Been bullied?

[,elaboratedolls]

Most of us have probably been bullied, are being bullied or have bullied someone throughout their life. Share your story. It can be cyber bulliying as well.
So I'll start. I've been bullied for about 2 or 3 years now. Girls in my year call me a weirdo and an emo all because I happen to walk by myself to and from school and that I never speak. Quite annoying, but I'll have to live with it - they are the 'popular' girls afterall.
So, yeah. That's about it.

[Mark]

I can't say I have been bullied in the past and from I imagine it's a horrid feeling. My advice is to speak to someone, get help and try to sort the problem out. If all fails then just ignore them as they are only doing it because you're different (in a good way though!), if we all weren't different our world would be immensely boring :P

[Gibs960]

3 or 4 times in my life, not good experiences....

[AgnesIO]

Been bullied once for about a month - since I stood up to the person, whereas everyone else just did what he said.

Still, I just told someone and it stopped!

I have never bullied someone as such, although there was this kid who all the jokes were pulled on - although he did bring it on himself. I never really got involved though, since I am against the whole 'lets group together and target the weak kid' crap

[cocaine]

yeah it ruined me. jokes on them though, they're all wasters now.

[velvet]

yeah to the point i dropped out of school lol, i was assulted and stuff for being "ugly", my school did **** all about it.
funny really since the girls who did it are dogs and i've been scouted by model agencies, but at the time it really killed my confidence.
i'm suing the school for negligence now so i'm sure after my college and uni is paid for and i have a nice new car i'll feel a lot better about the experience ;)

[Stephen]

I wouldn't say I got proper bullied. Just some boy who hung around with us used to always punch me in the arm whenever he got the chance which was annoying and that lasted like a year because I sat next to him in a few classes :| Most of the time at school I was hanging around with the bullies but then I started sitting with the people who got bullied (COS IM A REALLY NICE GUY) and they were well horrible to me saying stuff like oh you and your friends treat us like **** so i should piss off back to them etc so I was like :'( and ran away. dey hated me cos i was populaaar obvz

[tylermunjkt]

http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=685474 << My story.

[beth]

i have never been bullied and i'm not perfect, i just have confidence and know how to handle myself.

[Chris]

Primary school and all the way through secondary school, it ended when I left.

[matt$]

I've also been bullied but nothing major just during primary school, groups of kids ganging up together although once they're on there own they do nout, but like cocaine said they're all wasters now i saw one of them a few weeks ago literally throwing **** into a skip.

[luce]

there's always been banter but i can honestly never say i have been bullied in a way that upset me. maybe people tried to but not alot bothers me, also i think now days that banter is basically labeled as bullying because kids are told to be so aware of it that any remark you make is labeled as abusive when really it's just part of growing up :)

[FlyingJesus]

Didn't actually read the poll before voting, I clicked never when it should have been "bully", so yeah that's me the main offender

[Andy-]

I wouldn't say i'm being bullied.

It's just me and a group of mates normally insult each other like everyday. Like he would day I have a big head etc and I would say to him but your lip is very big etc. I've seen peole being bullied to being mugged (well asked for their money) and being mimicked. Though I don't do anything about it as I don't want to get involved.

[Jessie]

The only time I've been bullied is in year 3/4 when a year 6 girl pushed me into the school pond and used to try and get me alone in the toilets to say stuff like she was going to kill my mum :S
It must have made an impact on me because I can still remember it relatively well but ahwell, thats the only time :)

[Accipiter]

Nope, I have idiots annoy me, but as said, they're idiots.

You rise above them and spit on their giro when you're older.

[Circadia]

I was bullied in primary school and in year 7, but since then no not really. It actually got to the point where i was put in hospital the bullys followed me home and then kicked and punched me quite a lot but i managed to make it home since i was only down the road from my house and got taken to hospital, luckily there was no lasting damage. Not the best time of my life..

[Sharon]

Last year - all the other year groups found it halarious to take the piss over my image etc. it really made me lose my confidence because I was like the only one in my year who actually stayed natural. It totally killed me for ages but then my cousin moved to my school and he's someone no one wants to get on the wrong side of so yeah since then I'd say it has toned down. Funnily enough there were a few remarks on the bus on Friday but if it keeps occouring I have my cousin.

[Sian]

i was bullied most of primary school (from what i remember) and secondary school because i was short. I think people are pathetic and vindictive now and don't particularly like them. Shame really.

[Shar]

I was bullied throughout primary school, they were racist ;s
But it stopped once I left :)

[Judas]

i've actually never been bullied which has always surprised me. i guess i've always been 'different' and even though until only recently i've been really accepted by everyone in my school, i've never been a target for hate or bullying. but it's disgusting and no one deserves it.

