confused.

[PaulMacC]

Me and my girlfriend broke up April 20th. Since then we've been back and forth. Yesterday we went out as friends for a walk, ended up on a hill watching sunset and well yeah one thing lead to another and we were kissing again somehow. No idea how but she is so indecisive. She says she doesn't know what she wants to do and has so many doubts but it's just the fear of us ending again, do wat.

[Nemo]

Is it possible for you to cut contact with her completely?

[Ajthedragon]

www.match.com :rolleyes:

Na but seruiously give this girl another go, you obv's still have something. :P

[Hecktix]

I've been in this situation, everytime we met up something happened and after a while I asked about getting back together but she always came up with an excuse, then again we'd meet up and meet up and stuff would happen every time. In the end I just got sick of it and stopped seeing her and did my best to move on.

Not saying that your situation should end like that but I would be careful as girls can be very indecisive and over cautious, they will avoid stuff simply because they think they might get hurt.

[Nemo]

Is it possible for you to cut contact with her completely?
I take this back, doesnt matter whether you can or not, just get over her asap.

[PaulMacC]

I feel so depressed. Emotionally back and forth. I'm not even over her yet. I feel as if I need her in my life and that no other girlfriend that I'd ever get could replace her. Ha, call me crazy. I know everyone feels this though. Advice?

[Cwmbran]

if love to offer you some but ive been going through the same thing since january and i hate myself for it. If I was to give any advice it would be get out... Yet I can't do that myself.

[JerseySafety]

Give it a go. Obviously you still have something for each other.

and you broke up on my Bday lol :)

[..ValOwnsYou..]

give this girl another go, you obv's still have something. :P

I agree.. if it doesn't work out AGAIN then I suggest it's better off being friends.. or just get over her..

[Catzsy]

Maybe just have no expectations and just go with the flow for awhile and see what happens.

[FlyingJesus]

The longer you drag it out the worse it'll end up for both of you. That feeling that you need her and the situation as a whole (especially with her seemingly feeling the same way or at least very similarly) is called toxic love and won't ever do you any favours

Give this page (http://ezinearticles.com/?Toxic-Love-Relationships---How-to-Recognize-and-Escape-Them&id=1534917) a read, it's good for explaining what you're experiencing and how to try to get yourself out of the entanglement, which you ought to do asap because feeling low is just one of many ailments you can be afflicted with due to this sort of relationship

[Gibs960]

Either break contact completely or just go along with it but expect the worst (if you can).

[Wig44.]

I feel so depressed. Emotionally back and forth. I'm not even over her yet. I feel as if I need her in my life and that no other girlfriend that I'd ever get could replace her. Ha, call me crazy. I know everyone feels this though. Advice?

That's your problem.

Get over her before she wastes a lot of your time

[BlueEyedSarah]

Sounds like she is playing you emotinally buddy because she knows you take her back each time.