sudden my cousin comes into the conversation and says this:

"why out of all of the people would you choose Tom, oh ya.. because you love him! and you came up with a special pet name for him, ______ ."

I found that so immature and we had a huge argument. The worst part was that Tom was at his house during the argument. Everytime my cousin thinks that me and Tom are 'flirting' he'll always get mad at me ! He even admits that he doesn't want me and tom dating eachother.
I really don't want me and tom to not be friends. I love him to death, but ive had e n o u g h of my cousin ! i'm not going to forgive him.. hes done it so many times !

what should i do ?

[Catzsy]

Tell him to 'butt out' - simple as that really. :)

[..ValOwnsYou..]

I did soo many times.. it never works..
Hes the kind of person who will poke his nose in anything.

[Catzsy]

I did soo many times.. it never works..
Hes the kind of person who will poke his nose in anything.

Talk to you parents and say what he is like - maybe they will speak to his. He does sound a bit weird.

[..ValOwnsYou..]

I've talked to them about him numerous times. My mom always says stay away from him but i never listen. Now i know what shes talking about..

[Aidenn]

Block your cousin on facebook :P

But seriously dont let your cousin come between you 2.

[..ValOwnsYou..]

I deleted him. God knows what hes telling other people though.
I'm trying the best as i can but I know Tom and he doesn't let things like that get to him. My cousin and him are really close so thats the thing i'm afraid of. Tom is like a bro to me so if he gets mad at me all because of my cousin.. idk what to do . :/

[IceNineKills]

violence. it's always the answer.

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[RockyHorror]

Clearly he's holding incestuous feelings for you.

[Stephen]

how old are you

[ben]

Clearly he's holding incestuous feelings for you.
yeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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[luce]

Just talk to him and tell him to leave you alone there is nothing else you can do really apart from ignore him and hope that he gets bored.

[Sharon]

Not trying to be funny, but you seem young just from in instinct so if you just HAPPEN to be under 14 - just remember you're only young and have your wholel ife ahead of you.

[Gibs960]

Tell him to piss off and tell him that if he doesn't you're going to fall out with him for good.

[..ValOwnsYou..]

Clearly he's holding incestuous feelings for you.

I totally agree. I find it quite obvious. But the whole thing is just so immature. He gets paranoid and jealous just because i talk to my friend who is a guy. :/

[Mark]

There is always something that drives these kind of people and in this case I think it is jealousy, your cousin is jealous that you have a successful relationship and they don't.

[Jessicrawrr]

tell his parents, and they might stop him, block him on facebook and just block him out of your life if it gets too bad.

[..ValOwnsYou..]

Yeah, I have a pretty good idea its jealousy . The fighting has happened so much all because I talk to this one boy alot .
And I've told his parents alot. It didn't help though. So I guess ignoring him and blocking him out of my life is my only option because i've gaven him alot of chances.

[Firehorse]

Maybe you should do private chats with your friend instead of something your cousin can join?

[..ValOwnsYou..]

It wont be as much as a problem since i removed him from my facebook. It's just when I get to school it's the constant *Removed* hat comes from him. It gets so immature and annoying. He follows me like a dog and thinks hes way up there .


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[Stephen]

oooooh you said ******** without the starz!1111

Hi can you answer the how old are you questions? Might help cos if this guy is 10 years old or something then yhhhhh problem solved.. Grow up.

[Richie]

He's an ex best friend for a reason, keep it that way.

[..ValOwnsYou..]

He's an ex best friend for a reason, keep it that way.

Yeah I will. I'm wrong for giving him all those chances . I'm trying not to forgive people easily :/ .





oooooh you said ******** without the starz!1111

Hi can you answer the how old are you questions? Might help cos if this guy is 10 years old or something then yhhhhh problem solved.. Grow up.


Your not much help either . So if you have nothing nice to say and telling me to grow up then don't comment at all please . :/

[Camy]

Clearly he's holding incestuous feelings for you.

This.

Also, why not just go for it, and tell the guy you like how you feel. The worst he can say is he doesn't feel the same way. It doesn't have to ruin the friendship, if you don't want it to.

[..ValOwnsYou..]

This.

Also, why not just go for it, and tell the guy you like how you feel. The worst he can say is he doesn't feel the same way. It doesn't have to ruin the friendship, if you don't want it to.

The thing is he knows already, he didn't really say anything and our friendship stayed the same, I think he doesn't care but not sure.. :S

[,Miranduh?]

don't let him get to you sweetie, hes not worth it. do what you feels right.. dont let others change your opinion..

[Conservative,]

Stephen isn't being rude he's got a point. It helps if we know your age because we can tell if it's just a silly pre-teen crush or a real thing.

Anyway, just ignore your cousin? It's surely not that hard. Or slap him in front of his friends.