[Narnat,]

I think that in general everyone does get bullied at some point. I have been made uncomfortable by my peers but that is just it really.

[Tom]

I got bullied in Y7 and 8 from what I can remember, mainly because I was Short and Stubby. It mainly came from 'ex-friends' in primary school. I can't remember much about primary school but apparently I talked to myself? So that's where it came from I imagine. When I go into Y9 I got a whole bunch of friends and that was the end of it really, never been bullied since.

[dbgtz]

Not bullied, just the odd thing from ********* and cocky arrogant *****. Most notably my worst experience of bully-esqueness has to be from this guy who was year 10 when I was year 8, he wasn't after me though I just got in the way sometimes. Then we made peace because he got the wrong end of the stick and he never annoyed me or the other guy again. I hate the other guy now, hes a ****.

Speaking of arrogrant *****, dont you just want to punch some year 8s in the face when they act all hard against you when youre on the bus? Hmm.

[Conservative,]

I've been bullied on/off at school for 6 years.

Started in year 4 - tbh was my own fault - I was a really fussy eater and some boys picked up on it and decided to call me "chicken nugget" because for about a year the only thing I liked was chicken nuggets.

That ended in year 6, but in year 8 it got out I played habbo and DJed and it basically exploded and loads of rumours flew around about me. They've pretty much gone now except the odd "No...Habbo" if someone mentions it, but other than that at the moment i'm not being bullied.

[dbgtz]

I've been bullied on/off at school for 6 years.

Started in year 4 - tbh was my own fault - I was a really fussy eater and some boys picked up on it and decided to call me "chicken nugget" because for about a year the only thing I liked was chicken nuggets.

That ended in year 6, but in year 8 it got out I played habbo and DJed and it basically exploded and loads of rumours flew around about me. They've pretty much gone now except the odd "No...Habbo" if someone mentions it, but other than that at the moment i'm not being bullied.

I thought you left?

Anyway people thought I played habbo because I done various isometric graphics at school, and obviously a lot of people probably tried habbo and put the isometric to habbo so instantly assume. Of course, they were correct to assume. Now people don't see it as that anymore because I go further then isometric (well other angles) and bla. I think if people thought I did play it there would be no real bullying, I mean these guys admit to playing what is basically a runescape clone. Me and my friend tease him about it when he annoys us but thats it, I think apart from the ********* in my school (which are just the chavs really), no one cares about that stuff. Or people see these as a game and no sadder then playing call of duty, which everyone in my year did at one point do loads. Some guy done 30 days some how but thats irrelevant.

Also @ your year 4 thing, someone use to get bullied (well not bullied really but taunted) for always having 2 rolls for lunch. He was a weird kid generally too.

[Conservative,]

I thought you left?

Anyway people thought I played habbo because I done various isometric graphics at school, and obviously a lot of people probably tried habbo and put the isometric to habbo so instantly assume. Of course, they were correct to assume. Now people don't see it as that anymore because I go further then isometric (well other angles) and bla. I think if people thought I did play it there would be no real bullying, I mean these guys admit to playing what is basically a runescape clone. Me and my friend tease him about it when he annoys us but thats it, I think apart from the ********* in my school (which are just the chavs really), no one cares about that stuff. Or people see these as a game and no sadder then playing call of duty, which everyone in my year did at one point do loads. Some guy done 30 days some how but thats irrelevant.

Also @ your year 4 thing, someone use to get bullied (well not bullied really but taunted) for always having 2 rolls for lunch. He was a weird kid generally too.

I did I'm just visiting today because I had a few questions which I wanted answers for and thought I'd fill my time :P

[Inseriousity.]

I've never been bullied in school strangely but I did used to get bullied at home or the gang from around my area. Because of that, I generally have a good knowledge of all the various ways to get to one place so I can take the safer routes if I need to but it's all stopped now really.

In fact one of the bullies has really matured a lot and gets his head down at school and everything, the transformation is incredible. He was fighting my brother and I jumped on his back lolol. I can't fight to save my life so he had me on the ground really easily.

[:.justben.:]

bullied at the start of year 7 but i lashed out and now he stopped

[GirlNextDoor15]

I was bullied a few years ago, be it physically or mentally. But not now. I'm gonna stand strong and tough

[.x.miss.angel.x]

Yeah ofcourse, Like very badly last year and just some snide comments here and there all the time.

Well last year my best friend just ignored me, and i mean nasty looks ect too. Only thing she was friends with my friends, SO awkward and she bascially made my life hell for 9 months, all i could do was worry, think about her, see her. I think thats what you call psychological bullying.

[Andy-]

I psychological bullying can be worst the physical bullying in some cases as in psychological it's in your mind, if you get what I mean.

[GirlNextDoor15]

I psychological bullying can be worst the physical bullying in some cases as in psychological it's in your mind, if you get what I mean.

I get what you mean and it's nasty. I hate it when they bully me psychologically. It's annoying and distressing.

[Samantha]

I got bullied in the past but then the bullies were like my best friends after. They didn't do much they just followed me around the play ground and stuff and laugh etc.

[,Miranduh?]

Honey,
trust me i've been thought it too...
I've gotten bullied last year, i got called emo, because I wore dark clothing, the only reason i wore it was because it expressed how i was feeling at the time because my parents were fighting and such, no one understood me, but soon after that, it stopped, you've just gotta stay strong, keep your head held high, and remember who you are... because, im sure, your a lovely person, who doesnt deserve it, one day , It'll all go away i promise <3 and they'll get karma. because, What you do to others, comes right around and hits you back harder, So dont worry hun.. Stay strong ,xx
-Love, miranda (:

p.s. If you ever need someone to talk to , I'm always here, just pm me :)

[,Lexiilu]

I used to get bullied about lots of stuff in the past. It's not so much anymore, but I got made fun of from my voice, my makeup, my clothes and everything in between. I got called emo because I wore dark, thick eyeliner and one of my best friends cut herself so people assumed I did also. Secretly I had serious problems behind closed doors and no one even bothered to care because they were too busy judging me. I got called a **** because I had a few boyfriends last year. My 'best friend' (we really are best friends now but at the time we were more frenemies) who cut herself used to tell me my boyfriend (whom she had a crush on) didn't like me or care about me. She told me he was going to break up with me and I wasn't right for him. I still to this day get told when I go to other peoples' houses that I can borrow their "big" clothes when I don't have any, even though I'm barely more than a size 0. Concepts of perfection are totally warped. People are really harsh. I never thought of it as bullying so I never got help since I was so young and I thought they were superior to me. However, they weren't and you shouldn't be treated like that. You should really seek help because it doesn't matter who these girls are, they're still bullies and they need to be punished for their actions. Who cares how 'popular' they are? I bet you most people don't even like them and they're just afraid so they act nice to them. I also bet that a lot of people would be relieved if you told on them because I bet there's others who have the same problem but are too scared to speak up. I was mostly a cyber bullying victim and I know how hard it can be to live with. Stay strong!

[Becca]

I got bullied for a week when I was in year four, but not worry it's their problem now.
I've been bullying them ever since and still today.

[Technologic]

Junir school years 3-5 were hell for me, ruined my confidence massively and really only in the past 2 years have i become the outgoing, confident person i am

[Ceilidh.]

Yep. I got bullied from the start of high school to the end. I got called ugly a lot. People used to used to trip me up, push me, throw stuff at me and just be general ***** towards me.

It ruined my self-esteem and made my depression worse. I considered suicide a few times but (luckily) it never got to that stage.

[AgnesIO]

Honey,
trust me i've been thought it too...
I've gotten bullied last year, i got called emo, because I wore dark clothing, the only reason i wore it was because it expressed how i was feeling at the time because my parents were fighting and such, no one understood me, but soon after that, it stopped, you've just gotta stay strong, keep your head held high, and remember who you are... because, im sure, your a lovely person, who doesnt deserve it, one day , It'll all go away i promise <3 and they'll get karma. because, What you do to others, comes right around and hits you back harder, So dont worry hun.. Stay strong ,xx
-Love, miranda (:

p.s. If you ever need someone to talk to , I'm always here, just pm me :)

Nice post, although I disagree with the 'karma' bit.

[wiktoria]

I wouldn't class this as bullying but in year 7 this guy used to make fun out of me and called me polish all the time (I never like cried over it I just thought it was annoying) When I punched him in the face it all stopped.

[Ceilidh.]

My online friend recently made this video:

Warning: Song lyrics contain swearing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3NBwUqBdkck

She's an amazing person and got bullied a few times in her life. I hope her video will help some of you here <3

[buttons]

well i say you're only bullied if you let it bother you. i admit i was a victim and i really don't know why. just a group of 5 or 6 girls who disliked me and threatened me, never got physical but i skived a lot of classes cause of it then decided to become a rebel for defense. nevermind, every single one of them are drugged up, jobless losers. i've been a bully too when i was younger.

[karter]

I have been Bullied, and I was a Bully sometime as well.

In fact, I think we all are.. We say something about someone which they take too seriously.

I still get bullied though, they call me skinny *** and other things lol but I always tell myself that someone who isn't worth being in my life; his comment shouldn't be taken seriously...

[Snooki]

i think everyone has at some point in there life, yes:)